I am crushing on one of my coworkers, she is a slim and tall african woman. Damn , she does that effect on me
Man.. I can so much understand you!
I had a major crush with a coworker, in my case she's more middle-east type, on the thick but fit type, strong but so sweet at the same time. But a bit too young, I was in management level and her not, and I'm in a steady relationship. But the chemistry was there, many slight moves, sayings, touches, and eyes with slow breathing to know it was mutual. But she respected my boundaries.
The hardest part.. yesterday she came to my "pot de départ" (quit my job party) even if she had left this company a few years back. Damn, damn, damn... the hug she gave me and the words she told me.. damn damn damn.
That's where as often
@Lunaseraphim says it, there's a big difference between the SP/hobby mindset and limits we set ourselves and the real life stuff.
Anyhow, in the meantime I'll still have sweet dreams about her.