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It's disenchanting when you're starting in the hobby to find out just how dishonest it can be. It gets more complicated later as you go from just saying liar/honest to mostly liar, mostly honest. There's quite often a gray area. What is absolutely true is that you shouldn't have to ask for or...

please see #42.

None to mine either, unfortunately. lol. :)

Sorry if that wasn't clear. My fault entirely, as I'm used to using terms that don't necessarily get used in Montreal. A "ground zero" environment is one in which all the SPs and their clients gather in a single spot, usually a bar, so there's no need to pre-shop for company. They are often...

Luna, when I mentioned that originally, I specified that it was in a hotel ground zero environment, which wouldn't apply to any of you ladies. While it certainly seems to be true for at least some of them nobody seriously thinks that drunks would generally be better for you or your colleagues...

Once upon a time, for a short time, yes.That was the least important experience with respect to what I was discussing though.

At the risk of pointing out the obvious there's lots of stuff that doesn't make its way into reviews, particularly and especially with respect to the ladies who post here regularly. Also stating what everyone already knows is that huge volumes of information flow only in the back channels and...

You would be incorrect. I've had hundreds of occasions where I've had to remove clients from a situation they were enjoying or wished to linger in to somewhere else, on the clock. Basic principles are the same regardless if the industry. I have also had the pleasure of being with ladies who...

I don't think I've ever winked like that ever in my life. lol

Not if you guide them properly. It can be done diplomatically and smoothly without having to be over-subtle

When I started I was only concerned with the physical interaction and now I'm much more concerned with the overall experience, including the social interactions. I'm also conscious of hundreds of little things now that I would never have noticed when I started, I think it makes me both more...

No answering the phone during sessions. By preference the phone should be turned off. No alarms! If you need soemthing like an alarm use a timed light or a specific point in a musical selection, or something like that, that is less jarring and invasive to the client, and much more subtle...

1) A text to the client after the session saying that you enjoyed meeting him or the session with him. A small gesture requiring virtually no effort, but makes a huge difference in client perception 2) People who grew up in Montreal tend to take bilingualism for granted, but it's easy to forget...

In the "we don't need your money" thread Lena had pointed out that we shouldn't co-mingle the SP interaction improvement thread with the same for a client thread, and that people keep talking about this for the guys but never write one (I believe us being lazy or chicken was mentioned. lol. Just...

It's been a while since the "what are you? chicken?" thing has had much of an effect on me, but I thought it was funny anyway. lol. I understand that you weren't writing about me specifically, and thanks for clarifying that. I can see from your comment that what I said came across more...

I think the opposite of curves in the right places would be "no curves in the right places", as opposed to "curves in the wrong places". :)

It is the norm "ish", I think, in the sense that most guys don't intentionally present themselves badly or try to mistreat the ladies they see, but there's enough of the other kind that the ladies here would like to remind you boys that you have some work to do in order to be "ideal" clients, or...

This isn't going to anything even close to what you're looking for, but I've had several girls tell me that they like clients who are absolutely drunk off their ass (in a hotel ground zero environment) because they can go up to the room and usually either the guy immediately passes out when he...

in town for a single session, 30mins. More than that in town and it's not worth it for me.

I'm very careful about who I discuss what with, but I have formed relationships. I have about 4-5 close friends who are also mongers, so it's not really sharing outside the industry, per se. We know each other other and where we live, we see each other socially when the possibility is there...