The case of the missing 20$ - Anyone else got this ?

felixLg · 2025-09-10T07:51:25-0400

This week I was lucky to finally book one the the "Always fully book girl". I wont name her,

But something happen that I am curious to see if it did happen to anyone else.

First, as already mention, I've been around for many years, So I know the drill in how to handle paiement, etc.

I got to the location fairly early as always, got the time to prepare the cash, I always prefer to count it before leaving my car, putting it in my pocket ready to be hand out when I get into the apartment. It was 280$, So I had 4x50$ and 4x20$

Got into the condo, I put the money on the counter, and counted in front of the lady , pointing to the 4 50$ and the 4 20$. Went to the shower, we did our thing, which was really great!

Then I headed back to the shower, came out of the shower, and with the money still on the counter, she tell me there is 20$ missing. Did not argue, gave her another 20$.

But I am absolutely certain I had the right amount,

First time this trick happen to me,

urquell · 2025-09-10T08:10:25-0400

felixLg said:
This week I was lucky to finally book one the the "Always fully book girl". I wont name her,

But something happen that I am curious to see if it did happen to anyone else.

First, as already mention, I've been around for many years, So I know the drill in how to handle paiement, etc.

I got to the location fairly early as always, got the time to prepare the cash, I always prefer to count it before leaving my car, putting it in my pocket ready to be hand out when I get into the apartment. It was 280$, So I had 4x50$ and 4x20$

Got into the condo, I put the money on the counter, and counted in front of the lady , pointing to the 4 50$ and the 4 20$. Went to the shower, we did our thing, which was really great!

Then I headed back to the shower, came out of the shower, and with the money still on the counter, she tell me there is 20$ missing. Did not argue, gave her another 20$.

But I am absolutely certain I had the right amount,

First time this trick happen to me,

you handled it correctly. No need to kick up a fuss for $20, and it would hve ruined your session vibe. It might have for you anyway. Paying the extra $20 was the way to go though. However, if I was positive about the funds then I would never go back to see her again. Since you can't prove it then you can't really make a public accusation either, but that wouldn't stop me from telling me friends about it quietly. Word gets around.

2fast2slow · 2025-09-10T08:12:21-0400

when i give the payment, i prefer it gets taken and put away right away. The thought of it laying on the table throghout our encounter would bother me somewhat. Once i made a payment in a mp room, then the girl left the room to get something and left the cash on the table. Some girls are just lax, until there is a problem.

Could be a "trick" in your case. I know the feeling, you counted many times...

You could say "I prefer you put the money away now" with a smile.

felixLg · 2025-09-10T08:31:00-0400

urquell said:
you handled it correctly. No need to kick up a fuss for $20, and it would hve ruined your session vibe. It might have for you anyway. Paying the extra $20 was the way to go though. However, if I was positive about the funds then I would never go back to see her again. Since you can't prove it then you can't really make a public accusation either, but that wouldn't stop me from telling me friends about it quietly. Word gets around.

Given I know how much money I had got out of the bank, the math also work to prove my point.

Actually the session was so good I would return, but will handle it differently.

urquell · 2025-09-10T09:26:33-0400

felixLg said:
Given I know how much money I had got out of the bank, the math also work to prove my point.

Actually the session was so good I would return, but will handle it differently.

I couldn't support someone that I knew had stolen from me, no matter how good the session was. Not a judgment of you, just my personal inclination

Gazoo64 · 2025-09-10T10:34:20-0400

urquell said:
I couldn't support someone that I knew had stolen from me, no matter how good the session was. Not a judgment of you, just my personal inclination

I agree with this. First of all, I think the OP did the right thing by giving her the extra 20 and not arguing about it.

Having said that, if the OP is certain that the amount he gave was correct, I would never see the SP again.

I can’t handle dishonesty, someone stealing from me, or being lied to. But that’s just me, to each their own!

Cap'tain Fantastic · 2025-09-10T11:00:02-0400

urquell said:
No need to kick up a fuss for $20, and it would hve ruined your session vibe

She claimed the missing $20 after his ending shower I.e. when everything was over. He said he counted the money in his car then, in front of her prior to the session.

I would have confronted her on the spot, not making a big fuss and probably ending up giving her the extra $20. But at least I would had the satisfaction of seeing her shame face and letting know that I would never book her again.

Jacob Israel · 2025-09-10T11:40:22-0400

Cap'tain Fantastic said:
She claimed the missing $20 after his ending shower I.e. when everything was over. He said he counted the money in his car then, in front of her prior to the session.

I would have confronted her on the spot, not making a big fuss and probably ending up giving her the extra $20. But at least I would had the satisfaction of seeing her shame face and letting know that I would never book her again.

If we don’t know who it is. This post is completely useless tbh. OP can have her by himself if he desires it.

CLOUD 500 · 2025-09-10T11:44:47-0400

I always put the payment on the counter after I take the shower to prevent situations like this. And I agree with Jacob Israel, it is a useless post without a name of who it was. Why write these kinds of things if you do not want to disclose who it is. Not the first time I see this.

LeDodo · 2025-09-10T11:58:20-0400

Cap'tain Fantastic said:
She claimed the missing $20 after his ending shower I.e. when everything was over. He said he counted the money in his car then, in front of her prior to the session.

I would have confronted her on the spot, not making a big fuss and probably ending up giving her the extra $20. But at least I would had the satisfaction of seeing her shame face and letting know that I would never book her again.

Yes at least I would have emphasized on the counting in front of her but I agree on not booking her again no matter how good it was ...

Daniel86 · 2025-09-10T12:03:58-0400

Personally, I count the money in front of her and I ask her to verify. I rather take a minute to avoid this kind of situation where someone might believe that the other tried to scam the other.

And, AFAIK, is she met you, it makes little business sense to burn a potential regular for 20. If you're absolutely sure that you were right, sorry for your loss but I had two bill that got stuck together often enough that I wouldn't feel confident to assume thief if it happened only once with a service provider.

urquell · 2025-09-10T13:00:44-0400

Cap'tain Fantastic said:
She claimed the missing $20 after his ending shower I.e. when everything was over. He said he counted the money in his car then, in front of her prior to the session.

I would have confronted her on the spot, not making a big fuss and probably ending up giving her the extra $20. But at least I would had the satisfaction of seeing her shame face and letting know that I would never book her again.

Question of personal perspective then. The argument I would have with her and the potential for eacalation wouldn't have made it worthwhile for me at $20. For a larger amount? Sure. But not for $20. If I'm putting a price on my time then the even 5-10 minute discussion over the discrepancy wouldn't have been worth my time either, at a total potential maximum value to me of $20 without discounting the hassle.

The OP has also said he doesn't want to name the SP and while I'd also prefer to know I'm not willing to discount the possibility of $20 falling behind the furniture/bill stuck together/ honest mistake either. While I believe the OP, the circumstances are such that a mistake is possible and I probably wouldn't publicly tarnish somebody's working reputation publicly over such a trifling amount. A few quiet "be carefuls" to others and never booking her again would be enough for me. In any case it's an academic exercise and the OP appears to have learned from it so at $20 I'd consider it to be a very cheap lesson.

felixLg · 2025-09-10T13:32:53-0400

Just to clarify, I dont care about the 20$. I see about 2 girls per week, so its not about the $, wont make a difference.

I find It sad that a reputable girl, which is always book, would play this cheap game. And so you know, I got some direct DM, naming the same girl....

So maybe a pattern here.

terrybogard88 · 2025-09-10T17:44:07-0400

CLOUD 500 said:
I always put the payment on the counter after I take the shower to prevent situations like this. And I agree with Jacob Israel, it is a useless post without a name of who it was. Why write these kinds of things if you do not want to disclose who it is. Not the first time I see this.

i would even recommend to put all the money in cash visible on the table first thing whe she gets in (outcall)

LC18 · 2025-09-10T17:44:14-0400

It’s happened to me this week. I counted the money and I thought $20 was missing.

I thought it was odd so I counted again and the $20 was there. I didn’t want to embarrass myself accusing a man who’s probably nervous to see me for the first time so I counted again and there it was

Bills can stick together especially if our hands are wet or even moist (hate that word but oh well)

terrybogard88 · 2025-09-10T17:47:19-0400

a reputable SP would never do that. This is one fast way to ruin her reputation in the industry. so share nickname already

LC18 · 2025-09-10T17:53:20-0400

felixLg said:
Just to clarify, I dont care about the 20$. I see about 2 girls per week, so its not about the $, wont make a difference.

I find It sad that a reputable girl, which is always book, would play this cheap game. And so you know, I got some direct DM, naming the same girl....

So maybe a pattern here.

It’s different now. If you were alone it could have been a genuine mistake but you say there’s more than one person that told you it happened to them with the same woman?

That was definitely done on purpose and guess what, it’s a review board so I think you can safely add that to the reviews about her

Jacob Israel · 2025-09-10T17:54:14-0400

felixLg said:
Just to clarify, I dont care about the 20$. I see about 2 girls per week, so its not about the $, wont make a difference.

I find It sad that a reputable girl, which is always book, would play this cheap game. And so you know, I got some direct DM, naming the same girl....

So maybe a pattern here.

You are encouraging her to keep on playing that cheap pathetic game if you keep on seeing her and if you don’t name her. It might also happen to some other members. Maybe 20$ is nothing to you but clearly it is something for her.

CLOUD 500 · 2025-09-10T17:56:20-0400

terrybogard88 said:
i would even recommend to put all the money in cash visible on the table first thing whe she gets in (outcall)

You make a good point. My defacto mode when booking a SP off Merb is to pay after always. Only on Merb would I put it in advance if these types of things start to become the norm then I will have to change on that.

LC18 said:
It’s happened to me this week. I counted the money and I thought $20 was missing.

I thought it was odd so I counted again and the $20 was there. I didn’t want to embarrass myself accusing a man who’s probably nervous to see me for the first time so I counted again and there it was

Bills can stick together especially if our hands are wet or even moist (hate that word but oh well)

Ahh. So maybe I should start counting the bills in front of her to ensure such problems do not happen.

CLOUD 500 · 2025-09-10T17:59:16-0400

felixLg said:
Just to clarify, I dont care about the 20$. I see about 2 girls per week, so its not about the $, wont make a difference.

I find It sad that a reputable girl, which is always book, would play this cheap game. And so you know, I got some direct DM, naming the same girl....

So maybe a pattern here.

Jacob Israel said:
You are encouraging her to keep on playing that cheap pathetic game if you keep on seeing her and if you don’t name her. It might also happen to some other members. Maybe 20$ is nothing to you but clearly it is something for her.

$20 adds up. The fact you are protecting her (for reasons I am perplexed by), imagine she sees five clients a day and pulls this trick on all of them. $20 by 5 = $100 extra already of free cash. Work four times a week means an extra $400. No, it adds up and it becomes a lot. And this could be a sign of things to come, could it be that SPs will tell others to do this and it begins to get more and more common and then guys like you will say "$20 is nothing" then protect the girl so she is not held accountable. See where I am going with this?

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