Just realize seeing a post from an old me that I have been at this for 34 years now
While waiting to see another one in 10 minutes
Tough to stop…..
While waiting to see another one in 10 minutes
Tough to stop…..
34 years at this game
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Really props to those who can go at this hobby for years and years and not get bored and not catch an STD. I salute you.
i would fit that description. But it is defnitely getting more and more difficult to have that same level of excitement as I had when I started, but i'm still at it, and sometimes still have some really good encounters. Nor have i ever had a std (knock on wood)
A few weeks ago, I was looking at the old posts on this forum.. from the early 2000's. I was not shocked to find out that the same complaints and topics have been brought up since the very beginning.
A lot of people will say sex addiction isn't real, but I think there are harmful behaviors that people can have that are related to sex for sure. Seeing an escort is supposed to be something you view as a luxury, as well as an uplifting experience. At least that's how I see it. It's also a human experience, and those can be flawed and full of unexpected things. Je ne suis pas certaine que ça soit une bonne chose pour certaines personnes de voir des escortes..
if you have made it this far, you are probably ok.
Has something changed? Have you suddently increased your frequency of visits? are you spending beyond what you can afford? do you still have satisfying encounters, or are they always frought with guilt and regret?
This is a really interesting discussion because personally, as a SP, I don't want to encourage someone down a dark path.. and this is something I really watch out for particularly with repeat and regulars clients.. And it doesn't even necessarily have to do with sex addiction. In some cases, it's an addiction to a certain type of company. With people like this, it doesn't feel like they are happy during the booking. They are already looking forward to other bookings, and they talk about other SP's.. or they are overly focused on a checklist of acronyms and their own sexual performance. It prevents the session from feeling natural when that happens..
I'm also under the impression that this is the type of thing that you can become jaded about over time as a client, for different reasons. I have never hired an SP, but I can imagine that the first meetings are exhilarating and the client leaves super impressed.. then one day he ''gets used to it'', and the magic is gone. He is seeking that magic again but can't find it, and I can imagine this becomes frustrating over time.. I think this is something that a lot of people go through when something in their life is missing and they are looking for excitement and a distraction...
Some clients I've met told me that over the years they started looking for something else than what they were seeking when they first saw providers, and I think that can be a healthy way of looking at it and experiencing something different.
It obviously evolves with time and getting bit use to it but still satisfying to have nice encounter sometime as simple as at the beginning of meeting escort. But also seeking to realize some fantasm or to do list behavior I have to admit. Sure sex is a good but sill an addiction
I think human touch and company can be really healing, and that includes sex. I think it's all about what you're seeking from sex, and your attitude towards sex and your sexual partners that makes the difference between something that is fun and even makes you change in a positive way, vs something that drags you down in different ways.It obviously evolves with time and getting bit use to it but still satisfying to have nice encounter sometime as simple as at the beginning of meeting escort. But also seeking to realize some fantasm or to do list behavior I have to admit. Sure sex is a good but sill an addiction
I'm curious how the game had changed in that time!
How did things work before internet, merb, online agencies, etc...?
Can you reminisce? What was it in 1995? 2000? 2005?
By 2010 things had solidly moved online. But I watch movies depicting street scenes, meeting high end escorts in hotel bars, etc...
I'd love to hear some stories!
