How often do you see SPs ?
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I spend about an aggregate of about 21 days hobbying every year, usually 2 trips to Montreal and 1 trip to Europe.
A couple of sps once every 2 months or so. Many times they'll be repeats, which is why i'm still in this. I like familiarity. It wasn't always this way, of course. But i've grown to realize i was throwing money away and not having anything to show for it afterwards. I got pretty tired of feeling like that. And after 17 years of 'hobbying', i'm pretty much experienced-out and the entire thing has become too routine. I'd make a call to see someone in a couple of hours, and an hour later i'd tell myself "what the hell did i do? why the hell am i seeing someone when i don't really feel like seeing anyone?" That's why i now prefer seeing girls i've seen in the past whom i had good times with. I'm as excited to see them walking in and catch up on things than i am towards the upcoming lovemaking part. Been there, done that. Which is why i've tried out different experiences over the past few months. Items i needed to check off my bucket list. Actually, i now prefer to take a girl out to dinner at a good restaurant and spend a good time with her over a few hours than simply give her money to have sex with me, which more often than not leaves me with an empty feeling. Chester Brown's book had so much similarities with me.
My trips to Mtl now are definitely not to see sps. They're to meet up with friends (which also include lady friends), check out favorite restaurants and for some shopping. If the Leafs are in town or a favorite musical act, i may use this as an excuse to go. But going to Mtl strictly for sps? Definitely not the case anymore. Plus it's illegal now and i couldn't justify to myself travelling to a place strictly to do something illegal. It's a no-brainer. In other words, i travel to Mtl as an escape from every day life's routine and stress level. Of course, it also means going to other places other than Montreal. By the way, my life is more in control since i've made adjustments in this part of my life and my bank account loves me for it.
My trips to Mtl now are definitely not to see sps. They're to meet up with friends (which also include lady friends), check out favorite restaurants and for some shopping. If the Leafs are in town or a favorite musical act, i may use this as an excuse to go. But going to Mtl strictly for sps? Definitely not the case anymore. Plus it's illegal now and i couldn't justify to myself travelling to a place strictly to do something illegal. It's a no-brainer. In other words, i travel to Mtl as an escape from every day life's routine and stress level. Of course, it also means going to other places other than Montreal. By the way, my life is more in control since i've made adjustments in this part of my life and my bank account loves me for it.
For about twenty years I would see one every weekend, sometimes two. This was in Calgary and Vancouver when they had high tracks and impulse shopping worked.
One night I was out on the ho stroll window shopping and realised it was not really fun anymore. It was a habit, a bad and expensive one. I figured I had frittered away the equivalent of a house.
For about ten years I saw one lady exclusively, once a month. Saved huge money and enjoyed it more. But she retired, we are still best friends and Neighbours! She is fifty and hot as hell...but it would be wrong to even think of her "that way".
Didn't see anyone for a few years.
Started lurking on perb for a year, then got back into it. For the last several years I stick with two ladies I have a connection with. One Winnipeg local I see a couple of times a year and one touring lady whenever she is in town.
Staying with ladies I know and trust ensures no disappointments and a high comfort level. When I saw ladies every week I often left wondering if I should have done it. Now I leave every session looking forward to the next time we meet.
I find spending time with a lady you have a connection with is infinitely more enjoyable than any random stranger.
More is not better, better is better.
One night I was out on the ho stroll window shopping and realised it was not really fun anymore. It was a habit, a bad and expensive one. I figured I had frittered away the equivalent of a house.
For about ten years I saw one lady exclusively, once a month. Saved huge money and enjoyed it more. But she retired, we are still best friends and Neighbours! She is fifty and hot as hell...but it would be wrong to even think of her "that way".
Didn't see anyone for a few years.
Started lurking on perb for a year, then got back into it. For the last several years I stick with two ladies I have a connection with. One Winnipeg local I see a couple of times a year and one touring lady whenever she is in town.
Staying with ladies I know and trust ensures no disappointments and a high comfort level. When I saw ladies every week I often left wondering if I should have done it. Now I leave every session looking forward to the next time we meet.
I find spending time with a lady you have a connection with is infinitely more enjoyable than any random stranger.
More is not better, better is better.
Only during those dry spells when I do not have a girlfriend or a friend with benefits.
Now, do not get me wrong I enjoy my time with SP's... but sex with a connection is just much, much better. Sex with an SP (90% of the time), for me, just feels like a step up from masturbation.
Now, do not get me wrong I enjoy my time with SP's... but sex with a connection is just much, much better. Sex with an SP (90% of the time), for me, just feels like a step up from masturbation.
Why would a newbie ask a question like this ? Why would members want to share their experiences and expenses with him ?
No I'm really a newbie. And I asked this because I'm curious since you know... I'm a newbie
I don't see what's wrong with my question though, unless someone sees SPs numerous times a week and feels ashamed about it or something (which he shouldn't be. If I was flithy rich I'd have a new girl every night)
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