Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

Fradi · Aug 17, 2025

Rebaynia said:
Yes and no. As this just assumes women be feminine and men be masculine. And we should stay in those roles.

Not only are not all couples man/woman

Not every woman/man wants a masculine man/feminine woman, might want a masculine woman. Or a feminine man.

Also both masculine and feminine traits reside in each of us. It is the human exhistance. It is in trying to neglect sides of ourselves that are there, but not gender accepted, that cause insecurities projected onto others, not someone else's actions of being themselves that should offend our own exhistance.

It is about just trying to be your best self, to encourage others to be their best selves. When we battle up against eachother no one wins.

A protective mother is not being masculine, and neither is a doting father being feminine.

Mmmm.
Never thought about philosophy or what role a man or woman should play. Poetry or reading books from so called experts never entered our minds.
Basically loved, respected and trusted each other, shared our dreams and lives.
Worked our butts off to create a better life for our children than what we had.
Simply things actually work lol.

LC18 · Aug 17, 2025

I forgot to check the water’s temperature and now my bathtub is hot enough to boil a Maine sized lobster

mtremblay · Aug 17, 2025

LeDodo said:
I'm sick as sh*t been sleeping half day.
Everyone takes care, temperature swing is dangerous

Do you feel better today?

themonk83 · Aug 17, 2025

I refuse to believe summer ends in a month

Alucard87 · Aug 17, 2025

massagecentre said:
What’s on my mind? Lately I love to read others’ reviews, especially long time Merb members. But when it comes to new members, it’s a different story. New people join here and start talking about LL providers that hardly had a chance even before the new members got here. Firstly, most of those on LL are not pretty, just being honest. Besides a few indies who advertise there, the rest are not inviting at all.
So to read newcomers talk (shill) about this one and that one, is sometimes laughable. Until you have enough money to get an SP at a decent agency, I will never take your first breath of writing with these LL listers which have no other reviews before you put them here.

Haha money for an agency? What...$250?

I haven't booked from LL but I've seen some who advertise higher rates than that.

philonius · Aug 17, 2025

LC18 said:
I forgot to check the water’s temperature and now my bathtub is hot enough to boil a Maine sized lobster

I've seen some of those lobsters and they can get just about as big as you, so the question is are you served with garlic butter or with mayo and dill in between a bun, lobster-roll style?

LeDodo · Aug 17, 2025

mtremblay said:
Do you feel better today?

Kind of ... But still slept almost all day and heavily medicated ...
Thanks for asking!

LC18 · Aug 17, 2025

philonius said:
I've seen some of those lobsters and they can get just about as big as you, so the question is are you served with garlic butter or with mayo and dill in between a bun, lobster-roll style?

Mayo. I love everything white and thick

MCTJ · Aug 17, 2025

People having their flights canceled because of the Air Canada strike. Stuck at the airport. Beach vacation canceled. Trip canceled. Traveling is so important.

Scroll, scroll... War in Ukraine. War in Gaza. Etc. Etc.

Puts things in perspective.

LeDodo · Aug 17, 2025

LC18 said:
Mayo. I love everything white and thick

jeffmathers · Aug 17, 2025

Rebaynia said:
Yes and no. As this just assumes women be feminine and men be masculine. And we should stay in those roles.

Not only are not all couples man/woman

Not every woman/man wants a masculine man/feminine woman, might want a masculine woman. Or a feminine man.

Also both masculine and feminine traits reside in each of us. It is the human exhistance. It is in trying to neglect sides of ourselves that are there, but not gender accepted, that cause insecurities projected onto others, not someone else's actions of being themselves that should offend our own exhistance.

It is about just trying to be your best self, to encourage others to be their best selves. When we battle up against eachother no one wins.

A protective mother is not being masculine, and neither is a doting father being feminine.

I feel many mothers have a sort of mother bear inside that's ready to do any form of violence for her kids but I never want to witness that much violence in real life. Gender norms are an interesting cultural construct

jeffmathers · Aug 17, 2025

I feel providers would maybe like this podcast more than most clients but this specific episode involves reading the memoirs of a courtesan named Harriette Wilson who had 200 clients that included some of the most powerful royals and others of her time. Not all of the episodes are the diaries/memoirs of providers as a previous episode has the diaries of Marilyn Monroe and another the diary of Princess Daisy. The woman who runs this podcast has an academic background in fashion history.

Michelle Gunn · Aug 17, 2025

LC18 said:
I forgot to check the water’s temperature and now my bathtub is hot enough to boil a Maine sized lobster

that sounds a smidge too cold for me

massagecentre · Aug 17, 2025

@LeDodo, you have interesting thoughts but do you have any reviews to share?

LeDodo · Aug 17, 2025

massagecentre said:
@LeDodo, you have interesting thoughts but do you have any reviews to share?

I can share reviews of restaurants, fun activities, entertainment, etc. your pick

massagecentre · Aug 17, 2025

LeDodo said:
I can share reviews of restaurants, fun activities, entertainment, etc. your pick

Lmao, I guess you don’t hobby, just watch from the sidelines

LeDodo · Aug 17, 2025

massagecentre said:
Lmao, I guess you don’t hobby, just watch from the sidelines

I'm a Sunday hobbyist!

Lunaseraphim · Aug 18, 2025

massagecentre said:
Lmao, I guess you don’t hobby, just watch from the sidelines

Read my review thread he wrote one for me. I also know he saw other providers who post here.

not everyone likes to write graphic reviews.

Enjoying life · Aug 18, 2025

Lunaseraphim said:
Read my review thread he wrote one for me. I also know he saw other providers who post here. not everyone likes to write graphic reviews.

Luna writes paragraphs she is very resourceful!

jeffmathers · Aug 18, 2025

I'm watching "Confessions of a Brazilian Call Girl". The film vaguely makes me think of an American provider that told me they view intimacy on the job through a rational lens and intimacy outside of work through an emotional lens. She detailed situations of it being way easier to set boundaries with clients than with partners outside of work. This isn't 100% related to the film and I'm not even half way yet but I'm glad @LC18 brought up this film. This film also makes me think of the Harriette Wilson episode of the Textory podcast where a Polish woman reads 200 year old memoirs of a provider that was providing 224 years ago

s ago.

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