I'm curious and I would like to have your point of view on this. When meeting with a provider at your place, you give out your home address. Have you ever feared that the provider could use this information to harm you? I'm not saying that they do, but there is always a risk giving that kind of information to strangers. So, what are your fears when meeting for the first time at your place. Is doxing one of them? I would love to read your answers.
Have you ever feared being doxed by a provider?
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I invited one SP last winter after seeing her a few times and I trusted her completely. I plan on inviting her again soon and I'm more concerned about the neighbours inquiring who is the young lady visiting me (I live in a house in a quiet neighbourhood). I would not invite somebody I didn't meet a few times. It takes trust on both sides for a SP to visit a client at his home.
I agree. As you say, trust (and I might had « good vibes ») from both side are the most important things to have before meeting at your place. Otherwise, I think the risk is to great (for the provider and the client).
Yeah, I think I'd do the same. It's a safe move!
ps.: props to you for respecting each other's boundaries
I have no issues with the 2 ladies I see coming to my home on occasion, I have known them for 8 years they are friends and I trust them completely.
Would I do it with someone new, No.
Would I do it with someone new, No.
No I would never do incall. I did it once nearly 20 years ago when I lived in an appartment. Now in my current situation I would not. I do outfalls to sp or mp.
I don’t think that would be a good idea of having an SP visiting my home. This is not a trust issue mind you.
Much prefer this takes place at a hotel.
This is because after the second MSOG I invite the SP if she is interested without telling her the reason we spend the remaining time playing heavy metal records backwards.
The hope is to open a gateway for Satan to enter our world. This is going to cause the kind of mess I much prefer house keeping to deal with. Especially if I end up having to sacrifice the SP and the driver. I get to keep the donation so I don’t want the agency to find me.
Much prefer this takes place at a hotel.
This is because after the second MSOG I invite the SP if she is interested without telling her the reason we spend the remaining time playing heavy metal records backwards.
The hope is to open a gateway for Satan to enter our world. This is going to cause the kind of mess I much prefer house keeping to deal with. Especially if I end up having to sacrifice the SP and the driver. I get to keep the donation so I don’t want the agency to find me.
My girlfriend doesn't like when I invite SP's at home.
Did it once and she's the only one with who I did it.
I have the same reasons here. I have mostly retired people who spend their days observing what's happening and asking tons of questions ...
This is my personal opinion and not all SP may feel the same, but certain factors can lead to a SP observing what's happening a lot, that have nothing to do with having negative intentions toward the client.
Sometimes it's a question of safety for her.Other times, it has to do with privacy. We are observed all the time ourselves and if privacy between a provider and a client feels compromised, it can feel stressful. We ourselves don't want to be doxxed or to have a client accidentally reveal something we wish they hadn't, to others.
That doesn't mean she has intentions of doxxing or endangering you, but I can see how it would get annoying over time.. personally I'm always a fan of direct communication. Meaning if there's an issue it should be addressed and discussed.. I have addressed concerns with clients before.
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In the past most of my clients didn't use the internet that much to communicate with others, or not at all. In a way it's a good thing that'll people can share information, and I don't blame them..
This new dynamic of seeing many clients of mine post online a lot can feel stressful, particularly when they make allusions to our relationship or things we experienced together. I'm not talking about you specifically, this has happened multiple times with different clients. I also think it's their choice to do whatever they want, but it's something I wasn't used to. They also don't often have negative intentions.
Sometimes it just has consequences even if nobody anticipated it or wanted anything negative to happen. Once again, this is because things have changed and almost all the clients are on this forum and follow everything we post on social media now. When I entered the industry, that was far from being the case.
When I first entered the industry I didn't need to have the social presence I have today, I didn't care about reviews as much because most of my clients didn't even know they existed. In just 2 years this changed a lot.
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