A toxic, dangerous and humiliating ordeal. How to cope?

[DetectiveBOOBS]

Brother,

I truely have empathy for you. I don’t know how old you are but drug addict, they are always a shit show. Just wait for it. They might be the sweetest human being while sober but that won’t always be the case. We all know how the white knight in us would be stronger than logical reasoning and get us in this shit show.

I truely wish you for the best and please learn a lesson from this. Stay away from drug addict. I encountered a few sp like this in my life. i learned my lesson the hard way, there was no bf/pimp but it’s already bad enough.

You should contact your bank and all just in case. The girl seems sweet but the pimp Is a pain in the ass, you don’t want to be involved in some financial shit later on.

 

[PSEfreak]

What a crazy story

like Gus Fring says - " you can never trust an addict "

 

[john4808]

Brother,

I truely have empathy for you. I don’t know how old you are but drug addict, they are always a shit show. Just wait for it. They might be the sweetest human being while sober but that won’t always be the case. We all know how the white knight in us would be stronger than logical reasoning and get us in this shit show.

I truely wish you for the best and please learn a lesson from this. Stay away from drug addict. I encountered a few sp like this in my life. i learned my lesson the hard way, there was no bf/pimp but it’s already bad enough.

You should contact your bank and all just in case. The girl seems sweet but the pimp Is a pain in the ass, you don’t want to be involved in some financial shit later on.

I'm 38, she's 28... But I was always very careful to hide details like my home address and bank info, she never had any access to that information.

 

[jmioffe]

What a story! But why was the dude aggressively chasing you if he wasn't a jealous lover? How did he get your contact info to send you screenshots?

You asked to hear others' stories. I have a friend who went through something similar. He got sweet on a certain SW, even took her with him on a multiweek family vacation to Africa (he's European). Spent a fair amount of money on her. He's 50+, she's around 20. He found out she was talking shit about him.

He's a really nice guy, good looking and tall, but older now. Probably could have a decent woman of his own, but likes paying young women for sex. He shrugged off the shit talk, still sees her occasionally, but her porn career has taken off, and there are always new girls on the scene.

 

[EastWind]

Guys please tell me I'm not the only one who's gone through this

No you are not the only one. I went through my own version of crazy. The Covid lock down and at that time dealing with postpartum depression really warped my wife. When the lock down was over and things slowly going back to normal she became a whole new person. Her questionable female crew was not helping things either as they were huge cheerleaders of her decided to go poly. Was a fucking mess at that time especially we have new born who needed a loving mother. To keep the peace and saved the marriage as we have kids I reluctantly agreed which is for just a year for her to get this out of her system. Didn’t last that long though as she decided to return and focus on our marriage eight months in as she caught gono in her throat. Now is my turn for my year and I decided my version is to return to the hobby.