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    Soft & Sexy or Rough & Tumble.

    Do you prefer it Soft & sensual or a little Rough and does it differ in your personal life?

    I prefer starting nice and soft & sensual and as it gets hot and heavy it builds into a little rough & tumble. Rough might be too strong of a word, i'm not into BDSM or really causing or receiving pain, but more like some light hair pulling, slapping of the behind, back scratching or slamming against a wall, or so intense the bed is pounding against the wall!

    I especially love it when i'm going downtown and she just grabs the back of my head and just clenches my hair... ok now I got myself so worked up I'm going to have to book someone

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    No takers on this question?

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    Both can be good, a lot depend of the what the girl also like and if she's really into hard sex of more soft sex.

    So I just go with the flow, but like you said it often starts soft and sensual and it evolved to some more intense sex

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    I do like it slow and sexy a lot more than rough. I like to feel a connection with my partner and since there is no emotional connection with a sp, just caressing her, holding her, kissing her (if she allows, and it's quite a requirement for me), is just the way I like it. Of course, it can start that way and get rougher. But while I do like it rough in my personal life, I tend to be comfortable doing it that way only if I know my partner well. So I can let loose and not be afraid to do things she doesn't like (like butt slapping and things johnybird suggested. No bdsm here either lol)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reboot View Post
    I do like it slow and sexy a lot more than rough. I like to feel a connection with my partner and since there is no emotional connection with a sp, just caressing her, holding her, kissing her (if she allows, and it's quite a requirement for me), is just the way I like it. Of course, it can start that way and get rougher. But while I do like it rough in my personal life, I tend to be comfortable doing it that way only if I know my partner well. So I can let loose and not be afraid to do things she doesn't like (like butt slapping and things johnybird suggested. No bdsm here either lol)
    We might as well be brothers because I feel the same way, I think if you get the time to know the SP and get a feel of what she likes or just ask her straight out then it will be a better experience. I'm learning as I go and so far learning has been real fun

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    Yeah, almost every post of yours I read, I say to myself I could've written that! lol It's nice to be able to see you're not the only one going through things for the first time and act like an idiot :P

    And yes, learning is fun, and I guess next time will be much better. I made business with an agency and while I was nervous about it, I guess just telling the booker what I need helps. Of course, he could not give a *&^& but the one I talked too seemed to understand lol

    Since I like it slow and sexy a lot more, I think I may have a better experience talking directly with an indie before-hand but most of them my schedule don't match with theirs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reboot View Post
    Yeah, almost every post of yours I read, I say to myself I could've written that! lol It's nice to be able to see you're not the only one going through things for the first time and act like an idiot :P

    And yes, learning is fun, and I guess next time will be much better. I made business with an agency and while I was nervous about it, I guess just telling the booker what I need helps. Of course, he could not give a *&^& but the one I talked too seemed to understand lol

    Since I like it slow and sexy a lot more, I think I may have a better experience talking directly with an indie before-hand but most of them my schedule don't match with theirs.
    Looks like we're having a Bromance here. I'll keep it Soft & Sexy since that's the way you like it. LOL!

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    Thanks! But I think we'll probably be spending way too much time wondering what we should say and waiting for the other to talk first! :P

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