The Bitching thread

[Lunaseraphim]

South of spain is very different from the rest of the country, we did a road trip strating from Barcelona and driving to Granada. We visited a lot of cities, Sevilla, Malaga, Granada, Carthagene, Cordoba and Valencia. This part of the country is very dry, Sergio Leone shot his westerns movie there. Overall i like Italy more than Spain but i was happy to go there. The Alhambra in Granada is magnificent but i was even more impressed by Cordoba, the church is made of layers from 3 different eras, never saw that before elsewhere.
Malaga was a nice surprise also, not what i was expecting.

I only went to Barcelona but loved it! I would like to visit the other places you mentioned

 

[Lunaseraphim]

It's immature and creepy for users of this forum to become unreasonably angry at providers, insulting them with fake accounts and numbers, complaining here in the lounge or on review threads, just because they don't want to see them or they are inaccessible to them.. please let it go. It's fucking terrifying. Stop acting like a stalker. Accepte the rejection and move on. We are not public property.

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

It's immature and creepy for users of this forum to become unreasonably angry at providers, insulting them with fake accounts and numbers, complaining here in the lounge or on review threads, just because they don't want to see them or they are inaccessible to them.. please let it go. It's fucking terrifying. Stop acting like a stalker. Accepte the rejection and move on. We are not public property.

True..

Back in the summer, a provider got my interest. As time evolved, there were things started to turn me off from her(some of her postings, her ad tag line), but somehow i was still interested to see her. When i attempted to book her at the beginning of september, the text exchange was so awkward, when i confirmed my merb identity, she said that we were not a match (because according to her, my reviews were in bad taste) and wishing me luck in my research. To be honest, i felt more relief than rejection. And in the end, i felt blessed the meeting didn't happen.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

True..

Back in the summer, a provider got my interest. As time evolved, there were things started to turn me off from her(some of her postings, her ad tag line), but somehow i was still interested to see her. When i attempted to book her at the beginning of september, the text exchange was so awkward, when i confirmed my merb identity, she said that we were not a match (because according to her, my reviews were in bad taste) and wishing me luck in my research. To be honest, i felt more relief than rejection. And in the end, i felt blessed the meeting didn't happen.

I am not accusing you of this because I'm sure you don't have bad intentions but when a client told me I "turned him off" personally it's because I set a boundary, I was firm, or felt hesitant to see him...

I'll say it again we aren't public property and we're allowed to decide that something just doesn't work for us. That's why some people raise their rates and don't want to see new clients.. become more exclusive, or move to a different sector of the industry and give a different service.

There's no reason to discuss it on this forum and direct so much negative energy at somebody... It freaks me out.

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

I am not accusing you of this because I'm sure you don't have bad intentions but when a client told me I "turned him off" personally it's because I set a boundary, I was firm, or felt hesitant to see him...

I'll say it again we aren't public property and we're allowed to decide that something just doesn't work for us. That's why some people raise their rates and don't want to see new clients.. become more exclusive, or move to a different sector of the industry and give a different service.

There's no reason to discuss it on this forum and direct so much negative energy at somebody... It freaks me out.

I know you're not accusing me, you know me well after all lol. I was just telling my experience as an isolated situation.