Do you ever just have BJ only sessions?
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Let’s you and I make a friendly bet on how long we can resist to Julia Sky, if she is willing. Not the same day though lol.
I also don't think this should be the point of a BJ only session unless the SP can really provide that. (which Julia can, because she is a super hero LOL and I do admit in a duo session it's way easier)
This has mostly been why I feel more wary of providing that service lately, because some people expect a blowjob the whole time or without hands or really unrealistic things like that. They don't read my restrictions and expect FF, etc. I initially offered that session because people were asking for it, combined with a massage, and I received a lot of gratitude.
I took the session away, then I brought it back later on because I had an operation that prevented me from having penetrative sex last winter and it kinda stuck even after I had healed. But I do find that although it's straightforward and my cheapest option, clients don't want to screen and I always get a TON of questions about it with answers that should be pretty obvious. It became more tedious at some point, I'd get people who hold themselves back from climaxing and who want a 40-45 min blowjob or longer. They would push boundaries and basically treat it like GFE without penetration or even PSE without penetration, etc. A lot of people just do not understand that I am not a PSE provider.
I did have some really good sessions.
I had some clients who took the option to see if we would click before getting full GFE, and they were sweet. I had clients recently who fit that description that I really liked. I also had one or two clients on the kinkier side who I vibed with a lot more than I anticipated. I just don't like feeling like I'm a suck-machine.
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occasionally a girl would be in the middle of a fantastic DT and would tell me to come in her mouth while she’s slurping away. And pop, swallow; bj only session. For some reason I can’t refuse when a girl demands I come.
We were joking of course. ;-). Plus that would probably be the most EXPENSIVE blowjob ever. lolI also don't think this should be the point of a BJ only session unless the SP can really provide that. (which Julia can, because she is a super hero LOL and I do admit in a duo session it's way easier)
This has mostly been why I feel more wary of providing that service lately, because some people expect a blowjob the whole time or without hands or really unrealistic things like that. They don't read my restrictions and expect FF, etc. I initially offered that session because people were asking for it, combined with a massage, and I received a lot of gratitude.
I took the session away, then I brought it back last winter because I had an operation that prevented me from having penetrative sex last winter and it kinda stuck even after I had healed. But I do find that although it's straightforward and my cheapest option, I always get a TON of questions about it with answers that should be pretty obvious. It became more tedious at some point, I'd get people who hold themselves back from climaxing and who want a 40-45 min blowjob or longer. They would push boundaries and basically treat it like GFE without penetration or even PSE without penetration, etc. A lot of people just do not understand that I am not a PSE provider.
I did have some really good sessions.
"Unfortunately, some people treat partners like machines rather than human beings, pushing physical limits for performance just like in pornography. They miss the entire point of intimacy.
For me, the true value lies in connecting deeply, sharing genuine emotions and tenderness, and experiencing mutual closeness for an hour or two—all within the framework of deep respect." It doesn’t always happen but that is another story.
Even if…just a bj session.
Ciao Bellas. Be grateful for this day and have fun.
No not everyone is joking about this.. some guys actually do want this.. but I love your approach and what you are describing is what I prefer as well
Looking forward to meet you soon then. XoxNo not everyone is joking about this.. some guys actually do want this.. but I love your approach and what you are describing is what I prefer as well
Sounds great
I'd say most guys see this as simply visiting a woman for a service, not necessarily trying to push the max limits nor seeking something emotional and "tender" as you would say lol
No matter what kind of service you're looking for it's still "visiting a woman for a service".
I thought we were paying for the companion's time, not for the service.
That's what I actually believe. But a lot of people here will disagree because of the wording. If you're paying for someone's time, it's still ''a service''. It's just a question of semantics. This thread is about ''bj only sessions'' so there is a particular expectation and focus.
Well, specific service for an agreed amount of time is more to the point I suppose.
But in terms of BJ session, obviously expecting hours of constant uninterrupted "service" because you paid for multiple hours is somewhat unrealistic.
If you absolutely need that kind of service, better pay for a trio and they can rotate servicing the client.
Yes, I need hours of uninterrupted service
I paid for 99% up time guaranteed god dammit!
I mean, I think generally, when you book a provider, you are paying for her time. Beyond that, you can discuss what the expectations are. Sometimes expectations aren't realistic, sometimes you will be more than happy and even pleasantly surprised, sometimes things won't go exactly as you wanted. No matter what type of session it is, some clients want constant physical contact. Some providers are capable of offering this, but not all of us have the capacity for it. Other clients want sessions that are more organic and involve chatting, sometimes having a glass of wine, or even sharing a meal etc. That's also why I ask clients what their expectations are upfront because I don't want somebody to complain in my review thread that I didn't fulfill the expectations.. but sometimes people aren't so communicative.
Isn’t there a baseline level of service that a guy would typically expect? When contacting a service provider
Of course there is a baseline of service. All I'm saying is that you're not just paying for sexual acts. You're paying for the person's time overall. And I think it should be YMMV, personally. Not like the service provider should just take the money and refuse to do sexual things with the client, that's not what I'm saying, but it's unrealistic to imagine that everybody is going to get the exact same service. You were poking fun at the guy saying he's interested in connection during a session, but this guy is also looking for sexual acts just like you are.
Even for a bj session, I have to get to my incall, make the bed, clean the shower, do some laundry, make everything smell good, take a shower, put makeup on and do my hair, make sure there are refreshments for the client when he arrives, etc. I think it's just human to connect a little bit before getting to action. I've had clients who wanted to cum 2 or 3 times during the hour but I had plenty of breaks and we were able to chat. Things felt very relaxed.
This is very different from somebody who wants something painful or tedious and unrealistic, although I do understand that some people book service providers to experience things they normally wouldn't with a romantic partner.. it's just that service providers aren't necessarily interested in offering that kind of experience.
This is very different from somebody who wants something painful or tedious and unrealistic, although I do understand that some people book service providers to experience things they normally wouldn't with a romantic partner.. it's just that service providers aren't necessarily interested in offering that kind of experience.
I understand. But from personal experience, you aren't necessarily right, or at least it doesn't apply to everyone. I also think even here, there are people who aren't fully honest with other users and they are still looking for human connection when it comes to booking providers. I do know some people are strictly looking for nothing but having an orgasm.. Still, I think it's important to remember there is a human being providing the service.Wasn’t poking fun, just sharing my opinion
