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It doesn't suprise me, but to say that is good to hear from someone like you is an understatement :) I was really chewed up inside, I coudln't get an erection for a full day AFTER either. It took that long for me to calm down or whatever needed to happen. Thanks again, BP

I know what you mean. I think I am getting over it though. One thing for sure, if I do see her again, it will be AFTER I see someone else. But she really was amazing so I would like to make it work next time :) I feel like a whole different person now, with a way better attitude towards sex...

Thanks for the comment and the encouragement. That is why I need a shift in my thinking. And in fact I might not want GFE at all any more. I mean why try to make it into a play? I am wondering now if the GFE part of it is in fact what the problem was. It couldn't be real enough for me to...

nail on the head You got it. What I see now from this is that it IS a good thing to separate Sex and other feelings. Not to be cold, but because that is how it really is. You don't always want to have sex with someone you love after all. So for me I just need to figure out how to do that. It...

sorry about the double post It errored when I posted to the Lounge at first, but it must have went through.

Hi, I have spent hours reading over the many threads here and see that there are a lot of intellegent thoughtful people of all kinds here with a great deal more experence than me. This weekend I went to an SP for the first time. Why? I have been separated for about 8 months now and have had...

Hi, I have spent hours reading over the many threads here and see that there are a lot of intellegent thoughtful people of all kinds here with a great deal more experence than me. This weekend I went to an SP for the first time. Why? I have been separated for about 8 months now and have had...