Why Escorts?

[chadnyc]

Have been a hobbyist for many years and continue to get the same basic question - why? just go to a bar, buy drinks and pick up someone or go on a date or go to a party and mingle and meet someone, @ work are lots of hot babes. Easy to say, but different in practice.

Curious how you answer. For me, it is a combination answer. Desires change and the focus of my search can adjust. Tall, short, build style, enhanced, tattoo's, shy or edgy, the alphabet of acronyms apply... Options. I'm an agency outcall guy. Depend on honest advice from the agency person to match against any posted advice. Most agencies are awesome and honest. A very few play games and make endless excuses. Will never repeat with the excuses. The honest agencies make good on their promises and if the rare hiccup occurs, they make good.

There are so many beautiful women in Montreal, it is painful and awesome. Can't think of a better place to call base camp. I'm a long time player and look for lasting agency relationships. Get lots (too many) PM's asking for recommendations and usually provide them to the agency that keeps their word.

Most important - the chance to meet, talk and savor soo many beautiful women from so many places is awesome. Quebecois are wild and beautiful, but the many southern islands, India, middle east and the rest of Asia, Europe (east and west), unreal. My flight is about to take off an need to shut down but wanted to pose the question asked by friend and acquaintances.

So, why do you do the escort and not hit the bars, etc.....

 

[BookerL]

Well chadnyc this is a good one can't wait to hear the answers!

But to get to the bottom of it, girls and Bookers might have a different opinion :lol:


Cheers


Booker

 

[Siocnarf]

Like Patron said. You might just as well ask the reverse question. Why play games in bars when you can pay a fixed amount and save all the trouble? Plus there are no reviews and advertisement for the people you meet in bars, and no idea how it's going to be.

 

[BookerL]

Picking a girl that is out of limits for me.

Salut Lou

Ayant 20 ans de service dans cette industrie j'ai eu le privilège de rencontré les chums de plusieurs escortes.

Hors limitE pas vraiment !


Salutation


Booker

 

[BookerL]

Hey Booker. Je ne me voit pas aborder une fille dans un bar pour lui proposer un threesome avec ma blonde , lol
Pas evident, mais on garde espoir et c sur que si on trouve, on quiite ce hobby très dispendieux.
Une chose sur laquel tu a tout a fait raison, pour avoir vue les chum des SP a l'occasion, ce ne sont pas tous des pétards, mais on vie dans un monde ou tout est une question d'apparence bien souvent. Je doit dire que cruiser en couple c pas évident. La fille fait le saut quand tu lui propose un threesome.

En plus Lou j'aI eu l'occasion de parlé avec !Hummm, j'en ai eu des privilèges dans m'a vie
Etrange je ne me rappel d'aucun d'eu:lol:

Pour cruiser 3somes dans un bar un peu difficIle quoi que faisable , c'est ta belle douce qui doit le faire .

Salutation

Booker

 

[johnybird]

it’s not all about the sex at this point for me.

Life is so unpredictable, it tends to sometimes sucker punch you, give you such a powerful blow to the belly that it knocks the wind out of you. When you finally come to and are able to breathe properly again, you are left by feeling confused, angry, sad and that sense of ‘what now’.

When I first started this “hobby” obviously it was mostly about the sex (I should mention that I am an Indy guy). I didn’t know what to expect. It was very surreal walking up those stairs, thinking to myself that there is someone on the other side of that door that I have never met and we were going to be intimate without even knowing each other. In my mind it was going to be very business like. Pay for the service, get the service, leave, but when she opened the door and I walked in and saw her, saw her smile, I came to the realization that this experience was going to be something completely different then what I was expecting… and it was.

I can only write about my experiences obviously, but the wonderful Independents that I have seen have been some of the most confident and interesting women that I have ever met, and they also seem to truly enjoy what they are doing.

Why do I see escorts? (took me long enough to get to this point lol!). It’s because I have no interest at starting a serious relationship at this point in my life, walking into a bar and having a meaningless one night stand will not cut it nor am I interested in it.

The more I repeat with these beautiful creatures the more the relationship grows & matures. I have no delusions of what this is. But being part of this MERB community, communicating with these great women feels like ’friends with benefits’ rather than a sex for money thing. I enjoy their company, I would like to think they enjoy mine, without any of the complications. I love the fact that the more we see each other the more we get to know each other, the more comfortable we are together and even sometimes being so comfortable that I can bear my soul and they will listen and even sometimes share some of the pain. And obviously being more comfortable with each other enhances the sex as well.

I have a lot of great friends and family but sometimes you just want to be with someone or talk to someone that is out of your circle, that doesn’t know so much about you.

This “hobby”, and i’m starting not to consider it a hobby anymore because it has become something beyond that, has fulfilled all of my emotional and physical needs for now. It really caught me off guard. I feel better, more relaxed, clear-headed but most of all happier (Not that I was an emotional wreck before)

It will break my heart when I eventually ‘retire’ from this hobby. I have truly met some incredible people because of it.

 

[charmer_]

Well one easy answer is that with SPs, it's quick, easy, and you get instant gratification. Whereas with a "real" girl, you'd have to put in the work for it (ie. the time, money, patience, etc).

I know the second option is the more long term, preferable goal. But every once in awhile, you need that gratification right away.

 

[PopeDover]

How else can I reconcile relentless satyriasis with ever-expanding asociality within a culture hijacked by the morality police?

 

[SylvainP]

Il semble que je ne sois pas le genre à plaire aux femmes. Alors, si je veux du sexe, je paie pour en avoir et certaines escortes sont aussi capables de tendresse.

 

[newguy42]

I feel mostly the same as you Johnybird.

For my part, beeing single, I dont have morality issues with hobbying. But since I'm a bit shy, Its hard for me to establish the first contact, like in a bar. Meeting an escort makes it a lot easier.

And as you said, I was also surprised to see how we can sometimes connect together. Seeing mainly Indies is probably a good strategy for that.

What I miss most though is to have longer meetings wich can become pretty expensive with escorts.

 

[johnybird]

What I miss most though is to have longer meetings which can become pretty expensive with escorts.

I agree it can get pretty expensive. My first two encounters were an hour, I found it very short, not enough time to ease into it. 2 hour encounters are the shortest i'll go now, I need the intellectual stimulation as well.

I recently had a 3 hour date with a fantastic lady I've seen a few times, there was a very natural flow to it, the time flew! and next time I'm thinking of booking even longer (if she'll have me). I really enjoy getting to know them and them getting to know me, just as much as everything else. It just makes the whole experience soooo much better.

At this point I would rather go for quality than quantity in my encounters.

 

[PopeDover]

Chester Brown bravely shares his views regarding this question in establishment mag MotherJones

http://www.motherjones.com/media/2011/05/chester-brown-prostitution-comic-memoir

I've got two competing desires—the desire to have sex, versus the desire to not have a girlfriend.
-CB