Has porn affected the hobby

[Mike Mercury]

Ha!

Porn has certainly affected a hell of a lot of us.
I for one would never have thought of certain things untill I saw them in main stream porn.

Cum on face, bukake. Double penetrations. Fisting. Fire hydrant sized dildos.
All that fcking anal, it's almost impossible to get a film without anal.

What's my point?
The poor SP. The client could be some uptight guilt ridden religously oppressed mouse of a man or it could be some guy with a suitcase, a menu, a gallon of lube and gyno electrical mechanics license.

 

[hankypanky]

Its much bigger than just the hobby. Its also the reason why many go hobbying in the first place.

 

[Techman]

What, are you trying to tell me that what goes on in porn movies is not the way it is between husbands and wifes in bedrooms all over north america

My ex used to make porn flics seem like disney movies. Damn I miss her sometimes.

I think if porn has any effect at all it would be to increase interest in the hobby. Especially here in Montreal where Crescent St, downtown in general actually, on a Saturday night is filled with young ladies who look like they are ready to either jump into a porn film or have just walked out of one. For older men, like myself, it gives us a taste to have the experience of a hot younger companion.

For younger guys...well they really don't need any incentives do they? And besides, they should be out there on Crescent picking up the young hotties in the bars instead of paying for it anyways. But maybe it gives the less experienced ones some ideas of what to try when they do get one of these ladies alone.

 

[korbel]

Probably the porn industry is showing some acts than not everybody could even imagine....and, that way, may give to some the willing to try those "kinky" exchanges, or services (sévices...???)...and be the principal engine of all the industry....( that could be as simple to just to be able to have a bj.....)

And, tertio, i'm not aware, historically, what was basically, the evolution of all the "acts" that it was typical to share during a session, in comparaison as today, but, i read here that changed a lot since many years... and i am really sure that the fact that we can see some particular exchange in almost all the movies (greek, often deepthroad, cum in face, double penetration....) and maybe more lately ( Milf, squirting is becoming more popular, am i wrong???)... We see often men asking for that on Merb... So, where do men are taking their ideas about that??? Probably not in their families or at work...and neither in their dreams...
To say that with a basical example: How could i have the taste to eat chocolate if i never try it, and nobody told me about???

Hello all,

All considered, the porn industry has affected all of us, from what we think we should get to the requests and expectations the SP has to deal with. It sure has affected me. The range of things I might have tried with an SP and what was perceived as acceptable in my mind has expanded...up to a point. However, I have not been one of those who has mistakenly expanded the definition of GFE based on porn movies. For some it seems that they are so used to accepting what they view in those films as normal that they now see all or most of the movie acts as standard fare for SP services. In many posts on the definition of GFE many seem unable or unwilling to distinguish what they see in porn films from what they should expect from an SP encounter. Then they may also decry being asked to pay extra money if an SP is willing to perform those acts. They forget that pornstars get paid based on acts they agree to perform. Well, we can all try to get what we want, but that doesn't certain acts are part of normal expectations. Maybe there is no harm in asking. But clients should realize the porn world and the SP world are not the same, and just because you desire it doesn't make it "standard".

Be real,

Korbel

 

[korbel]

Just adding another personnal thought....

The thing that i found very sad, sometimes, generally speaking, is we`re losing all the sensuality part and the celebration of raising the desire of each others... Some desires seems to be artificially create...and the human in front of you may doesn`t matter...Is the satisfaction to be able to perform some acts that overcount on everything...Am i wrong??? ( and this is an everyday woman question, in fact...)

I never create a poll..but, i may be interested to know what count the most, in differents acts, and also, in differents attitudes, moods, ambience...

What make an intimate meeting remarkable?? The way she makes you feel, or the way she`s doing the last kinky thing "en vogue"????

Bonjour/Hola Maria,

Actually, I did this sort of poll not too long ago. It may not address all of your concerns specifically, but I think it covers them fairly well.

https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=35362&highlight=poll+korbel

I hope I rate well enough on the sensuality scale ...but I can`t help getting carried away with your magnetism....

Warm Kisses,

Korbel