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What to do to last longer?

WAZZAP1

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Train.

When you masturbate, try to last longer.
Men (boys) tend to masturbate very quickly when the began their puberty. They tend to keep it that way becaus ethey've always done it the same way.

Years goes, and when you add touch of a woman's skin, smell, kissing, a naked body, being aroused by someone in front of you, etc , those guys won't last 30 mins.

I've been working 15 years in a women's world and the numbers of coworkers who are telling me their stories with their boyfriend/husband/one night stand that didn't or can't last 5 mins, I pity them.

So, train train train.

I can last 3 mins, or I can last 60 mins.
I decide.

Just like magician: practice practice pratice!
 

DetectiveDavidMills

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If you can shoot more than once... The second shot or third shot tend to last longer...

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Lately, i figured out the kegel exercices, before i didn't understand how to do it, now i think i figured it out. And it gives stronger erections


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There is also desensitizer, but the downside it can get you soft, because it desensitizes

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Some uses edible too
 

MCTJ

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What do you guys do for not to shoot after 2/3 mins of teasing?
Do you ejaculate before penetration? Do you suffer from anxiety? If so, you'll need a partner you're comfortable with and whom you trust to slowly practice foreplay, over many sessions. Eventually, you'll last longer.

Couple things worth mentioning: premature ejaculation is usually defined as ejaculation within one minute of penetration. The average duration of intercourse is 5 to 7 min.
 

T'storm

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There is also desensitizer, but the downside it can get you soft, because it desensitizes
In my younger days I did buy some desensitize cream and without telling my girlfriend I applied it to my erect penis and after she inserted it in her mouth her lips became numb and it was a funny story, she was trying to kiss me to show me what I did to her.
 

someoneany

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Just to clarify the situation. I am talking about a massage session. Just the teasing before the flip might cause me to shoot, not everytime but it happens which I hate. I want to ejaculate when I want
 

MCTJ

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In my younger days I did buy some desensitize cream and without telling my girlfriend I applied it to my erect penis and after she inserted it in her mouth her lips became numb and it was a funny story, she was trying to kiss me to show me what I did to her.
There's a product called Promescent now that absorbs through skin. I've used it with escorts in the past and there were no issues during BBBJ (did not transfer to the partner's mouth). The thing is that, when used with a condom (during penetration), the desensitizing effect can be too much, leading to erection problems (not every time).
 

MCTJ

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Just to clarify the situation. I am talking about a massage session. Just the teasing before the flip might cause me to shoot, not everytime but it happens which I hate. I want to ejaculate when I want
Are you relaxed when you start the session or are you "on edge" with your heart pounding?
 

someoneany

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Are you relaxed when you start the session or are you "on edge" with your heart pounding?
I am relaxed at the start of the session then I get this terrible feeling that I am going to shoot when she starts to get closer to the sensitive areas
 

MCTJ

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I am relaxed at the start of the session then I get this terrible feeling that I am going to shoot when she starts to get closer to the sensitive areas
The causes or triggers of PE vary from person to person. For me, it was triggered by my high stress level. Finding a partner that I'm comfortable with helped a lot (I still don't last more than 5 min, but I'm ok with that). You are at the level where it's difficult to enjoy foreplay without cumming, which admittedly is distressing.

You might want to look at consulting with a sexologist, who can look at your personal history regarding sex and relationships and how they contribute to what you're experiencing. I still think that visiting a massage parlor may be contributing to your problem.

From a medical standpoint, the recommended treatment is not very appealing: antidepressants, which happen to have a side effect of delaying ejaculation. But premature ejaculation is a medical conditon, and that's something you can discuss with your doctor. It's a very common problem indeed, but you wouldn't know by reading merb ;)
 

Sweetguyyul

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The muscle that helps you hold back from peeing yourself is the same one that prevents you from ejaculating.

So, my 2 cents. Work that muscle. I can you usually hold for quite a longtime.

Add reversing the alphabet if required..:)
 
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