Do you like older Sps?

[Reboot]

By older, I mean around 30 or so. I know that's not old, but since more sps are in their early 20s and that's what most guys want, in this industry it is.

I have never met an older sp and I think I would feel more comfortable. I am sure they are more comfortable with their work, know what to do and how to do it and adapt to a lot of different types of clients.

But what I am afraid of, is that if they have been in this business for a long time, it might mean they might be addicts that can't get other jobs that pay as much or they might be in it for the money only and be jaded and not caring about their clients.

I know this can be the case at any age, I am not THAT dumb But I guess if you work for a long time in this business, you might be more at risk to develop those defense mechanisms or attitude problem. Of course, I am more talking about agency women, here. Those who work a lot. Most indies manage themselves pretty well and by doing a lot less clients, they probably have a better chance to keep a healthy mind (and body).

I also have seen lots of strippers and escorts in real life who, past 25, look like they are 40. Seems to happen a lot more than other 25 yo women.

So, am I generalizing in a bad way? I am thinking of calling some older sps, but most of them are not indies because those I would like are too expensive. And since I can't see their face and can't tell if the pics are recent, I am afraid to get a bad surprise.

 

[lougazebo]

I have tried both ( young $ olders) and i have seen very horny girls in both age and bad one too. Fhe best way to chose an sp is the make some research and read the reviews of the girls before calling anywhere. As for me, i don't call for a girl unless i can find some review that describe what kind of service she offers. I know that maybe i'm missing probably a lot of nice girls, but they are not all good or bad. I 'm just don't want to take chances, because when i pick a very bad girl, usualy I take a break from sp for a long time before i come back to sp's.

 

[simonpaul]

Generally i prefer mature SP ,they have more expérience and they know how to please much better.

 

[saltydog]

I like women. That about covers it.

 

[Frogboy]

As a guy in my late 20's , I am not at ease seeing girls in their early to mid 20's. Probably mostly because 1) girls that age are basically my whole sex life outside of SPs and 3) a higher percentage of 30+ SPs cater to my needs and preferences (enhanced breasts, tanned mature look etc). So yes I do like slightly older SPs

 

[UncleBob]

Answer to the question in title: NO

I've seen about 2 really great SPs in the range in question here, one was 27-28 and the other 32. The one at 32 was VERY pretty. the other one was Cute ground with great service. I've seen both multiple times.
But they were exception to the rule... I prefer from far younger ladies.
Other meetings I had with 28 y.o. + ladies were dispointing. Raunchy Voice, Saggy Tits, Stretch Marks, Average service...
There are probably excellent MILFs on merb indy section, but too expensive or not my type.

I noted that many Girls in the escort scene (Not ALL obviously) are heavy smokers and take different range of drugs or had kids and this affect their appearance after they pass the late twenties, early thirties...
Also, they tend to get some surgeries for many of them...

The freshness of a young natural body has the effect of Viagra on me. It get me hard really fast.
Then for me to reach the "O", I also need a good service, which surprisingly, many young girl can deliver as well as and even better than some eperienced SPs.

I had the best sex of my life with 18-22 y.o. SPs.
And I would say I had the best encounters this year of 2014...

 

[Merlot]

Gents,

Other meetings I had with 28 y.o. + ladies were dispointing. Raunchy Voice, Saggy Tits, Stretch Marks, Average service...

I had the best sex of my life with 18-22 y.o. SPs.

Well, if your preferred range is 18 to 22 years old it seems practically impossible that there could be such a big decline in just 6 years, even if we are talking about escorts who have been very active in this business. We know that some ladies can burn out emotionally in a fairly short time in this industry, but raunchy voice, saggy tits, stretch marks by 28 makes it seem they've gone particularly hard with smoking, drinking, possible drugs, and overall failure to take care of themselves. I would barely consider 28 years old to even start the "older" classification.

Like nearly everyone else I gravitate toward ladies under 28 years of age for natural reasons on the average odds of being in better shape. But I don't put any lady outside of my interest only because of an age number. I've met a some over 40 and if anything was not appealing it didn't have anything to do with looks or what kind of shape they were in. I'd kill to find a 40 year old fitness type with great sensual courtesan skills. Of course they know their monetary value, which makes it tougher still.

Having met one lady at the age of about 23 and then seeing her for about 7 years everything got better overall not worse. It was really a matter of how she thought about herself and took care of herself. You could say that may have been because of our comfort level together by the end of those years, but I think we reached that level well before the end of the 2nd year and maybe by the end of the 1st. So in our case her getting older didn't have any negative affect, things got better physically as well as in techniques.

Overall, being attractive depends a lot on the attitude and emotional state of the lady. Sure age has inevitable effects, but that can be put off noticeably depending on the person. And, even if someone looks their age at 35, 40, that can be a great thing. There's plenty of older women who give me more arousal than the average young cutie doll.

Yeah, ladies between 18 to 22 are definitely going to provide you with better odds of a certain freshness and vitality. Still, I have had a much higher percentage of mediocre experience with them than the "older" ladies wherever you mark their age.

Good luck,

Merlot

 

[danibbler]

Due to one fantastic experience, I prefer older SPs and seek them out first.

 

[HornyForEver]

But what I am afraid of, is that if they have been in this business for a long time, it might mean they might be addicts that can't get other jobs that pay as much or they might be in it for the money only and be jaded and not caring about their clients.

Women start escorting at all ages. You may find an SP in her forties who has been just escorting for a couple of years. I would not be concerned about this point.

 

[Reboot]

HornyForEver, I know. In fact, that's why I said "IF they have been in this business for a long time". But there are really no way for me to know for a fact if she did it for 15 years or 2 years. Unless there are old and new reviews of them, which is not often the case or I remember seeing them in ads for a while, which does not mean she wasn't working where I wasn't looking.

Besides, anyone can have raspy voices, looking tired all the time and seems like life wasn't too kind with her just looking at her face. She doesn't have to have been escorting for a long time, just have a difficult life and not taking too much care of herself. And that's why I am hesitant in booking some of them. And as someone already said, if they are older and still look great and act classy, they most probably know it, go indy and charge a bit more than agencies.

But I am 100% sure there ARE some of them who are great looking, classy, really nice, know what they're doing and work for agencies or aren't 300$. I am just finding it difficult to find who without going in blind, since most of them are not reviewed or were reviewed a long time ago. And those I found with reviews, usually the thread (made a few years earlier) starts great and ends not that good, at least looks wise.

 

[HornyForEver]

I used to book mostly older women some years ago. Older meant, they were in their forties and older than me. It seems like women reach their sexual climax in their early forties. I have met (and occasionally) meet SPs in their 50s. I had my best and wildest experiences with those. People looking for just a tight pussy will go the 18 years old route. I had very few experiences with young SPs. Some of them were good, others forgettable. Many mature indies who advertise here are in the 200$ price range.

 

[CaraSilverMontreal]

This makes me sad I can't believe I qualify as 'older' being only 30. That being said, older SPs are awesome! Sometimes women have been in the business for many years by choice, not for lack of options or drug-addiction. This is a kickass job!

Sincerely, Cara "Old Lady" Silver

 

[TheDon]

It's weird, I've been with older SPs when I was younger and they were great.

Now that I am older, I like them younger.

 

[Reboot]

This makes me sad I can't believe I qualify as 'older' being only 30. That being said, older SPs are awesome! Sometimes women have been in the business for many years by choice, not for lack of options or drug-addiction. This is a kickass job!

Sincerely, Cara "Old Lady" Silver

Glad to hear that! I don't know if you're in the minority or the majority, but just knowing a few of you exist makes me glad I could be wrong. And I hate being wrong, but in this case, I hope I am

Also, "older" doesn't mean old. Take me for an example. I am almost twice the age of most of the people I work with and nobody understands when I make joke about or references things of my youth. But really, does that mean I am old or just that they are younger but I am still young? Anybody? Ok, I'll go cry in a corner and come back later.

 

[emmaalexandra]

As cara said this is a kickass job...I'm 46..so i'm a much older escort. I don't do drugs nor do i drink. I do this work because I love it.
Your right REboot older doesn't mean old..it just means more experience. :smile:

 

[johnybird]

As long as there is some form of attraction, then age or body type isn't really an issue for me.

 

[Atlante 007]

I don't mind, if she still in good shape and attractive. I met some mature SP who gave a great service and some a bad one.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Yes Patron, all aspects of sex are nicer with experience...

 

[HornyForEver]

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Your right REboot older doesn't mean old..it just means more experience. :smile:

Not quite so. You make it sound like older SPs is the route to go and is always a win situation. I more see it like a tradeoff between quality of service and physical attributes. One has to set the right balance between these 2 usually-contradicting criteria. We are talking about the common cases, but there might be exceptions. There are young SPs with good experience, young SPs with an old look, mature SPs with great bodies and mature SPs who provide a sloppy service.

 

[tiannas]

Do the "older" providers agree with the intercourse being more enjoyable as they get older premise?

Hell ya! Honestly, I didn't even enjoy sex in my twenties. Hit 30 and all of a sudden it started getting good...I became multi-orgasmic and my sex drive went nuts. Now I joke that when it comes to orgasms during intercourse, I am a machine, lol!