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You are asking the wrong question. What is the cause for most of these issues? Hint: what system? Patriarchy. (if someone disagrees with this basic fact, goodbye) Who set up that system? Men. Why are we still trapped under that system if it harms everyone? Men. If men feel it harms them...

Just say you like slim. "Healthy looking" doesn't mean anything. You cannot know a person's health status just by looking at them, so it's an assumption made based on nothing objective. What people will see as "healthy looking" also changes all the time and varies based on what the beauty...

Don't be sad. It's just time to discover new ways of doing things. Change is not a bad thing. Good things lie ahead, I promise. Explore new experiences and you'll be surprised to find out all the things you've never noticed before you shifted your priorities. Trust me, it means more, not less...

Lol I have never done this, I generally avoid the topic of other clients entirely but it's human nature, we all say dumb shit at the wrong time at some point. Mine? Well the one most recently that I still want to kick myself for? Pre Sexy times chat, I brought up my frigging colonoscopy trauma...

I think I'm going to post this in a new thread and ask the mods to pin it because I've reposted it so many times lol https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/vos-avez-pas-peur.42747/post-1537190

Actually, that's a pretty good one. I'd vote for it.

Is that what she means? Guidoune is a sex worker? Or like old québécois speak for slut shaming someone who's not technically a sex worker but seen as a little too much? Lol

Ah, so sorry to disappoint. Unfortunately racist trope wasn't an option. Try again. So much to choose from :)

Guidoune is kind of like pitoune lol

Totally makes sense to use the term that you feel most comfortable with. Will also depends who you are talking to. The term whore is used by a lot of sex workers referring to themselves, including myself - in specific circumstances. But it's never acceptable for anyone else to use is...

I was trying to translate this into English to a friend and couldn't find the right words. I don't think guidoune is equivalent to sex worker. Like we used to say some guy was "un Gino", guidoune probably goes back even more. Maybe it used to mean sex worker then but when we used the word it...

I did a keyword search on Tryst and "natural": a) is used A LOT b) is mostly not about body hair c) is used in just about any kind of context (heavily tattooed, enhanced boobs, and 99 other ways) Conclusion: a) it doesn't really mean much b) it has many meanings but it has no specific...

Yes but this is new. Not that long ago, there was no one with body hair, and the word "Natural" was used. What did it mean for all these years? I often use it in the title, so it will usually not be preceded by or followed with any stats, it's usually paired with the word Redhead. Quick...

BJ's are like art (well. they are art). There is no single 'correct' way. I don't think men realize that you don't universally like the same kind of BJ. There are different styles and the "correct" way for you might be disappointing to someone else who likes a completely different style of BJ...

I don't think there's one magic solution as there are many causes. But I do think it needs to be called out when it happens publicly, you witness it or you become aware. Some men feel emboldened because they don't think there are consequences and when people don't speak up they interpret it as...

Yes and no because as I've mentioned elsewhere, people are often more sophisticated than that and don't share who they are on merb. So the harassment happens away from merb and often no way to connect back to someone's profile. So you're proof that it's not revealing one's handle that's the...

Except that's already condemned and policed. It also doesn't have comparable consequences. No offence but that's kind of pulling a "whataboutism" without addressing the actual issue. xo

Wild. I actually remember her. That's when I lived in Vancouver but would visit once in a while and I remember chatting with her a few times. She was a superstar from what I remember lol Please don't perpetuate this belief about lube. Lube is safer for condom use and better for pleasure...

I would have put myself on the no review list years ago if I didn't think some people (probably with no plans to ever see me) would get butthurt because I'm advertising and posting on a review board at the same time :D lol (I don't even know if they'd allow it for that reason but I've never...

So, meet her and share info? :p