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One reason why I hobby is that I simply don't have the "fire in the belly" to pursue real-life romance and all it entails, potentially good and bad. That might change downstream but I'm basically from the George Clooney school regarding remarriage ("been there, done that, don't want to do it...

One aspect about this hobby is that you can take all kinds of steps to minimize risk but you can never completely eliminate it. It's a contact sport, so to speak. Risk comes with the turf. Someone out there had to write that initial review of Samy, formerly of First Time and now an indie. Same...

Having Children When I was going through my separation/divorce, I decided to take a parenting skills class. What struck me was how tremendously devoted these men and women were to their children. You could see the pain and anguish in the faces of some who related that they could only visit...

Sean Combs' $21,000/month child support payment came straight from the New York Child Support Worksheet, I'd gather. Her attorney probably sought out every monthly income stream controlled by Mr. Combs and then compared it to the mother's monthly income. I bet that P.Diddy controls 99.9% of the...

regnad, I agree 100% with you that marriage can be rich and rewarding if you're with the right woman. We all have our reasons for hobbying. In an ideal world, there wouldn't be a 50% divorce rate and lots of broken families and grieving kids. Life partners aren't necessarily easy to find and...

Interesting commentary, dudemtl. I know a guy in his mid-20s who has legit GQ model looks and has never lacked for female attention. After he headed off to college, high school chicks 2-3 years younger than him used to pursue him as their prom dates. He's had a steady girlfriend for a couple...

Since my divorce, I have fielded many many questions as to whether I was dating anyone or whether I wanted to remarry. Inquiring male and female minds want to know, alas. But I'm not going to tell them anything about my hobbying, LOL. As the Mafia saying goes, "Silence never betrayed a man." On...

Memories of a Sophie Marceau lookalike in Amsterdam Any of you who hobbied in Amsterdam in the 1999-2001 period might very well remember a Sophie Marceau lookalike named Anne (pronounced Annie). She was a legend on the ignatzmice message forum (do a google search). Problem was that she became...

I was channel surfing tonight and a TV program was being shown on The Discovery Channel about sex addiction. Interesting program about both men and women who were obsessed with sex and their use of the internet, in some cases, fed that addiction. Some of the cases were extreme and rather sad. A...

Giving Out Personal Data to an Escort There are different schools of thought on a guy giving out personal data to a lady. I know one lady in the USA who screens very very carefully. She has a day job and a career. And she entertains at her apartment. Her emails might come across as somewhat...