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The funniest thing about this is that I know escorts who have developed crushes or fallen in love with their clients. Ultimately it's a human experience so feelings can develop. But I think it's up to the SP and the client to set boundaries for themselves and for what happens between them...

Idk if this is a problem of semantics, maybe to you ''companionship and connection'' means ''romantic development''. I'm talking about conversations and doing things together. I've never had one of those clients end up saying they wanted me to be their girlfriend. It literally never happened...

But who are you to say ''most men'' and ''it doesn't lead to good outcomes''. Have you done serious research on this? Your account was created in December, but I'm assuming you've been here for much longer than that. Your observations are probably based on things you found out through talking...

Not recommended by whom? You? The National Association of Clients of Prostitutes? The Merb mods? No, it doesn't lead guys towards thinking they have a ''real relationship'' with a prostitute. People are capable of intelligence and discernment. Clients are not passive people who are incapable of...

Oui, le thon était quand même bien cuit!

(just adding one thing: if everything is fake because it's transactional, then the blowjobs are fake too, you might as well just watch porn)

Ce qui était vraiment bizarre c'est qu'il y avait de la ratatouille mélangée au tartare. Je n'ai vraiment pas aimé ça lol

C'était pas si bon que ça finalement hehe

I don't think I'm merely making an emotional argument. I'm just explaining the way I see things. I don't think we're entirely disagreeing. I'm not going to say that booking an escort will satisfy all your emotional and psychological needs, because it won't. It won't even fulfill all your sexual...

I don't agree that all relationships are transactional and I think that way of thinking in itself creates issues, because some of the people who ''go crazy'' over escorts think they can buy your affection. But everything else you said I think is true. It is a human connection. We aren't...

Transactional doesn't mean everything is fake. But you are right that it's not a genuine romantic relationship, and shouldn't be seen as such. Personally I see more of a problem with sugar baby type relationships because in that case the lines could get blurred pretty fast, but paying an escort...

So you think ideally men should book an escort, arrive at her incall without talking to her, fuck her and leave? We are human beings, not objects to be used. Of course it's transactional, but a lot of other types of relationships are transactional and involve connecting, in different...

This can happen no matter what. It can happen even if the guy just books a girl for 30 mins once in a while and doesn't even talk to her. I've had clients who booked me just for an hour to cum and leave once in a while, and they started getting delusional and saying they're in love with me and...

I think the pandemic has really changed how people interact with others. People are more wary of connecting with strangers. I've definitely noticed a big difference.. I think it also depends what type of events and what ''scene'' you're in. I quit the nightlife scene specifically because it was...

Yeah, it's not everyone but in my experience a lot of men actually want that. Will they talk about it on the internet? Most of the time no. Because it doesn't correspond to the vision of masculinity that people generally try to project here. But I think it's sad, because it contributes to a...

En effet. Je pense que c'est à chacun d'être responsable et de se faire tester régulièrement. C'est une discussion qui revient sur le forum très souvent et je pense qui est frustrante pour plusieurs personnes. En salon de massage cette pratique n'est pas toujours obligatoire, mais en agence et...

I get tested once a month or once every 3 weeks personally. I have a HPV shot and I am on prep. (very low risk when it comes to bbbj but I still want to be careful).. Prep has side effects and honestly I often wish I didn't have to offer risky services. I am not super high volume lately unless...

Yeah that's mostly my point.. as I said in another thread it's also a question of matching with the right service provider. Nobody is everyone's cup of tea.

Even for a bj session, I have to get to my incall, make the bed, clean the shower, do some laundry, make everything smell good, take a shower, put makeup on and do my hair, make sure there are refreshments for the client when he arrives, etc. I think it's just human to connect a little bit...