Red Paul said:
How do you handle it when the girl wants to keep talking and you want to get started?
And which kinds of girls tend to be delayers? I'd say anglophone college girls for sure. Any others?
Hello Red Paul,
This does not apply in my experience. For me, it has been the high end so-called "elite" ladies who are more likely to do this. Their operational strategy seems to be to create a clientele interested in long encounters with a "date experience" having a long build up to the intimacy that includes dinner. They hope this type of encounter will be a minimum of 4-6 hours. They will accept a two-hour encounter to entice new prospective clients, or just to fill vacant time, or if the agency is just starting out and needs to build a loyal client base. Fine. This is all good business strategy. But too much delaying during a shorter 2-hour encounter can also be a cheat in the view of clients.
Generally, high end ladies and some independents seem to consider the atmosphere and their mere presence as an important part of the fulfillment of the arrangement. The sexual element for them is given in proportional allotments of time matching the longer "date experience" framework...even if you have only arranged for two hours. This was what happened to me when I met one very well known independent, now retired; and with a repeat encounter at FKS, and at other high end agencies.
sexxxymtl said:
Personally the way that I like to have a gentleman tell me that he's done with the chit chat and ready for action is this way... Caress my body and then passion takes over.... It's a friendly and easy way to show that you are now interested sexually... And then well if you have the unfortunately luck of getting someone who wants to complete there sentence.... Just kiss her... lol....
With some ladies this does not work by their design. Getting back to that independent...she talked for about 90 minutes of a two-hour arrangement. Yes, she was very beautiful, elegant, and charming. Had I the funds and the time to enjoy this sort of date type of encounter there would have been nothing wrong with it. But, having only two hours, talking for 90 minutes was unreasonable. I did give her gentle clear signals of light caresses since I am not the kind who would just say "alright lets move on". Maybe I should be. She ignored signals twice and then when the intimate time came it was ..."we've got 15 minutes, what do you want to do? I need 10 minutes to shower before our time is up." Well, maybe I was very foolish not to make an argument about this, but I just decided to not see her again.
This kind of thing can happen to anyone with any lady at any level for many reasons. My advice is, if you feel it's a reasonable time to move on to the intimacy in view of the time frame, and she fails to take a clear gentle signal...be crass. Tell her it's time to move on. If she then fails to move on, ask her to leave, pay her for her time (1/2 the donation rate up to that time), and write an honest and accurate review. It's fine to be a gentleman and end it gracefully. But it's also very expensive to take it on the chin. If she doesn't want to admit what you really called her for, then
ask her to move on...or get out.
By the way...I still think independents are the best overall. Lilly Lombard and Miss Samantha are incredible.
Cheers,
Merlot
