The word I'm referring to is "Natural".
I assumed it loosely referred to body enhancements or modifications (like, I would still consider someone with a small, discrete tattoo could be considered natural but more extensive stuff not so much). I don't really see it as one specific thing but a general look, attitude and vibe. Like, no or light makeup, a down-to-earth personality.
I'm realizing that it might not mean the same thing at all to others.
For example, someone messaged me the other day to ask in what sense I was natural. The question genuinely confused me based on my assumption that my interpretation was standard for others as well. I asked what he meant and it turns out he was asking about body hair. He was looking for full body hair, including pubic area full bush.
I honestly wouldn't have ever thought of it being interpreted that way but of course, this is relatively new thing as far as I know, and a few years ago it would have been near impossible to find a provider with body hair.
While my views and practices about body hair and grooming have definitely evolved over time, that interpretation of the word doesn't apply to me. So I started asking myself if I should stop using it and find another way to describe that would not be ambiguous. I mean, if it's a common interpretation, it would make no sense to keep using it.
What does "natural" mean to you in the context of a provider's description? (Or does it even mean anything?) Lol
I'm getting the impression that it has a lot of different meanings to different people, so isn't particularly useful. Would love some feedback to get a better idea of what people generally understand it to mean. xo
I assumed it loosely referred to body enhancements or modifications (like, I would still consider someone with a small, discrete tattoo could be considered natural but more extensive stuff not so much). I don't really see it as one specific thing but a general look, attitude and vibe. Like, no or light makeup, a down-to-earth personality.
I'm realizing that it might not mean the same thing at all to others.
For example, someone messaged me the other day to ask in what sense I was natural. The question genuinely confused me based on my assumption that my interpretation was standard for others as well. I asked what he meant and it turns out he was asking about body hair. He was looking for full body hair, including pubic area full bush.
I honestly wouldn't have ever thought of it being interpreted that way but of course, this is relatively new thing as far as I know, and a few years ago it would have been near impossible to find a provider with body hair.
While my views and practices about body hair and grooming have definitely evolved over time, that interpretation of the word doesn't apply to me. So I started asking myself if I should stop using it and find another way to describe that would not be ambiguous. I mean, if it's a common interpretation, it would make no sense to keep using it.
What does "natural" mean to you in the context of a provider's description? (Or does it even mean anything?) Lol
I'm getting the impression that it has a lot of different meanings to different people, so isn't particularly useful. Would love some feedback to get a better idea of what people generally understand it to mean. xo