I stopped doing overnights and dinner dates. No offense, but I have plenty of friends that I hang out with that don't demand $100-200 hr to watch them eat. I canceled an overnight cause I developed a rash in my perineum area by my balls and the escort wanted to keep my deposit even though it was 7 days before. One of the reasons I don't like deposits
Dinner dates and overnights
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About a year ago I offered 2 strippers a trip to Vegas with me for 2 nights, 3 days. $5000 each. I asked them to buy they're own tickets in case one of them decided to cancel. One refused claiming she had been "screwed over before" so I took the leap of faith and paid them both for they're tickets with them both agreeing to pay the tickets back to me by providing lap dances..vip room services in exchange if they canceled.
Fast forward to two days before the flight out. One cancels and then the other decides she doesn't want to go cause the other doesn't want to go without the other one. The one that cancels gives no legitimate reason as to why she canceled. Still haven't been paid back by either girls..1 year later...and a lot of girls wonder why we don't like providing deposits, lol
Fast forward to two days before the flight out. One cancels and then the other decides she doesn't want to go cause the other doesn't want to go without the other one. The one that cancels gives no legitimate reason as to why she canceled. Still haven't been paid back by either girls..1 year later...and a lot of girls wonder why we don't like providing deposits, lol
No offense taken, plenty of clients take other providers and I out to eat! You don't have to if you don't want to. Others will do it, with joy.
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She kept the deposit. Canceling 1 week before imho..doesn't merit her keeping the deposit. I gave her plenty of time before so she could change plans. I've paid plenty of times "social time" prior to making a decision to no longer do that. I have no problem with clients who do it..just isn't something I value any longerNo offense taken, plenty of clients take other providers and I out to eat! You don't have to if you don't want to. Others will do it, with joy.
Good for her that she asked for a deposit. I don't ask for deposits but I had a client book an overnight and he cancelled because of a rash, I wouldn't see him again.
I'm sorry you've had such traumatic experiences.
She kept the deposit because you cancelled.. it doesn't matter when you cancelled. I pay deposits for services too. No matter what happens, I have a hangover, I'm sick, my grandma's dead (don't worry she's not), the vibes are off, my schedule changed, I will not ask for the deposit back.
Anyways you don't have to pay for deposits if you don't want to. Many of us don't ask for them. You also not forced by the government to book dinner dates and overnights.
Have fun with your next bookings
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What does her deposit policy say on her website? It's not about your opinion it's about her policy...
I never bothered to check since she told me she had feelings for me and often woukd see me off the clock until she changed her mind and decided it woukd only be for money. She never asked for a deposit ever and I gave the money anyways
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