The Tea App: Toxic Femininity Goes Tech

[maymay]

It's a little off topic, but more public version of warning long gone now.

This app, and discussions here, reminded me of the website thedirty from a forgotten time now, where these same types of information were shared for anyone, not just women to see. And the owner of the site would only remove entries that were proven false. If there was no way to prove innocence, the post stayed up.

I am getting older and realize that all this rage we have is useless, all this hate against each other, and why humans don't try to love each other a bit more, i guess i do my part in this world of chaos when i drive, or try to help people when i can but i realize that in today world its a lost cause.

Any site that promotes hate against either women, men should be taken down, there is no place for this anywhere same with racisme, and any other kind of hate

 

[Rebaynia]

I am getting older and realize that all this rage we have is useless, all this hate against each other, and why humans don't try to love each other a bit more, i guess i do my part in this world of chaos when i drive, or try to help people when i can but i realize that in today world its a lost cause.

Any site that promotes hate against either women, men should be taken down, there is no place for this anywhere same with racisme, and any other kind of hate

All these places need a re-education, and lessons in putting yourself in the other persons shoes. There should be links and information for them to get help threw their pain that causes these types of emotional termoil that then gets targeted twords a whole other 1/2 of the population because of gender.

and likely a gender rolls debunking, and how those roles need updating to be inclusive. There is so much we are still fed about what a man's place is and a woman's place, and how anyone who deviates is wrong, when the very fact that everyone is an individual, and everyone has a right to be and live how they want as long as it hurts no one else, without being dictated to about how they should live their lives.

Hate only fuels the flame for more hate. These places where misandry, and misogyny are found, need an influx of people who want to.teach love, help and heal, rather than contribute to the hate spewed.

 

[EastWind]

Angry Ugly People + Word Salad

Mistaking beauty as eugenics and racism. Well I be darned.

 

[maymay]

Feminism = Angry Ugly Chics + Word Salad

Sydney Sweeny even no makeup is super hot she is one beautiful women LOL jalousy people hahaha, man theses women are insane

 

[Rebaynia]

Sydney Sweeny even no makeup is super hot she is one beautiful women LOL jalousy people hahaha, man theses women are insane

Am I missing something here? Ok. So i read up, this is for a good cause, 100% of proceeds go twords.
Ok would be helpful to mention the charity in the ad, but this ad looks just like any other ad trying to sell jeans. Being cheeky about it.
Haven't most jean ads been similar? I think I am confused on what the issue is about.

 

[Valentina Amante | LAVAL]

Angry Ugly People + Word Salad

Mistaking beauty as eugenics and racism. Well I be darned.

Asmongold is legit one of my fav YouTubers / streamers. He’s a stay at home goblin that speaks so much facts. Love him.
Legit listening to him rn hahaha

 

[Alucard87]

It's like the fridge guarding the snack. A small but vocal group of ugly and or mentally ill trying to ruin it for everyone else.

 

[Valentina Amante | LAVAL]

These woke feminists always take shit to the extreme - it’s honestly comedy at this point.

They’ve also turned on their beloved poster child, Laverne Cox, because she dared to date a white, blue-eyed NYC cop who happens to be a Republican. Yes, a black trans male in love with a MAGA dude - and suddenly she’s public enemy #1. The same crowd that screams “love is love” is now ripping her apart for… loving the wrong person? Make it make sense.

Sydney Sweeney has great jeans - they don’t. Case closed HAHAHA. Always offended … shocking.

I buy American Eagle jeans too. They make plus-size options, in case anyone forgot. But of course, the woke mob would never support a “patriarchal, far-right FASCIST brand” now that a hot girl made a pun about having great jeans. LMAO.

Fkn ridiculous.

 

[Enjoying life]

These woke feminists always take shit to the extreme - it’s honestly comedy at this point.

They’ve also turned on their beloved poster child, Laverne Cox, because she dared to date a white, blue-eyed NYC cop who happens to be a Republican. Yes, a black trans woman in love with a MAGA dude - and suddenly she’s public enemy #1. The same crowd that screams “love is love” is now ripping her apart for… loving the wrong person? Make it make sense.

Sydney Sweeney has great jeans - they don’t. Case closed HAHAHA. Always offended … shocking.

I buy American Eagle jeans too. They make plus-size options, in case anyone forgot. But of course, the woke mob would never support a “patriarchal, far-right FASCIST brand” now that a hot girl made a pun about having great jeans. LMAO.

Fkn ridiculous.

Valentina write a book!

 

[Valentina Amante | LAVAL]

This American Eagle jeans ad couldn’t have come at a more perfect time in regard to this subject.

The woke feminists would have no problem with the script in the ad if a person who was saying it shared the same attributes that THEY have… but when a person who doesn’t share those attributes says it - NOW it’s problematic hahahah.

This is the reason why the majority of people don’t respect this kind of behaviour anymore. It’s because it’s completely one dimensional. It’s not really about any sort of ideology in the end - it’s just about erasing and replacing people THEY think are problematic with people of their kind lmao.

People have had it with others trying to control everything.

 

[S.S neo]

These woke feminists always take shit to the extreme - it’s honestly comedy at this point.

They’ve also turned on their beloved poster child, Laverne Cox, because she dared to date a white, blue-eyed NYC cop who happens to be a Republican. Yes, a black trans woman in love with a MAGA dude - and suddenly she’s public enemy #1. The same crowd that screams “love is love” is now ripping her apart for… loving the wrong person? Make it make sense.

Sydney Sweeney has great jeans - they don’t. Case closed HAHAHA. Always offended … shocking.

I buy American Eagle jeans too. They make plus-size options, in case anyone forgot. But of course, the woke mob would never support a “patriarchal, far-right FASCIST brand” now that a hot girl made a pun about having great jeans. LMAO.

Fkn ridiculous.

Yep. I can’t stand anymore groups that thinks that pushing their ideas to the extreme will get them to reach the ´center’ to balance things off. This kind of logic just put Trump back in power and now they see the backlash of their actions.

 

[jeffmathers]

One thing I definitely know what is NOT feminism. A woman who wants to be "strong" does not involve trying to bench press more than you. That is called masculism. LOL.

TRUE feminism for one is woman's ability to get some guy to fly X hours to Montreal and pay her $1,200 to see her eat for an hour or so. Haha.

Japan has women that pay their equivalent of 1200 dollars (They are a lower cost country so money goes farther there than Montreal) to eat, drink and have intimacy with men. It's a narrow way of seeing to think someone is ridiculous for paying a lot of money to spend time with someone. There are plenty of articles that go into more depth on this but gender roles may be one way in your personal experience but many people I know in Montreal break gender norms. Life is too short to spend it seeing gender in a boring way.

 

[Enjoying life]

Japan has women that pay their equivalent of 1200 dollars (They are a lower cost country so money goes farther there than Montreal) to eat, drink and have intimacy with men. It's a narrow way of seeing to think someone is ridiculous for paying a lot of money to spend time with someone. There are plenty of articles that go into more depth on this but gender roles may be one way in your personal experience but many people I know in Montreal break gender norms. Life is too short to spend it seeing gender in a boring way.

Japan rules

 

[kstanb]

I don't know, I might be old fashion libertarian, but I support the feminazis!, they have the right to have their little toxic app if they want to

breech of privacy is a serious crime

 

[LeDodo]

Japan has women that pay their equivalent of 1200 dollars (They are a lower cost country so money goes farther there than Montreal) to eat, drink and have intimacy with men. It's a narrow way of seeing to think someone is ridiculous for paying a lot of money to spend time with someone. There are plenty of articles that go into more depth on this but gender roles may be one way in your personal experience but many people I know in Montreal break gender norms. Life is too short to spend it seeing gender in a boring way.

And this is not new at all.

However there are lot of wealthy women just paying to have some companionship without involving intimacy. The top companion often as re the best listeners or talkers. But it's usually in "club".

And even now there also have girlfriend or boyfriend for rental to do activities (restaurant, going to theme parks, etc). Equivalent of the social dates here. Except that the SP does not necessarily provide intimacy at all.

 

[Valentina Amante | LAVAL]

Feminism, is also the ability to be a trad wife if that fits into what works for the desires of the couple. It should not be a single decision, in a discussion designed for 2. It is the ability to support ourselves and be with people we are compatible with, and not be tied down to a set script where her life is dictated by the men around her. That she has her own autonomy.

Also correct!

However, modern feminism comes with a negative connotation nowadays, as it’s increasingly associated with extremism, hypocrisy, and toxic behaviour. What was once a movement for equality, has - in many circles, morphed into a platform for man-bashing or even women bashing for not following their narrative or personal beliefs (some of these women will recognize themselves here… they threw a fit and tried to shame me online just because I didn’t agree with their groupthink here on threads lmao. They blocked me first and thought I wasn’t gonna see and continued berating me and name dropping me in private).

Not to mention how many double standards and constant ✨performative outrage✨ that come with modern feminism.

 

[Enjoying life]

Also correct!

However, modern feminism comes with a negative connotation nowadays, as it’s increasingly associated with extremism, hypocrisy, and toxic behaviour. What was once a movement for equality, has - in many circles, morphed into a platform for man-bashing or even women bashing for not following their narrative or personal beliefs (some of these women will recognize themselves here… they threw a fit and tried to shame me online just because I didn’t agree with their groupthink here on threads lmao. They blocked me first and thought I wasn’t gonna see and continued berating me and name dropping me in private).

Not to mention how many double standards and constant ✨performative outrage✨ that come with modern feminism.

I know of someone who is a simp husband and when he needs an escape and watches porn from his demanding wife she finds porn gross! I think he needs a nice sp if you ask me but he is a chicken! She is totally toxic with controlling him!

 

[Valentina Amante | LAVAL]

I don't know, I might be old fashion libertarian, but I support the feminazis!, they have the right to have their little toxic app if they want to

breech of privacy is a serious crime

Feminazis hahahaha that’s spot on!

Imagine how some women already behave publicly - now give them a women-only app that encourages anonymous gossip, callouts, and mob mentality. It doesn’t help their mental state; it amplifies the instability and condones bullying / toxic behaviours. It validates toxicity under the guise of “empowerment” and creates an echo chamber where accountability doesn’t exist.

Now imagine the exact same app, but for men only. People would be up in arms, screaming misogyny, toxic masculinity, and calling for it to be banned.

The double standard is insane.

Also, a lot of women love to slap labels like “PTSD” or “trauma” on themselves especially when it involves blaming men. Unless it’s clinically diagnosed and they are actively seeking therapy, it’s become more of a trend than a truth to label their struggles and throw around those terms so loosely. They’re not the only ones who’ve had BAD EXPERIENCES or PAINFUL MEMORIES, yet they treat their struggles like a personality trait or a badge of honour. It’s a slap in the face to people who actually have PTSD and are doing the hard work to heal - not cling to it for attention or weaponize it to justify toxic behaviour. Real trauma survivors want peace, not pity or a personality built around their pain.

Constantly reliving those experiences and blaming men for everything doesn’t heal them - it traps them in a victimhood cycle they refuse to break.

You know what they say… “misery loves company”.

 

[Valentina Amante | LAVAL]

I know of someone who is a simp husband and when he needs an escape and watches porn from his demanding wife she finds porn gross! I think he needs a nice sp if you ask me but he is a chicken! She is totally toxic with controlling him!

I ain’t no therapist but I think they need to have an honest, respectful conversation to reach a healthy resolution.

Many women and even some men don’t like porn. But if they can’t come to a mutual understanding, it will keep creating friction in their relationship. Even if everything else seems fine, resentment can quietly build. She may start to resent him for needing an “escape,” and he may start to feel judged or controlled as you stated.

This dynamic causes men to walk on eggshells, leading to secrecy out of shame. In turn, the woman loses trust, and everything they’ve built begins to sour. It creates a cycle of miscommunication and emotional distance.

 

[kstanb]

Someone created a website where you can rate the attractiveness of users of the hacked feminist doxing app "Tea" (like that old "Hot or Not")

funny thing is a lot of the profiles are men... lol

careful with these "feminist men allies" these are the worst kind of pervs