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That's a big part of why it can be complicated. And for those of us who receive from home, a same day booking involves preparation and extra carefulness if we are meeting up with a new client. Outcalls require much less preparation, but it's still a change of schedule, going to a different part...

I personally decided to allow 30 min and 45 min pre-bookings, which is something I didn't do in the past.. So yes, some will probably be more willing to accommodate clients in different ways during slower months, but I wouldn't count on everyone changing their policies. Last winter I had no...

I don't ask for deposits for many reasons, but same day or last minute appointments can be stressful. It's a lot easier for indy's to be pre-booked because we can arrange our schedules accordingly. I take same day appointments, but it causes an extra layer of anxiety if I don't already know the...

Pre-booking I believe means booking ahead of time instead of last minute or same day. I think some SP's ask for deposits for pre-bookings specifically because so many clients end up cancelling. Thankfully this hasn't happened to me in a while, but sometimes it can be frustrating.

I was wondering if Nachoy meant agreeing on a financial arrangement after entering a borderline romantic type relationship with a client, and not just your average client provider relationship.. If he meant how will I react if someone's SO found out he is seeing me as a SP.. Obviously this...

You can get a burner phone. There are good reasons why we ask for real phone numbers as indy's. The only way I will see a client who uses a textapp is if I get a solid reference from him. A lot of clients will make several new numbers and emails to see SP's who don't want to be in touch with...

That's sad for both of you because I feel like it should be disclosed before entering a relationship that you don't want it to be long term... but I also get that we can't always know... I've had partners make false promises to me and break my heart. And I've had partners who didn't seem to...

I'd rather not honestly.. and it's not really a world I want to be part of anymore unless I really have to go back to it. I hope you understand :)

Or maybe understand why sp's rates increase when rent and food and other things are so high u know?

At a salon I was working for, we weren't allowed to say anything but our name and smile. Girls who had a pitch like that were told what they were doing wasn't fair to others

I don't feel like it's safe to talk about mental health as a SP, because it can be used against us later. :( But the mental health of SP's and their clients is a very interesting and important subject honestly...

You have to remember also that a lot of our clients are wealthier people who are travelling for work or leisure and they are part of a class that isn't as affected by the economy. And you are right, more people are lonely as well, and even if they don't see SP's that often, the quantity makes up...

I agree. Sometimes some of our colleagues had a bad month and I had a great month, and sometimes it's the other way around. It depends on many factors. The types of bookings change week after week and month after month too. November has been a great month for me so far. Last year I surprisingly...

Being ghosted feels horribly painful................... (I'm assuming you're talking about something that happened in your personal life, and not SP related)

That's another aspect.. Most people pick on looks because you can't really tell what someone's personality is like or what their service will be like during presentation. A SP may not be your usual type, but you may end up having a great time with her.

I've worked at massage parlours, and I can tell you that this is true for certain parlous. Very often men would come in, we would have to line up to do the presentation and they would leave. Sometimes groups of guys would come to the parlour together and reject everyone. Doing presentations can...

Honestly, the chemistry gets better with regular and repeat clients in my experience

Clients are not always nice but I would say lately I've mostly met lovely gentlemen

I'm so sorry this happened. I would have been so upset. :(

I would have a really hard time with this. I am aware that some clients who are regulars have SO's, but it's not the same thing as having an arrangement or ''discreet relationship'' like SD SB dynamic. I would not want a SD who is married, unless his wife knew what he was up to.