Understanding the Motivations: Why are Subscribers are Here on the Forum

[Obvio-0bvio]

Welcome to the discussion on the motivations behind subscribers participating in this forum of client and service providers! It's fascinating to explore the diverse reasons why individuals choose to be a part of this community. Some may be seeking information, others may be looking for connections, and there could be various other motivations at play.So, let's dive into it together! What brings you here? Are you a subscriber seeking advice, wanting to share experiences, or simply looking to engage in meaningful conversations? Feel free to share your thoughts, experiences, and opinions on why you are here on this forum. Let's foster a respectful and insightful exchange of ideas as we delve into this intriguing debate.It is crucial for all participants to maintain a respectful and constructive approach when sharing their opinions and engaging in dialogue. By doing so, we can foster a positive and productive atmosphere for meaningful discussions.

Allow me to share my perspective and the underlying motivation for my presence on this forum:

I am drawn to this platform for several reasons, one being its invaluable assistance in alleviating my anxiety issues. Additionally, it has become a beloved pastime and hobby of mine. However, the primary driving force behind my presence here is my genuine desire to provide honest guidance to newcomers or older members , ensuring they have successful encounters while also shedding light on both the positive and negative aspects of engaging with service providers. Reflecting on my younger years, I often yearned for someone who could have directed me towards reputable service providers offering exceptional services. With time and experience, I have acquired an extensive knowledge of this industry, which I am eager to share. I derive great satisfaction from offering my reviews, as it empowers individuals to make informed decisions and ensures they receive value for their hard-earned money. It deeply troubles me to witness individuals investing their time and fantasies into an encounter, only to be let down by subpar service or a service provider who fails to meet their preferences. I am dedicated to enlightening fellow members about the paramount importance of treating service providers with utmost respect and consideration in order to maximize the quality and excellence of their services. This entails dedicating ample time to the encounter, ensuring the service provider feels comfortable and at ease, maintaining a polite demeanor, and, most crucially, upholding impeccable personal hygiene. When all these requisites are met, it is highly probable that the encounter will be a resounding success, with the service provider delivering their utmost best. I speak from personal experience gained through interactions with various service providers, reaffirming the significance of these principles. My aim is to transform this experience for others, and I take pride in the fact that my mailbox is consistently filled with messages from individuals who genuinely appreciate my reviews, suggestions, and mentor-like guidance. The kind words and expressions of satisfaction I receive bring a smile to my face at the end of each day, as they validate the authenticity and integrity I have developed over the years. Ultimately, my main objective for being here is to derive enjoyment and fulfillment from this platform.

 

[Lexus3]

Generally, to write reviews on ladies I truly enjoy. Most of the time, I do not write any reviews (positive or negative) as everyone has different preferences and different things they are looking for except if I have cleanliness, health or safety concerns. I will also respond to less than positive or sometimes malicious (yes, I believe there are some) reviews of ladies I enjoy spending time with or old aunties' reviews described as young pups (happens with an Asian agency).
Lastly, I read reviews of certain reviewers with similar taste to identify possible new dates (e.g. KRS and Maya Fox). There are also other reviewers that are enjoyable to read, knowing they take a lot of literary license and have very fertile imaginations

 

[wishwash]

Other: Living vicariously a little. As a guy in my 40s, i like reading the experiences of othe guys my age getting off with women half our age.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Other: Living vicariously a little. As a guy in my 40s, i like reading the experiences of othe guys my age getting off with women half our age.

Ah, reading a review before bedtim,what a delightful way to end the day. It's almost like being snuggled up in bed, wrapped in the cozy embrace of a captivating story as we drift off into dreamland. Truly, a bedtime ritual that adds an extra touch of enjoyment to our nighttime routine

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Generally, to write reviews on ladies I truly enjoy. Most of the time, I do not write any reviews (positive or negative) as everyone has different preferences and different things they are looking for except if I have cleanliness, health or safety concerns. I will also respond to less than positive or sometimes malicious (yes, I believe there are some) reviews of ladies I enjoy spending time with or old aunties' reviews described as young pups (happens with an Asian agency).
Lastly, I read reviews of certain reviewers with similar taste to identify possible new dates (e.g. KR and Maya Fox). There are also other reviewers that are enjoyable to read, knowing they take a lot of literary license and have very fertile imaginations

Ah, the world of reviews, where one can find sheer delight in sharing thoughts on the ladies they truly enjoy. Of course, it's only on rare occasions that you feel compelled to write, as everyone has their own preferences and desires. However, But it's not all critique and response; you also find pleasure in reading reviews from certain like-minded reviewers, and who can resist the allure of those reviewers who possess fertile imaginationsAh, the joys and quirks of the review world never cease to entertain.

 

[Carmine Falcone]

For starters, reading reviews of women that interest me and posting reviews of local Montreal women (I see women outside Montreal too).

One of the features I really like here is the space to discuss other topics besides women: politics, food, music, religion etc. Women are my #1 vice, but there are other things in life besides women. Since we have space to touch other topics, I think the general education level of most MERBites is at least college graduates and that raises the level of discussion.

I've been on a board that only discussed pay-for-play sex and issues surrounding it. Not only do the posts show less sophistication, the board actually has dedicated threads for where to find activities that would get you banned here. So like I said, it attracts uneducated people or people who know better but are still willing to risk their lives for fleeting pleasure. I haven't visited that board in years because it just felt sleazy. MERB is a well-rounded board. We're mostly classy fuckers and that is what brings me back.

 

[masterfreak]

Après trop de mauvaises expériences avec les fausses annonces je prends moins de risques.
Si pas de review pour moi pas de visite.
Je lève mon chapeau à ceux qui décident de rencontrer des escortes sans review.
Ce temps la est terminé pour moi même si j'ai eu plusieurs belles rencontres à mes débuts.
Le contexte a beaucoup changé je préfère chercher longtemps en lisant ce forum pour trouver la perle rare et j'en ai plusieurs sur ma liste.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Après trop de mauvaises expériences avec les fausses annonces je prends moins de risques.
Si pas de review pour moi pas de visite.
Je lève mon chapeau à ceux qui décident de rencontrer des escortes sans review.
Ce temps la est terminé pour moi même si j'ai eu plusieurs belles rencontres à mes débuts.
Le contexte a beaucoup changé je préfère chercher longtemps en lisant ce forum pour trouver la perle rare et j'en ai plusieurs sur ma liste.

Je suis tout à fait d'accord avec toi, mon ami, et c'est précisément pourquoi la présence de Merb est justifiée. Pour être tout à fait honnête, je n'ai jamais eu de problèmes avec des agences réputées. En fait, dans 99 % des cas, il n'y a eu aucune complication. Les seuls problèmes que j'ai jamais rencontrés étaient sur Leolist. Par conséquent, je recommande fortement de vérifier soigneusement toutes les critiques disponibles, en particulier sur cette plate-forme particulière, car il existe un risque important de déception. Fait intéressant, j'ai constaté que les escortes avec peu ou pas critiques s'avèrent souvent être les meilleurs pour moi, bien que je ne fasse pas référence à Leolist à cet égard. La raison pour laquelle je dis cela est que lorsque les membres écrivent des critiques positives, cela augmente la probabilité que l’escorte soient complets, ce qui conduit de nombreux membres à garder le silence. Au contraire, je préfère personnellement écrire mes critiques tout de suite pour des escorts qui sont belle et offrent un service exceptionnel, car je crois au partage de mes expériences positives avec d'autres membres. Cela s'applique particulièrement aux agences lorsqu'il s'agit d’escorte avec des reviews limitées ou inexistantes. J'apprécie vraiment votre contribution, car il est crucial pour les autres, en particulier les nouveaux membres de lire votre commentaire perspicace.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

I enjoy helping others.Hooking up good people with good providers is a win win.
I miss the good old days in the beginning here.
Met interesting people, being able to chat to some providers before meeting them was great
when we met ice had been broken with a coonncetion and encounters were probably better.
Its rare i actually get a good tip as ive seen so many over the years not much is new.
but a few good tips did come my way over the years.
quite a few of the members became good friends.

Providing positive reviews or tipping off fellow members can greatly benefit everyone involved, including the service provider. I fully concur with your statement about the excitement surrounding the Merb platform in the past. There were undoubtedly exceptional members who, to this day, I hold in the highest regard and deeply admire for their mentor . Moreover, the debates that took place in the old threads were nothing but hilarious. It was remarkable to witness even agency owners actively engaging in the discussions, often employing sarcasm in their responses. I genuinely believe that the members during the early era of Merb were more genuine and authentic in their interactions.

 

[Thor Jr]

Isn't it obvious, I am here for cooking recipes and fashion tips. I'm a terrible cook and I never dress to impress. And also, I'm shy and lonely.
Okay , If i had to choose one, I like to read and I find reviews interesting. On another note, i like some of the members, i have been around a long time and the veterans' i have met or chatted with, have been terrific.

To those i have met or just chatted with, thank you for the chats, i raise my glass to you. Cheers...

 

[envelopes]

When I first started in Montreal, I got all my info from this forum. Lots of reviews on providers that saved me a lot of time and money. Had a lot of fun from the good intel. So I contributed back with reviews. I was here only for that, never even came to the lounge section.

But in the past 2 years, I notice that there are very few reviews and mostly just new members posting questions like "how much?" "celebrity lookalike?" When I do write the rare review, I just get spammed in private messages.

So now, I rarely write reviews and I just hang out at the lounge to talk about the hobby in general (and to complain about the hobby).

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

When I first started in Montreal, I got all my info from this forum. Lots of reviews on providers that saved me a lot of time and money. Had a lot of fun from the good intel. So I contributed back with reviews. I was here only for that, never even came to the lounge section.

But in the past 2 years, I notice that there are very few reviews and mostly just new members posting questions like "how much?" "celebrity lookalike?" When I do write the rare review, I just get spammed in private messages.

So now, I rarely write reviews and I just hang out at the lounge to talk about the hobby in general (and to complain about the hobby).

Well expressed, my friend. I must acknowledge that some newcomers tend to ask inappropriate questions, possibly due to their lack of familiarity with the merb platform. I must admit that the lounge is a source of great enjoyment, as I, too, relish spending my time there, thanks to the abundance of intriguing discussions. I am grateful for your valuable inputs.

 

[Rebaynia]

For me personally... the main attraction is I tend to feel very secluded and alone, and it helps to have a place i can talk to people.. i used to have co-workers when i worked a regular job. But now all i have are my kids, clients (when i am out on call) and my master (my bf). But still spend most of my time sitting at home alone feeling secluded and segregated from the world.
My disposition has improved a little since starting to actually comunicate on this forum...
Life sucks when you don't have anyone to talk to.. (I have social anxieties, and oddly enough I tend to have more confidence when cloths come off and it's time to play.)
I'm not good in scocial circles, I tend to just feel like an outcast and a fly on the wall while everyone else talks... I've always been more of an online personality and gamer..

Though i feel so very uncomfortable on cam.