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The increasingly clinical and regimented state of the industry. While I understand many of the reasons for it nevertheless a great deal of the fun and adventure has been sucked out of the industry at large, to be replaced by an almost bureacratic detachment at times. This is my view of the...

Subtle. :D:D:D

I'd love to take the credit, but they aren't my ideas. These are real world solutions used by some of the more forward thinking and classy SPs I've encountered. Usually just one of a series of personal touches used to ensure that clients are happy and comfortable, and that they return. It's...

There are better, more diplomatic and tasteful ways than an alarm. For example, most men aren't averse to a little mood music. Having a music selection that lasts for a certain amount of time functions as an alarm. When the music is over then time is up. If the lady in question has a graceful...

The simple answer has already been covered. If you're on time then you've got an hour from when you walk through the door. Lateness on the part of either party not to be used to penalize the other, regardless of the cause. Having said that, there's a degree of reasonableness that comes with...

I don't consider bad breath to be in the same category as showering although it's certainly a hygiene issue. For both parties. Brush teeth/mouthwash/mints whatever. That's especially true for smokers. Applies to the girl too, of course. Sigh. I suppose we need to create the list of bad SP...

The appeal of Montreal used to be the large variety of cultural selection, a casual/flexible personal form of service, and great rates relative to other locations in North America. The rates are no longer competitive to the point that making a trip to Montreal makes sense economically and the...

Daytime or nighttime - doesn't matter Incall or outcall - incall At home or out of town - out of the country Solo* or duo - solo Short or long date - long date Local provider or touring provider - local, never touring Girl next door or glamour model - doesn't matter. It's all about attitude and...

I don't even understand how people have to think about this. SPs typically don't have change, and the reasons why they don't typically carry cash should be obvious to anybody. It's super easy to stop and pick up the right cash or get change. 5 minute detour at most even if you just do it on the...

Tipping is pushed to ridiculous levels here. The moreso because the mechanisms used to push it aren't necessarily service but shame and guilt. People are tired of it, and tired of being asked to tip for absolutely everything. Not only are they being pushed to tip, but they're being pushed to...

Yours and my original comments in the other thread got axed and then this one was merged, so we may have lost something in translation, but if you remember in the original comments I had talked about getting the lowdown on all the girls rules beforehand, and having to respect those if I was...

I do prefer those practices, and those places, and I do practice them there whenever I get the opportunity. However, I live here at the moment and I'm trying to come to some mental accommodations about the expectations of people here. I'm not attacking anyone here or asking anyone to change...

OK, so not really an ethics thing, but a social practice. thanks. Where did you ever get that impression? I actually wasn't really asking what the ladies thought, although I welcome the input. I stated in my OP what I expected the answer from them to be, and that's exactly what I got. I was...

I'm not at all surprised that people here seem to accept payment up front as the normal thing to do in this cultural environment, but I admit I am surprised to see someone say that it's the ethical thing to do. I'm curious to see what the underlying ethical argument is. Can you elaborate?

you actually might be surprised at how many people do not deliver the promised service and/or time promised. Add in emergency "I have to go" phone calls, and the various "oops" excuses and the possibilities for under-delivering services are virtually endless. Of course, most girls are reasonably...

Well, I was OM'd again and also invited to take what was a small portion of the conversation on telephones and discuss it elsewhere. So, here I am. The last of my 3 rules is quite simply that I don't pay in advance of the session. I pay at the end. If I can't do that then I don't book (or leave...

SPs have their personal rules, which I always ask about beforehand, and which if I book them I agree to respect, and I do, to the letter. I have 3 rules. No phone at all, period, no calling me "oh daddy" or "oh papi" and I pay at the end of the session, not before we start. I am very clear...

There's a bit of a cultural barrier to be crossed in order to get your head around this. People who monger here (or North America exclusively) tend to look at it as a lone wolf pastime, and generally refrain from lifting their heads up to be seen. If you travel abroad to monger then giant...

Absolutely fucking not. The instant that someone says "daddy" or "oh papi" to me then the session is over. If there is anything that can destroy the fantasy or make an SP seem totally insincere that's it. Unless specifically requested to do so IMHO an SP should never, ever do this. Most...