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Hello, I am a newbie on this forum and also in being with SPs. I have scoured the forum for two days, reading every information I can get, which might have added to my paranoia. There are these two lovely Indy ladies that I have found, and I am actually mesmerized by their photos, which I wanted to see. However, I am afraid of the potential LE situations that can occur. I have looked for the ladies, and they both have their own websites that seem truly legit. However, one's site seems more legit with a lot of effort, but doesn't have that many reviews here, and the ones she has are from reviewers who have only one post, which is about them. While the other lady has more mentions but her site, compared to some other ones I saw, it seems less professional. I know I am probably overthinking a lot, and these gorgeous ladies for 90% fit the criteria of being legit, but I am scared, especially with reading some of the new police sting threads here, even though I would love to see them. I am looking for advice or help
 
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Hello, I am a newbie on this forum and also in being with SPs. I have scoured the forum for two days, reading every information I can get, which might have added to my paranoia. There are these two lovely Indy ladies that I have found, and I am actually mesmerized by their photos, which I wanted to see. However, I am afraid of the potential LE situations that can occur. I have looked for the ladies, and they both have their own websites that seem truly legit. However, one's site seems more legit with a lot of effort, but doesn't have that many reviews here, and the ones she has are from reviewers who have only one post, which is about them. While the other lady has more mentions but her site, compared to some other ones I saw, it seems less professional. I know I am probably overthinking a lot, and these gorgeous ladies for 90% fit the criteria of being legit, but I am scared, especially with reading some of the new police sting threads here, even though I would love to see them. I am looking for advice or help

Extremely rare that indies are targeted by LE in Canada. Unless the profiles you’ve looked were those of under*ge looking people, you can go ahead

Some people just don’t like or accept reviews, that doesn’t mean they’re not real but it does make it a little more difficult to know what to expect. Although a review doesn’t guarantee you the same experience

Most people create their websites by themselves so if they aren’t comfortable with that you can probably see it reflecting on their website

My website is quite mysterious and some would say “incomplete”
 

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Are the ladies here on merb?
Do they look over 18
They are both on Merb and both state that they are over 18, and even though their faces are blurred, they look like they are above 18, and their age on Merb indicates 25
Extremely rare that indies are targeted by LE in Canada. Unless the profiles you’ve looked were those of under*ge looking people, you can go ahead

Some people just don’t like or accept reviews, that doesn’t mean they’re not real but it does make it a little more difficult to know what to expect. Although a review doesn’t guarantee you the same experience

Most people create their websites by themselves so if they aren’t comfortable with that you can probably see it reflecting on their website

My website is quite mysterious and some would say “incomplete”

They looked definitely above underage, and when I tried to find their age, what I found was around 25.
Both their websites looked professional, and one had reviews on her own website, even. I just got scared because this is my first time, plus I read some threads here mentioning police even doing it to a potential pornstars meetup with some people or something like that I don't remember fully now.

Thanks for the replies to both, btw. Really appreciate it cause I would love to meet with both of these ladies, especially one looks drop-dead gorgeous and my type; however, I am a bit afraid, not gonna lie.
And because this is my first time, I don't know what to do or what to say, or is there anything I can say to the SPs that would not be taken as rude or crude in their line of work that could help me lessen my stress about the issue. Cause I don't want to be disrespectful to them, just because I have my own fears doesn't mean they have done anything suspicious or lacking, you know.
 

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You can trust merb more than other advertising websites

It’s your first time? Read this
I see. Thank you, btw, I have read the link you have provided. I have seen their ads also on Tryst, they match with Merb and their websites. One has an of while the other seems to use Twitter, it seems. Is there any other thing you could recommend I do, like research, maybe?

Sorry, btw, if I am being annoying with these many doubts and questions.
 
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I see. Thank you, btw, I have read the link you have provided. I have seen their ads also on Tryst, they match with Merb and their websites. One has an of while the other seems to use Twitter, it seems. Is there any other thing you could recommend I do, like research, maybe?

Sorry, btw, if I am being annoying with these many doubts and questions.

I think that’s enough, don’t overthink it
 
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I am afraid of the potential LE situations that can occur.
First, I am answering in terms of legality. Don’t contact the SP with your list of menus and let her provide an answer. You cannot directly ask but let the SP answer.

FlyingBy is right, if it looks too young, as you call it here, it’s a bait. That’s what LE is having the easiest time to process ped* cases, and public opinion favors that.

As for rude or crude, reading what you write here, you are far far away from what you think on what rude requests SPs can have. SPs are more understanding that what you can have anxiety over.

You do not lack anything. Be yourself and do tell that you are nervous, and guess what, sometimes, we are more nervous than you, simply because it’s your experience.

As stated here, “You are good to go”.
 
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