I was wondering if Nachoy meant agreeing on a financial arrangement after entering a borderline romantic type relationship with a client, and not just your average client provider relationship..Not my problem.
My SO knows what I am up to. Not my business if he is cheating on his SO. It is a job. I didn't go out seaking her partner, her partner was looking around and chose to spend time with me. If it wasn't me, it would be someone else. It isn't free.
But that is where there is a line drawn. The relationships I have with those I see, will end if they bring drama to me. I have no time for it, and have better things to spend my energy on. For me this is a profession as much as relationship,
Pre-booking I believe means booking ahead of time instead of last minute or same day. I think some SP's ask for deposits for pre-bookings specifically because so many clients end up cancelling. Thankfully this hasn't happened to me in a while, but sometimes it can be frustrating.What does pre-booking means? I see a lot of girls in Ottawa, Toronto asking for deposit when pre-booking. What if I want to book in the next 2 hours does it mean I’m pre-booking?
Prebooking is booking ~24 hours ahead of time, or more. Otherwise, it is same-day or last minute as Luna said, where the provider you wish to see is less likely to be available. They might still require a deposit for a same-day or last-minute booking, since it usually covers the location or the transportation, in case you bail 2h later.What does pre-booking means? I see a lot of girls in Ottawa, Toronto asking for deposit when pre-booking. What if I want to book in the next 2 hours does it mean I’m pre-booking?
Some providers even ask extras for same day appointments! Personally I find it ridiculous, you are available or you are not. Getting ready for a meeting is both our responsibility lol.They might still require a deposit for a same-day or last-minute booking,
I think they will be more than willing to wave that during the slow winter months.Some providers even ask extras for same day appointments! Personally I find it ridiculous, you are available or you are not. Getting ready for a meeting is both our responsibility lol.
I don't ask for deposits for many reasons, but same day or last minute appointments can be stressful. It's a lot easier for indy's to be pre-booked because we can arrange our schedules accordingly. I take same day appointments, but it causes an extra layer of anxiety if I don't already know the client because suddenly my plans have to change to accommodate the client. That's not too hard to understand. If it's both our responsibility why not pre-book instead? I'm okay with people asking me for a last minute date but it's really rare that I'm able to see someone an hour after they texted me. I understand why some indy's ask for extras.Some providers even ask extras for same day appointments! Personally I find it ridiculous, you are available or you are not. Getting ready for a meeting is both our responsibility lol.
I personally decided to allow 30 min and 45 min pre-bookings, which is something I didn't do in the past.. So yes, some will probably be more willing to accommodate clients in different ways during slower months, but I wouldn't count on everyone changing their policies. Last winter I had no problem finding clients, even if yes it was a bit slower.I think they will be more than willing to wave that during the slow winter months.
That's a big part of why it can be complicated. And for those of us who receive from home, a same day booking involves preparation and extra carefulness if we are meeting up with a new client. Outcalls require much less preparation, but it's still a change of schedule, going to a different part of town, etc.I don't think it was mentioned but same day booking for indies can be problematic if they share an incall as it may be booked and they only have access to one so they can't turn around and reserve the incall. Some may have access to a 2nd location but that location may be pricier. For outcall, that doesn't pose a problem
Good for you, but I don’t. Like I said, you are rather available or you are not. Keep it simple.I understand why some indy's ask for extras.
Because I don’t know in advance if I will feel like seeing an escort. I don’t plan my desire. And so far, I am able to get satisfied without causing anxiety to anyone.If it's both our responsibility why not pre-book instead?
I don't have negative energy. I'm just trying to explain to clients sometimes why this job can be stressful. It's not just me. There are many things I love about this work, I'm just trying to explain something from our perspective. I understand that you don't know in advance and that's totally fine. I'm not accusing you of causing anxiety, either. I'm just saying that it can be more complicated to receive someone at the last minute, that's all. But I do feel grateful when I have an appointment I wasn't expecting, particularly if it's a client I've already seen and get along withGood for you, but I don’t. Like I said, you are rather available or you are not. Keep it simple.
Because I don’t know in advance if I will feel like seeing an escort. I don’t plan my desire. And so far, I am able to get satisfied without causing anxiety to anyone.
You always bring the anxiety issue in almost every situation, so my question is: why doing this kind of work if it brings you so much negative energy?
The conversation wasn't geared towards seeing regulars. Obviously with a regular communication is going to be far less formal and you already know times that generally work and what is going to be acceptable.What I’m saying is, I do, most of the time, book same day appointments. I am not talking about texting a random provider, I mostly see regulars. Also, I am talking about planning a meeting hours ahead, not minutes. Most of the time it will go like texting in the morning to get to see her late afternoon or early evening.
I also can do 24 hours advance booking, especially with some specifically busy girls that I know very well. Beyond 24 hours? I’ve done it a few times and it wasn’t ideal. Won’t do it again.
It was about pre-booking, I didn’t see any specific mention about being with a regular or not. When I see an escort mentioning on her website that same day appointment comes with a $100 over charge I don’t assume anything else but what I read.The conversation wasn't geared towards seeing regulars.
I think it is called the spontaneous horniness tax and most guys will pay it, the little brain most often gets what it wants when it wants it bad enough.Because I don’t know in advance if I will feel like seeing an escort. I don’t plan my desire. And so far, I am able to get satisfied without causing anxiety to anyone.
I am glad I reached that age where, my upper brain signals travel faster than my lower brain ones! LmaoI think it is called the spontaneous horniness tax and most guys will pay it, the little brain most often gets what it wants when it wants it bad enough.
Are you in the MTL area? While I see both sides, I tend to relate to you more as I am an out of towner who doesn't have a set schedule when I am visiting. I usually have to set personal appointments around work schedules and other obligations which means prebooking can be a huge inconvenience if plans change. I'm one who never misses an appointment unless it's a serious emergency, but I have had others change their schedules on me. That's fine if I didn't live three time zones away, I suppose. I find it easier for all parties to book within a much shorter window which is often less than 24 hours. If a particular provider is not available because of that, so be it... I've found some absolute gems because I was forced to change scheduled plans last minute.What I’m saying is, I do, most of the time, book same day appointments. I am not talking about texting a random provider, I mostly see regulars. Also, I am talking about planning a meeting hours ahead, not minutes. Most of the time it will go like texting in the morning to get to see her late afternoon or early evening.
I also can do 24 hours advance booking, especially with some specifically busy girls that I know very well. Beyond 24 hours? I’ve done it a few times and it wasn’t ideal. Won’t do it again.