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Your explanation shows that you are not using them and that you understand you're paying for more than just sex too

I think it's all about checking for signs too, and having realistic expectations. I know personally sometimes I'm afraid of saying I want a break because I'm afraid the client won't come back if he booked a long date or if he's a repeat client... or even worse that I'll get a bad review.. On my...

I agree and this is why this discussion is so important. I don't think the point is to say "sex work is bad" or "all agencies have always been bad and always will be". It's more "let's make sure we understand the worth of the service we are paying for, and how to treat a lady with respect". I...

I also think sex is generally something that happens between two people who are in love but I still don't think my clients are using me. Unless they are. And I'm experienced enough at this point to understand when someone is trying to take advantage of me..

Je pense personnellement que l'usage de drogue n'est pas un sujet hyper pertinent ici. Mais c'est vrai que j'ai entendu dire que à certains endroits les filles sont encouragées à consommer. La consommation est aussi répandue dans les lieux de travail comme les salons.. voici ma remarque ...

It's not the first time an agency or massage parlour gets dismantled and honestly aside from here I've heard nobody talk about this at all. Yes these stories cause outrage but people have a short attention span and ultimately the public doesn't really care about sex workers

Read my question again. If there was no stigma or abuse, why would you not want your child to be a sex worker? I'm not trying to convince you that you should say you'd love it if your child was.. let's reframe this. If you found out your child was a sex worker, wouldn't you want her working...

That still doesn't answer my question.. Why do you think you are using women by paying them? If a woman puts up an escort ad, with her limits and boundaries, and you as a client book her, treat her very well and respect her. Why is this using her? Can you explain in your own words why you...

Unpopular opinion. I don't think Orange Julep is that great lol

J'ai été en contact avec d'autres personnes qui ont travaillé chez XO depuis avant hier et elles témoignent de trucs similaires, mais ne veulent pas s'en mêler. Je suis d'accord pour dire que chaque agence n'est pas la même. Mais je pense aussi que c'est important de se rappeler que, même si...

What is the problem, in your own words?

The quality of fast food restaurant chains has gone downhill in the past 20 years.. If I want a poutine or hamburger I head to a trusted local diner. (I still wish we had a Taco Bell again in Montreal)

It's honestly very depressing, but nothing that surprises me. I participate in discussions like these on this forum once in a while because I feel like it's important for clients to know the truth and have a nuanced perspective. Maybe that makes me annoying. It is incredibly disheartening and...

You feel like you're using women as a john? What makes you feel that way? I don't feel used by my clients. I have been assaulted and coerced and manipulated by clients in the past. But now most of what happens is consensual, most appointments are full of joy or at least an atmosphere of...

The fact that the media wants to portray SWrs as passive victims and clients as predators doesn't make this story false. Also two things can be true. Someone can choose to be a sex worker, and still get abused or exploited sometimes or often. Someone can have good clients, but maybe had a lot...

Tu trouve ça désolant de savoir la vérité? Moi je trouve que les clients ici qui continuent à défendre l'agence et traiter les filles de menteuses n'aident pas leur cause. Vous dites qu'en disant la vérité et en parlant d'abus on donne raison aux radfem abolitionnistes.. en fait c'est en ayant...

I agree with you, but that doesn't mean everything is a lie. To me it's perfectly realistic that she joined seeking arrangements without knowing she would have to have sex with men, because a lot of girls I know made that mistake. Some ended up in the sex industry later, some just put that idea...

I agree.. but that doesn't mean she didn't experience this type of thing. A lot of girls I know who worked for agencies told me similar things.. at first they got the worst clients particularly when they were young.. and some agency and spa owners never ban clients unless something really bad...

It does seem like there's an agenda behind the interview but I don't think she should be called a liar. It's despicable that people are insinuating this. She was a victim. I don't think it's good to portray all clients as bad either but calling girls who experience abuse liars doesn't exactly...

This is getting really exhausting lol. Whatever. Believe whatever you want to believe, guys.