Since i come from out of town i take an hotel anyway, so i much much prefer outcall. I already made extensive post on this so if you do a search you will find them. But in a nutshell i love being "in my environement" , even tough its an hotel im used to those places (i rent mostly at the same 2-3 place) and not having to go outside "search" for an incall place. I can be in my room chilling, then take a nice long shower with no hurry and get ready to receive my date without any stress. Once time is up she leave and i can relax in my room, even start my review already if i feel like it, plus i never feel the pressure of time. I mean yes i gotta finish in the hour but you get what i mean.
I am fine with agencies offering incalls for the clients who prefer that but it does bother me when it affect me (some girls doing incalls only or outcalls having a big upcharge, not talking 20$, but 50+ etc)
Ultimately i could probably sleep at friend's placesometimes or rent a cheap "auberge de jeunesse" type of place for 20-25$ instead of paying a 100$ room, wich would indeed save me cash but damn i do love my outcalls. To me its part of the experience...
So far i only done incall in winter/fall/ time the few times i did them, i wouldn't see myself do one in summer, im a bigger dude so i sweat a lot in heat temperature. And a 5 min quick shower do not do it. Its the kind of case where you go in the shower and even if you put water as cold as possible, you come out of it and you still sweat. There is always taxi that could keep it to a minimum but whats the point of doing incall if i end up paying 40-50$ of taxi...
Anyway just my personal opinion but i do hope outcall does not become a "rarity"
As for the "risk" if you stick with merb both are totally fine. If you go the classified ads route, i think your safer with outcall but in hotel/motel only. You never know what can happen if you go to a shady place, you don't know the environement and you could be robbed/attacked. Just make sure to be smart if you do outcall, for instance don't pay her in advance and letting her "get the money to the driver" lol
That is very true, that part slipped my mind upon posting. I am myself open to (and considered) hotel outcalls but never knew of siesta rates and hotels. Care to share in PM if possible? lol
Chabrol/Chablis/Ideal are the most used places for those siesta