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    Bring a stripper home?

    Hi, I was just wondering if it ever happened to of you, for sure to my opinion it is impossible the first night you come for a lap dance, you pretty much have to be a regular, but wanted to know if it could be possible and if yes, how in hell do you propose it to the girl?

    It could be risky sometimes I guess, for us and for them, so some could defenitely refuse, but she could be opened, right?
    Last edited by raptor; 09-02-2007 at 06:58 PM.

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    I was hilarious in my laughing after subsequently your post reading My_dingaling

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    Impressive response

    Quote Originally Posted by My_dingaling
    If I correctly, you want to if how to ask a stipper to home of you?
    I think you understand the stipper doe not want to you. She doe be happy you empty you dollards to her hand and go to home to squirt alone. OK?

    OH! You have a Lamborghini? Different story..... wave your car keys in her face during the seventh lapdance ... It's important to do this during the seventh dance, not the 5th or 6th or 8th or 9th or 10th dance....
    Wow. I'm stunned. The man is asking a legitimate question and all you can think of is make fun of the fact he doesn't communicate well in english. And I apprieciate the respect you have towards strippers dindaling. Yeah, just wave your @#$%& car keys in her face, she'll follow you like a drooling dog.

    Just don't listen to these wise guys Raptor.

    My experience; I had sex with 2 strippers. I've read stories of free "take-outs" but that never happened to me. The first, I was a regular, she didn't want to get involved, but she liked me and we dated a couple of times (restaurant, dancing), I picked up the tab of course. I wanted to have sex with her and told her so. She was flattered but refused politely and I kept seeing her at the club for some time. Then I didn't see her for a couple of weeks, and she's the one who called me back. We met at a restaurant, and she told me she wanted to do it. Same condition as an escort. The experience was much more intense, because my desire for her had time to grow. There was no clock watching, and we spent the whole evening together. Of course I wanted to repeat but she didn't like it. She felt it was wrong for her, she couldn't be an escort. I offered her more to repeat but it didn't happen again. Oh well...

    The second one, I had a great connection right from the start in the booth. She let me do to her all that is forbidden on the list hanging on the wall (except penetration). I asked her simply if we could continue this at home. She said yes but it's gonna be 200. No problem! She came to my place and spent the night. This time it was me who didn't like it. She was hot in bed but I realised she was addicted to something. She would lock herself in the toilet and come out completely energized, with a sort of crazy look in her eyes, and she would tell me really weird stuff, and all this kind of freaked me out. She wanted to spend the day with me but I told her I couldn't. I saw her at the club a couple of times after, but that's it.

    The end.

    So, how do you do it. Just simply ask her, with tact, tastefully, respectfully. If she doesn't want to, she will decline. No harm done.

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    babaloo123 not quite as funny actually a bit depressing but more informative.

    Talking about informative yes do ask if you find a connection, I got a friend who has been asking for a year, the same girl, and he is just that close to going out with her. Sadly a true story.

    Personnaly I had more success with SP off the clock than with dancers. True it is more expensive right away but at least you know better what you might get into.

    good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by raptor
    but she could be opened, right?
    That's what we all hope for!

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    -My_dingaling- I'm sorry if I overreacted but I sensed mockery and arrogance in your response. And it's not because someone didn't re-read his question that it's less legitimate as a question. As for setting expectations right, expectations are not the same for everyone, it all depends what you want in the end. If you expect a stripper to fall in love with you just because you tell her you want to see her outside, I agree with you it's pretty un-realistic. But if you ask a stripper to upgrade to escort, that's more in line with reality. I even remember a stripper offering me off-the-bat the escort service for 400.

    There's a fascination about strippers that you don't get with escorts. Maybe it's the hunter actor. There's a thread on MERB I read, about Take-out (bringing a stripper home). In it, a guy was very proud to announce that the only take-out he considered, was free take-out, hinting that happened to him more than once, having sex with strippers for free just by being handsome or something. I don't think that happens very often in reality, except if you're Brad Pitt or Ben Affleck visiting a strip joint. Of course there are exceptions, but these girls are here to make money, not meet people, and we all have to keep this in mind. So I agree with you on that.

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    Hunter FACTOR, not actor

    Gotta re-read my text

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    Quote Originally Posted by My_dingaling
    ....or that's the Lamborgini factor to which I referred?
    I think I didn't like the "wave your keys in her face" that sounded a bit contemptuous.

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    Quote Originally Posted by babaloo123
    -...There's a fascination about strippers that you don't get with escorts. Maybe it's the hunter actor. There's a thread on MERB I read, about Take-out (bringing a stripper home). In it, a guy was very proud to announce that the only take-out he considered, was free take-out, hinting that happened to him more than once, having sex with strippers for free just by being handsome or something. I don't think that happens very often in reality, except if you're Brad Pitt or Ben Affleck visiting a strip joint. Of course there are exceptions, but these girls are here to make money, not meet people, and we all have to keep this in mind. So I agree with you on that.
    Actually I have had a numbers of encounters with dancers, had longterm relationships with a few, and have both current and former dancers as friends at the moment. I definately do not look like Brad Pitt, as those who have met me will gladly (probably gleefully) confirm or, thankfully, like Ben Affleck, nor am I wealthy by a long shot. Dancers are just like any other woman. Yes, they are doing a job that involves their looks and sex appeal, but so what? Shit happens, people sometimes just hit it off. Or not.

    But if all you want is sex or a one night stand, then you have to find the right girl and either look like Brad Pitt or have his money, or just be in the right place at the right time. But really, if that's what you want you will be better off just calling an escort or going to a FS club. You'll know you'll get what you want and it will probably be cheaper.

    And if you're going to a SC to find a GF...stay home and save yourself a lot of money and a lot of grief. Go out with friends to a regular club instead.

    Techman
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    Techman:

    Very well put. I also have had dozens of strip club take out both free and paid in both Canada and the USA. I also have had steady fuck buddy (free) relationships with 5 strippers throughout the years. I am also just average looking without much money and in debt up my ass. It's all how you sell yourself.

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    Techman- Actually i would put you in the George Clooney category.

    Free beer at the next GT?

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    George Clooney??? I think my character when I was younger would have been more like Colin Farell.
    And the Lord said unto John, "Come forth and receive eternal life." But John came fifth and won a toaster.

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    While ago, in a non-FS club, a stripper told me "You know, if I had a condom, I'd fuck you right away, right here, just because I want, it, no exta money!" I told her "Yhea right!" She said "Let me get a frikking condom!" and motionned towards outside the booth. I stopped her and said "Not now" because I had to leave anyway but she insisted to give me her number, insisting I call her later so we can plan a more private time! Didn't call her yet... She didn't look stoned or drunk and I'm no Brad Pit either!

    Simply, they are humans and, when it click, they're like anybody else! Just don't get your hopes up and define what you both want, and don't push anything on her!

    As far as getting her home with you, there's a risk involved for your privacy if she becomes a money-sucking bitch! Better do it in motels/hotels!

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    metoo4:

    Strip club procedure lesson # 1, always go with a condom. Even if it's a Non sex club and zero milage bring it with you. I have fucked girls in my car in the parking lot, in hwer car in the parking lot, in alley's, back at her place leaving work early etc. Always be prepared.

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    I have never brought one home..........................

    .....................but I have been brought to a strippers home several times!

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