Recent content by ekzarh

I haven’t really returned to hobbying, as it seems kind of fake and a 50mins sex session without an emotional connection is not what I want anymore. I do have some ladies that I believe I developed emotional connections to in the past, but doesn’t look like they are active anymore. Someone in...

Sport, I go on long bike trips quite often and kayaking/lake trips as well.

It was a combination of everything I guess. Well, I do have an update. We are no longer together as of the end of 2024, she did want kids and wanted to move to the next phase and that had to involve my divorce. But when I looked it with a clear head and some of the issues I saw that were not a...

For one I am not looking for 5 years. We did try to reignite a fire a few years ago and it didn’t work. I agree about being selfish, but unfortunately the current divorce laws in Canada are totally on the women’s side. If it wasn’t like that there is a much higher chance I would have been...

I agree, but it is what it is. She does seem to be quite content with the current situation and she has her toys …

It’s not technically sexless, but it’s definitely lovesless. Honestly I once reviewed the columbian Mia Milan here (former Ariana Grande) - similar experience. And I was too hesitant to divorce on a couple opportunities as I am probably scared living alone .. (which I am not proud of). I built...

How are you handling it?

In my case if there is marital sex it’s either for procreation or as a duty, lol

That is correct, and when the clock hits the 50 mins mark you get a gentle push towards the shower, signifying ‘I liked it, but it’s over for today’ …

I think even with SPs I develop relationships … I don’t go to SPs just for sex.

And then reach my 50s old, bitter and alone (when children are out of the house and my wife no longer needs me)? She almost openly said it during covid … And being divorced will significantly affect my SP budgeting as my income is higher than my wife’s …

I got the question from her of how do I have the experience to satisfy her after being for years in an unhappy marriage, I kind of changed the topic quickly and didn’t really answer that.

I got tested, so it’s not a problem. And as I mentioned in my case I am not even the one initiating intimacy in more than 50% of the time. So letting me do it for “free” (it’s never really free as we know it, even with the wife) is the major issue here?

Very well said, I’d sign under every word.

Based on my thread it may work, but creates so many other issues. It is an addiction and you need a really strong motivation … I stopped and have hopes - for good, but I understand there is a high chance I might be back for the “drugs” again.