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Sometimes I'm surprised by people's hypocrisy, lack of insight and how unaware they are of their own level of privilege. But I shouldn't be. Random thought: a gentleman bought me 2 dresses with the expectation of a picture for each. It's really sweet of him and I'm grateful. One of them is a...

I don't want to answer for Lena but an incall or outcall is for the gfe or pse service and that involves chatting and hanging out unless it's a very short booking. Social time should be outside in a neutral environment in my opinion. Sometimes people book 2 or 3 hour incall dates and obviously...

Some subjects need to be avoided entirely or talked about in intelligent and productive ways but not everyone is willing to have a respectful discussion.................

I am fully booked today, but I still have a spot available for an invall booking 90 minutes or shorter tomorrow, or a short booking on Wednesday morning. :) I hope everyone has a lovely day despite the rainy and cold weather.

I don't really want to get involved in this thread anymore.. but I never said it was a problem not to want to pay more than a certain amount or not being able to. I was just being like "hey guys let's stop complaining about escorts who have higher rates and create expectations per price points...

I think most of us don't want to talk specifically about why we as individuals became a SP because that information could be used to harm us. "Oh you don't need the money that much? Then why not do this for free or lower the rate?" Or "If you need the money that bad you should do xyz".. it's...

i feel you lol

Oh, true! Good idea

I've been face out since the beginning. It hasn't impacted my life because people know what I do. Also, I'm a creative type of person and my career path is not really impacted by me being a SW. If anything, people finding out about it might get me more business because people want to be...

It's very true, I do think some standards are created by SWs themselves... But to me it seems like a lot of things depend on how you initially are perceived by the majority of men who see SWs, how long you've been in the industry and building your clientele, how many clients you want every month...

Sorry for posting so much but I just want to note that there are many expenses we have that clients forget about. Advertising can cost me up to 400$ a month sometimes. Some SP's pay a monthly incall ''rent'' which is often around 400$. Some SP's literally have their own private incall which is a...

I was actually surprised by how well received it was when I finally raised my rates last june. So far every time I raise my rate, I get a better clientele, and it's not because my newer clients have more money, they are just more selective and particular and see less SP's. I do still want to...

Some of us are also more willing to take risks when it comes to rates than others. Like I mentioned earlier I often think of raising my rates to a certain level lately, but I don't feel comfortable doing that right now. Not because I don't think I'm attractive enough or offer a good enough...

Other advantages of being face out for me : -not having clients ask me for pictures, which already happens because some guys don't understand how to figure out if a person is real or not -clients perhaps trusting me faster because they ''get my vibe'' better when they see my face, or they like...

How is it unfortunate that a job is money motivated? It's a job. How often do we need to say it? Obviously being face out is money motivated because you may get more clients from it if you have a pretty face, but that doesn't mean you are doing it to charge more. I just think that you don't see...

I don't think SPs charge ''extra fees'' for being face out. I'm well aware that being face out is an extra enticement, but I've never thought that I had to charge more as a result of that personally. The choice of being face in vs face out has to do with many other factors in my opinion. Another...

Even that is debatable. I know GFE only providers who charge really high rates. And I don't believe that their rates should be lower because they have boundaries.. We don't just offer sexual services we offer companionship and an experience, and that really varies. Everyone is unique. If I were...

I don't spend my time comparing my rates to other SP's because that's toxic, but I've seen a mix of both face in and face out SP's who charge very low and very high. I also don't think rates should have to do with how many risks you are taking and how conventionally attractive you are, but...

I do feel like sometimes there are ulterior motives behind conversations about certain things, like rates etc. I'm not saying it's necessarily the case now, but it's something that I personally believe to be true. Yes, it's part of the equation. If I hired a SP personally, I would want to know...

That's what I'm saying, there's a way to say things. Clients who write a lot of negative or demeaning reviews seem to get a kick out of it and I notice patterns of people being specially cruel to SP's who charge lower rates or belong to a category they view as less attractive yet still choosing...