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I think decriminalization would help greatly for everyone's safety. Also realistic education about sex work.. not glamorization. I have personal ideas about what the ideal conditions would be for both agency escorts and indies. I think they are connected at the end of the day. I don't think...

It wasn't a great year for me, but at this moment I feel like I'm generally happy with the direction I'm heading towards.. things are starting to make a bit more sense. I have a trip planned to Isla Mujeres in Mexico, for the first week of December, I'm really excited about that. :) I have a...

It's more complicated than that. I think there are different ''spaces'' in this industry and different practices, different client bases.. Depending on where you work, how you work and who you are, what clients perceive you as, you will have a different experience in the industry. I think that's...

you're late to the party.. there's a whole other thread about this

Yeah I know these people exist, and I disagree with them.. My point was just that you can express that you've been victim of bad treatments in the industry without holding that viewpoint, or without implying that you are a victim because you exchanged money for sex to begin with. Saying you...

Did I say otherwise? Yes you can be a victim of violence everywhere, but this industry includes intimacy and a lot of secrecy. That's pretty easy to understand. Once again I want to mention that not all or even most clients are violent.. but some are.

You can also be a victim of violence within the industry, without being an overall victim just because you're a sex worker. Two things can be true. You can consent to certain things, and have your consent taken away by certain individuals. You can also end up doing things you didn't want to do...

It's how journalism works yes, to a degree, but that's still a bias and the way he contacted people in the industry didn't show his true intentions.. It's not just agencies that are shown in this episode, and the way they are exposing this "bad side" makes it hard for anyone involved to take it...

Good morning! I'm taking bookings for this weekend. :)

Yes I see what you mean but her story is still very confusing to me. It doesn't seem like she had a lot of street smarts when she began. She explains that she was a people pleaser with a hard time saying no, very naive and sheltered too.. and that she had another image of what this industry...

That's true. I think it does make people think twice, and it can also be a red flag if somebody refuses minimal screening, in my opinion.. If you don't want to screen you have other options anyways.

I agree but at the same time, why is it mandatory in the first place? If it wasn't mandatory at any agency, things would be very different. Only the girls who truly want to do it, would be offering it. Also I agree that it should be YMMV. I know this isn't something people here want to hear...

If you look at other interviews with her, she says that she initially started as a sugar baby, and she didn't know she would have to sleep with men.. which unfortunately used to be common. She was assaulted by one of the guys, then she revealed that to another ''daddy'' who told her that she...

It's sensationalist for sure. That doesn't mean this fucked up doctor doesn't exist tho.. I also suspect that guys who seek "barely legal"' girls aren't the most chill dudes. But yeah it's impossible that all clients of agencies are that bad. I'm pretty pissed overall tho lol. This journalist...

The difference is that paying for auxiliary services isn't the same as having an employer. These people are working for you. But it is true that if you work for an agency someone is taking care of admin work for you.

Yes I just said that "radical feminists" are harmful for us.. being friendly to sex workers rights and pro decriminalization is progressive and anchored in reality. What I'm saying is that these "radical feminists" secretly hold similar beliefs as conservative evangelists and share similar...

When I say ''conservative'' I'm not talking about the Canadian political party, I'm talking about what conservative Christian values usually represent. Most political parties have a wide variety of beliefs, some are progressive and some are less progressive. If it is more right leaning, it will...

I briefly looked at their website... I don't want to look into it too much... and yes they claim to be a feminist organization. But I'm not talking about ''conservatives'' as in the conservative party. I meant that it is inherently conservative in values to be against sex work. Radical feminism...

Which feminist organizations? A lot of these organizations are not really ''feminist organizations''. They are supposedly ''anti trafficking organizations'', that's not the same as a ''feminist organization''. And a lot of them are misinformed, they target the entire industry instead of actually...