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Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

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When someone books a provider and nothing sexual ends up happening because there was a lot of lively conversations and fun, it's really unfair no matter how high the rates were to say that the SP scammed the client. Sometimes it's up to the client to make the first move. Consent is important to everyone in this industry, and it can happen that clients are shy and not ready to go to the bedroom the first meeting, so don't assume that the provider maliciously continued talking to avoid doing anything else. I understand it's disappointing but if you didn't initiate anything, and then you write a negative review about the provider, insulting her looks on top of it as revenge, it's not really a good look for you.
It’s normal for the guy to initiate as I always do after some meaningful conversations of course!
 

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It’s normal for the guy to initiate as I always do after some meaningful conversations of course!
Thank you beautiful Luna!
I don't think it's necessarily the told of the guy to initiate but for some of us it can definitely help, in a gentle way of course. :)

My comment is relating to something I read elsewhere on the forum and no recent experience of mine.

But it's happened that a client ended up not being ready for anything sexual during the session and just made another booking.
I love making company comfortable
 
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When someone books a provider and nothing sexual ends up happening because there was a lot of lively conversations and fun, it's really unfair no matter how high the rates were to say that the SP scammed the client. Sometimes it's up to the client to make the first move.

Consent is important to everyone in this industry, and it can happen that clients are shy and not ready to go to the bedroom the first meeting, so don't assume that the provider maliciously continued talking to avoid doing anything else. I understand it's disappointing but if you didn't initiate anything, and then you write a negative review about the provider, insulting her looks on top of it as revenge, it's not really a good look for you.

The man is too shy to make a move or say something so instead he’s just gonna go back home and complain about it online
 
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But it's happened that a client ended up not being ready for anything sexual during the session and just made another booking.
But to know this, one has to ask and not assume.

If I see the guy doesn't initiate, then I will eventually ask if he's ready for the shower. It doesn't have to be a physical contact to initiate. If the guy is not ready to be sexually active in his session, he can still take his shower, then the session will unfold with or without sex. I think of those times where I am not sure I can kiss the client since they don't approach me (which is rare). I don't just not do it, I ask if I can. Sometimes they are just shy — some people need us to break the ice.

My job is to understand who you are and what you want, I won't just wait for you to tell me everything, I will go get the answer I need.
 

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That's what I usually do personally as well. I either ask if he's ready to shower or make a gentle gesture and ask if he wants to move to the bedroom. I also feel like it's my job to break the ice. :)

But I can see how during a booking time would pass really fast and the provider just didn't initiate. It doesn't mean she's a scammer and deserves a bad review. The review could have mentioned what happened without insulting her looks, as well..
It’s a clients responsibility to prepare his self especially with conversation making an sp feel comfortable like I always have something to give her as that certainly breaks the ice then great conversation afterwards!
 
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My job is to understand who you are and what you want, I won't just wait for you to tell me everything, I will go get the answer I need.
This.
It is up to you to find out if he is there just to chat or to make him comfortable, if he wants intimacy also.
You are the one who has the experience and has done this hundreds of times. This is what you advertise that you are there to make him feel at ease with you.
If all he wants to do is chat and have someone listen great job done.
 

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So. You find a provider on LL that makes your dick harden. Then to find out it's just a redirect to OF. I FUCKING HATE spending on that site when for one thing, pornhub or xvideos have better quality porn for free, as opposed to getting nickled and dimed to death by some ... Anyways. I subbed to a girl or two as it was a condition of getting in touch with them to link up. Apart from gladly sexting with Anna so far, I'm trying to limit my use of porn to get off. What do you guys and gals think of the site?
 
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So. You find a provider on LL that makes your dick harden. Then to find out it's just a redirect to OF. I FUCKING HATE spending on that site when for one thing, pornhub or xvideos have better quality porn for free, as opposed to getting nickled and dimed to death by some ... Anyways. I subbed to a girl or two as it was a condition of getting in touch with them to link up. Apart from gladly sexting with Anna so far, I'm trying to limit my use of porn to get off. What do you guys and gals think of the site?
There are several threads about this :)
 

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Luna beat me to it, too many threads about it already. Personally, never really used it, no point.
 
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Then to find out it's just a redirect to OF. I FUCKING HATE spending on that site when for one thing, pornhub or xvideos have better quality porn for free, as opposed to getting nickled and dimed to death by some ... Anyways. I subbed to a girl or two as it was a condition of getting in touch with them to link up.
Seems that it works. Why would they stop, then...

As long it will work, Leolist will remain a trash site.
 
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