Long time ago I had ATF SP. But when I was upgraded from a client to a friend the sex stopped. She said that she does not charge friends, but is not interested in free sex with me
Can a woman and a man be friends?
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Friendship to me is more intimate than just sharing common interests. That is still an acquaintance to me. After having sex with a woman, friendship is ruined. No attraction is a must for me. If there is attraction it changes the guy behaviour same goes for the women too.
Catch-22 much? LolLong time ago I had ATF SP. But when I was upgraded from a client to a friend the sex stopped. She said that she does not charge friends, but is not interested in free sex with me
I think you're talking about yourself here, you can't generalize and apply this to every one. I'm attracted to some woman friends and it just comes out as respect for them (& maybe a little fantasy at night when I'm falling to sleep).
We only talk about ourselves.
The capacity that men have to fool themselves always amazes me. Again, I am only talking about myself...
Whatever friendship means to you, if you can't have it with a woman that's a you problem. The rest of us contain multitudes.
I think its very much a possibility. Some of my good friends are women. I don't have a sexual interest in them because I decided that even if they are attractive the friendship space is more valuable than exploring fwb or other.
Because of my personality I feel more comfortable with women friends than men on many levels. I feel more at ease sharing with a woman than men in a lot of areas of life.
Because of my personality I feel more comfortable with women friends than men on many levels. I feel more at ease sharing with a woman than men in a lot of areas of life.
Then you're all good. I'd have a problem not being able to get friendly with *checks notes* 4.15 billion people, so I guess that's a me problem.
Haha I can be friendly, just wouldn't call friend.
Yeah excluding half the earth population isn't that bad knowing I will not meet most of them.
Of course a man and a woman can be friends, no plot twist there. The only time it goes sideways is when someone’s running a hidden agenda. If your intentions aren’t clean, don’t call it friendship, you’re just setting yourself up for disappointment.
Personally, I’ve got plenty of female friends and it works because I keep it genuine. No ulterior motives, no weird expectations. Honestly, I enjoy their company, less pointless arguing, more good vibes. And since I’m not trying to hook up with most of them, the friendships stay solid and drama free.
Now, let’s be real, I’m human. There were times I caught feelings, acted on it, and yeah… it wrecked the friendship. Lesson learned. No more cheap moves, it’s not worth the fallout or the disrespect.
That said, if both people are clearly on the same page, things can evolve. I’ve had friendships turn into something physical, and because it was mutual and understood, we stayed cool even after it ended. No drama, no awkwardness, just respect.
At the end of the day, it really does take two to tango. If that mutual understanding isn’t there, then friendship should be exactly what it is, nothing more, nothing less.
Personally, I’ve got plenty of female friends and it works because I keep it genuine. No ulterior motives, no weird expectations. Honestly, I enjoy their company, less pointless arguing, more good vibes. And since I’m not trying to hook up with most of them, the friendships stay solid and drama free.
Now, let’s be real, I’m human. There were times I caught feelings, acted on it, and yeah… it wrecked the friendship. Lesson learned. No more cheap moves, it’s not worth the fallout or the disrespect.
That said, if both people are clearly on the same page, things can evolve. I’ve had friendships turn into something physical, and because it was mutual and understood, we stayed cool even after it ended. No drama, no awkwardness, just respect.
At the end of the day, it really does take two to tango. If that mutual understanding isn’t there, then friendship should be exactly what it is, nothing more, nothing less.
