Your standing in front of the hotel, when suddenly you see a girl being dropped off. It's pretty apparent she's an SP as you are staying at a well know hotel where SP's are often called. You only wish you could ask her where she works or wether she's an Indie, but the shyness just takes over you. Then you think perhaps it was best not to ask which could have drawned unnessary attention. But then you feel like you just missed an opportunity as this girl was exactly your type and really attractive. Well it just happened to me, and I still feel like I should of said something, but really feel like perhaps I did the right thing of not saying anything, even though I really just wanted to know. What would you do?
Has this ever happened to you before?
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You did absolutely the right thing by saying nothing. She’s an escort, not a streetwalker.
Not that there’s anything wrong with that!
You can figure it out, possibly. You know what the girl looks like, you look at the top 5-10 agency websites and see who is on today. Most of them have pics of who is on. Match up the girl with the pic, once positive ID is made, call or text agency and ask if that girl was at your hotel. I have made positive IDs this way in the past. If the cops can ID criminal suspects, you should be able to ID an escort suspect using the research tools that are available: websites, pics, etc. Could be important to remember what she was wearing as that would eliminate any doubt when you text agency operator to confirm, also noting the time and place of the sighting.
Colombo was able to solve murders with very sparse clues compared to the evidence you have. And you certainly do not need to be Colombo to figure this out. However, using the same methodology as Colombo could assist you, so always think of one more thing to ask:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QxBnaMGP2aY
I was at a recent party and I started chatting with a very sexy and hot blond bartender.
She was flirty and I was horny. Knowing she was not in the sex trade, I still asked her if she had ever thought of having a sugar daddy.
She laughed and replied no..... but now that I`d mentioned it....maybe one day.
I gave her my number and asked her to text me if she wants to discuss it further over sushi.
She may or may not text but at least I`ll have no regrets since I gave it my best shot
BTW some of you guys who attended VIP10 saw and raved about the same bartender.
How many of you had the balls or death wish to ask her out on a date?
She was flirty and I was horny. Knowing she was not in the sex trade, I still asked her if she had ever thought of having a sugar daddy.
She laughed and replied no..... but now that I`d mentioned it....maybe one day.
I gave her my number and asked her to text me if she wants to discuss it further over sushi.
She may or may not text but at least I`ll have no regrets since I gave it my best shot
BTW some of you guys who attended VIP10 saw and raved about the same bartender.
How many of you had the balls or death wish to ask her out on a date?
I think it was one of those Damned if you do and Damned if you don't situation. I still think I made the right decision by not saying anything, even though an hour later I looked out the window and saw her being picked up which confirmed my original gutt feeling. I did go through a list of agencies to see if perhaps her description matched what I saw, unfortunately to no avail.
Cloudsurf,
I deeply regret not having done the same around 6 months ago. I was on a Seeking Arrangement date, and got to the restaurant around 45 minutes early, before my date, wanting to have a few drinks at the bar. The bartender was a smoking hot college student, racially mixed girl, looked hispanic mainly. We chatted amicably about her studies and interests for a while. At some point she noticed I had a gift bag on the empty barstool next to mine, and asked me if it was someone's birthday. I just said "no", and steered the conversation elsewhere. Later on, I played the conversation back in my head, went into Cloudsurf mode, and heavily regretted not having taken a shot by simply telling her I was on a Sugar Daddy date and asking her if she had ever been on one. If I had been thinking properly, as I should have been - as a professional client, so to speak - I would have done it. It wasn't that I lacked the nerve, I just did not do a good job thinking on my feet at that moment. I did go back to the bar a few times looking for her but never saw her again. I think she was working an odd shift for someone else. I may take another shot this weekend but she is probably gone from that job. Sometimes you gotta take a shot in a situation like that because you never know what will happen and you have nothing, nothing, nothing to lose by asking a girl if she ever went on a SD date. Worst thing that happens is she says no and ends the conversation there.
I deeply regret not having done the same around 6 months ago. I was on a Seeking Arrangement date, and got to the restaurant around 45 minutes early, before my date, wanting to have a few drinks at the bar. The bartender was a smoking hot college student, racially mixed girl, looked hispanic mainly. We chatted amicably about her studies and interests for a while. At some point she noticed I had a gift bag on the empty barstool next to mine, and asked me if it was someone's birthday. I just said "no", and steered the conversation elsewhere. Later on, I played the conversation back in my head, went into Cloudsurf mode, and heavily regretted not having taken a shot by simply telling her I was on a Sugar Daddy date and asking her if she had ever been on one. If I had been thinking properly, as I should have been - as a professional client, so to speak - I would have done it. It wasn't that I lacked the nerve, I just did not do a good job thinking on my feet at that moment. I did go back to the bar a few times looking for her but never saw her again. I think she was working an odd shift for someone else. I may take another shot this weekend but she is probably gone from that job. Sometimes you gotta take a shot in a situation like that because you never know what will happen and you have nothing, nothing, nothing to lose by asking a girl if she ever went on a SD date. Worst thing that happens is she says no and ends the conversation there.
This happened to me once. I was staying at Le Sheraton and I was standing out front getting some fresh air when a tall blond got out of a car. Body language, the driver, how it was all happening set off my spidey senses. I went inside near the bar/reception area having a good view of the elevators. Knowing that you need a key to use the elevator I noticed an older gentleman pop out of the elevator for a few seconds and right back in with the girl. I started texting the agencies and asked if they had a blond in the Sheraton and was able to find out who it was. I remember the agency (Xtase) but I don't recall the SP.
Instead of assuming that you have to pay for sex with everyone can you not just strike up a conversation and ask if she would like to go out for a coffee? Quickest turnoff for most ladies is treating them like a hooker.
I think it was mostly that... I was cought off gard by her beauty and wishfull thinking. It was one of those, "Man I only wish..." and the moment had come and gone.
Pisces,
I think you did the right thing. Usually escorts can be traced. You might want to post her description and mention where you saw her and hope that the client staying at the hotel reads it and IDs her. Or maybe the agency operator. That’s up to you. Special K once ID’s a girl doing that. ID via MERB
I think you did the right thing. Usually escorts can be traced. You might want to post her description and mention where you saw her and hope that the client staying at the hotel reads it and IDs her. Or maybe the agency operator. That’s up to you. Special K once ID’s a girl doing that. ID via MERB
I was thinking about doing that, but wasn't sure if it was appropriate or not, or sounded too desperate. Maybe it should be an official thread, to avoid any complex situation.
Here goes: It was between 3:30-4:30, at Le Chabrol, slim blond about 5' 4", 105 lbs.
It happened to me twice.
Once it Toronto. At the reception I see a very nice blond coming over to pick up many towels... Easy sign. I managed to go in the elevator with only her.. Conversation:
Me: Hello, listen I know why you are here, I am cool with that, how much?
Her: You seem cool, you sexy... 450
Me: An hour? Jesus I am from Montreal we are poor there, can only do 300 (thinking my nice smile would win her over)
Her: Keep dreaming... Bye Bye
And very recently in Vancouver. Same thing I get to the elevator with an evident SP, alone with her.
I was about to say the same line to open up conversation but then realized I had a street Polish Hot Dog from a street vendor 10 minutes earlier. I was still burping garlic big time and realized I was a no go for her even at 1000 with that breath of mine haha
Cheers,
Once it Toronto. At the reception I see a very nice blond coming over to pick up many towels... Easy sign. I managed to go in the elevator with only her.. Conversation:
Me: Hello, listen I know why you are here, I am cool with that, how much?
Her: You seem cool, you sexy... 450
Me: An hour? Jesus I am from Montreal we are poor there, can only do 300 (thinking my nice smile would win her over)
Her: Keep dreaming... Bye Bye
And very recently in Vancouver. Same thing I get to the elevator with an evident SP, alone with her.
I was about to say the same line to open up conversation but then realized I had a street Polish Hot Dog from a street vendor 10 minutes earlier. I was still burping garlic big time and realized I was a no go for her even at 1000 with that breath of mine haha
Cheers,
Me: An hour? Jesus I am from Montreal we are poor there, can only do 300 (thinking my nice smile would win her over)
Her: Keep dreaming... Bye Bye
LMMFAO... I could see that happen to me as well.
That's how I got into my last long distance relationship. I so do not need another one.
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