It’s usually not a good idea to just decide without asking them. Sometimes I receive gift cards I’ve never asked for and I have no use for it’s disappointing and a waste of money
I would probably see 2-3 people and not at the same time. Book enough time to get to know them, be intimate and build something. Have a great experience and do things that are on my wishlist whether they’re sexual or just about sight seeing
Both options are great but it depends on the person. Not everyone is looking to be with multiple people at the same time, can you really enjoy everyone when there’s so many people?