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Do you have any empathy for victims at all????? I can't believe what I'm reading here!!!!

Maybe that's true. But Clementine is no longer active as a sex worker. A lot of the girls who worked at xo are indies now or work for other establishments. Like I said earlier in the thread she is a "perfect victim". If she was still a sex worker she would be trashed by the public and not...

It's also up to men not to rape, coerce and abuse women by taking advantage of certain systems. Cops don't always tell the truth. I have civilian friends who reported rape to the police and were not taken seriously. One of my friends went through a horribly traumatic process only to have the...

It's not that simple. Even if one of those girls witnessed abuse, what could she have done? She can just choose to leave but when we speak out against this sort of thing we are often severely punished. And I'm tired of hearing "victims are lying or embellishing their story" ... It's just so...

I had a memorable moment yesterday. A client I get along with very well booked me for multiple hours, we went to get breakfast and then we went on a walk in the old port and hung out and drank Prosecco in his hotel room. We had a lot to talk about, we were laughing a lot and we have great...

I'm talking about the general public here, not clients. We also don't like it when clients ask us certain types of questions

I don't want to sound depressing but most people don't actually care about us. To most people this is just another "fait divers".

A lot of indies work for agencies and spa as well, just to have different sources of income. That doesn't mean they are not fully independent under their indy persona. It can also be that while they are beginning to build a reputation as an indy, they still need to work for an employer for a...

Je pense que souvent il y a des rumeurs à propos des indy qui ne sont pas tout à fait fondées. Oui ça se peut qu'une high end indy ait un chum qui profite de son travail, mais il y a des nuances. Par exemple, dans le passé j'ai entendu parler d'une femme dont le mari s'occupait de la publicité...

Beaucoup de filles indépendantes fiables ne sont pas dans indy companion :) mais je comprends ce que tu veux dire. Je pense que pour beaucoup de clients c'est difficile d'accepter le fait que fréquenter une escorte est un luxe. On pense que l'on ne devrait pas avoir à payer pour le temps et...

From my perspective the business model has to change, and I think clients have to also modify their expectations.. To me it's not just the fact that a large cut is taken that's the issue, in my opinion. A lot of other things are problems: -salubrity -client behavior.. lack of accountability and...

Decriminalization has been proven to have the most benefits, not legalization. It took a 2 second Google search to find this.. https://www.nswp.org/sites/default/files/guide_to_legal_models_english_prf04.pdf...

I just don't see how 15 minutes is enough to shower, do your hair and reapply makeup. I see how you can clean while the client is in the shower but a lot of clients don't shower after the booking and want to stay until the very end. So many call us clock watchers if we say they have to leave...

Is that your experience with it? I imagine that after a while girls find tricks to avoid being late

As for "why did she stay" it was stated in this thread several times that the boss was threatening girls with outing... And even beyond that. There are reasons why people stay in abusive situations.. these situations often have some sort of appeal on some level and there's a lot of manipulation...

As for people not denouncing rape.. we don't do it because people blame victims, they don't believe us, the process of reporting or calling out can be extremely traumatic etc. Particularly for someone who is a sex worker.. a lot of people think we're asking for it I also want to remind you guys...

At the end of the day it depends on everyone's comfort zone, and the type of experience they're looking for or seeking to provide

I don't disagree with you.. I'm just saying that personally I don't feel comfortable hosting if everything isn't perfect.. and there's always a risk that someone will complain in a review. For instance someone complained that there was a hair on the bedsheets at my old incall.. the sheets were...

Good for you! I can work under pressure pretty well but I prefer to be fully relaxed when I meet clients :)

These terms are repulsive to me as well. But I think to me "hobbyist" is one of the worst somehow. I know people don't understand this