I was reading the intersting posts in thread "Who met a SP he knew". "Reviewer" mentionned in one of his posts that most of the hobbiests and SPs are lonely. The issue of SP loneliness was longly discussed in that thread and fiercly denied by naughtylady 
I did not find a thread in the lounge dealing with the reasons that push some men to call a sex worker, so I started this thread.
Loneliness could be one of the reasons, but for sure not the only one. Many hobbiests are married or have girlfriends (I inferred this info from reading their posts and I personally belong to this category). So, why do we go to meet SPs?
The reasons for sure vary from one person to the other. I asked myself the question and got these answers :
-The main reason is curiousity. I love the moments when the SP calls to notify me that she's coming upstairs. You find yourself waiting for sbd you never saw before. In this respect, it is a kind of adventure.
-Getting intimate with a "stranger".
-It happened to me to call because I was lonely, so what I was asking from the SP at those times was some affection and not sex, unfortunately many of them are insensitive to that.
-In some situations, I just wanted to try new things (back to curiosity again) like making love to 2 girls, black girls, ...I would not ask my gf to try some of these things and it is even impossible for her to realize some other fantasies (like turning to an asian girl or splitting herself into 2 girls...).
-A quite new reason for me is to fantasize on the pictures on a SP's web site then decide to make the dream come true and actually have sex with the girl (Some other hobbiests would fantasize on porn actressses).
-A much less "noble" reason is the feeling of power you have when you can have sex with a girl just because you have the money to afford it. In other words, I have the money, so i can have sex with a woman in the next hour. It happened to me to do it for that, a few times (or maybe I am unconciously rejecting this fact!).
In practice, I feel the "urge" to call a sex worker due to a combination of the above-mentioned reasons, each having a different weight. The above-mentioned reasons could be summarized into 2 categories : curiosity and search of power (in the general meaning of the term).
Other persons might be seeking for younger SPs just to feel younger, or for older SPs because they are still stuck with Eudipe's complex and so on and so on. ..
It would be interesting to learn why do other merbites do it
I did not find a thread in the lounge dealing with the reasons that push some men to call a sex worker, so I started this thread.
Loneliness could be one of the reasons, but for sure not the only one. Many hobbiests are married or have girlfriends (I inferred this info from reading their posts and I personally belong to this category). So, why do we go to meet SPs?
The reasons for sure vary from one person to the other. I asked myself the question and got these answers :
-The main reason is curiousity. I love the moments when the SP calls to notify me that she's coming upstairs. You find yourself waiting for sbd you never saw before. In this respect, it is a kind of adventure.
-Getting intimate with a "stranger".
-It happened to me to call because I was lonely, so what I was asking from the SP at those times was some affection and not sex, unfortunately many of them are insensitive to that.
-In some situations, I just wanted to try new things (back to curiosity again) like making love to 2 girls, black girls, ...I would not ask my gf to try some of these things and it is even impossible for her to realize some other fantasies (like turning to an asian girl or splitting herself into 2 girls...).
-A quite new reason for me is to fantasize on the pictures on a SP's web site then decide to make the dream come true and actually have sex with the girl (Some other hobbiests would fantasize on porn actressses).
-A much less "noble" reason is the feeling of power you have when you can have sex with a girl just because you have the money to afford it. In other words, I have the money, so i can have sex with a woman in the next hour. It happened to me to do it for that, a few times (or maybe I am unconciously rejecting this fact!).
In practice, I feel the "urge" to call a sex worker due to a combination of the above-mentioned reasons, each having a different weight. The above-mentioned reasons could be summarized into 2 categories : curiosity and search of power (in the general meaning of the term).
Other persons might be seeking for younger SPs just to feel younger, or for older SPs because they are still stuck with Eudipe's complex and so on and so on. ..
It would be interesting to learn why do other merbites do it
