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OK, that's just not what happened. But there is no reason for anyone to take my word for it. I'm ready to move on.

I think the SW community has to have tools, including the ability to blacklist, to protect itself. I didn't write the post to blame anyone or to deny fault on my part. I wrote the post to present facts concerning a fairly unusual event in the Montreal scene, and foster discussion about it...

Right, there is no way for me to prove I didn't act badly with some providers. I can't prove the negative. Does that justify you accusing me of doing things that no provider who has been with me claims I did? On the grounds that I can't disprove it?

Rose, There is no way for me to prove anything about what happened in these encounters, and it was not my intention to do so with the post. My intention was to explain my experience. I have no idea when anyone goes on vacation, your suggestion that I timed my post because I know SWs' vacation...

April, come off it. I spent an overnight with Judy Fox. She is no "ex-unicorn" and she has nothing bad to say. Neither does Kendall or Priscilla at XO, or Daryn at Vogue. You're just making stuff up at this point. I Ddn't impose any services on anyone..

Hi April! Is this your way of suggesting that I was violent? Or that I took the condom off? Because as you know, no one even accuses me of doing either of those things, right? So you're bringing them up because....

(Continued from OP above) One of the most frustrating things about being blacklisted was that most of the cancelling providers did not actually cancel their dates with me (something I requested them to do in my email to them described immediately above), but rather simply no-showed/no-called...

Last week, I visited Montreal for 8 days for the dual purpose of conducting professional business and sex tourism, and found myself the subject of a blacklist attempt. Although things worked out in the end, I felt my experience would be of interest to the broader merb community, so I write them...

A few nights ago I watched as she paced my hotel room like a lioness, muttering that she always leaves something but she was determined not to this time! After she left, I discovered a bejeweled, jumbo size butt plug. Sent her the photo and she exclaimed that it was a must-have item for...

He just did! As well he should. https://www.cbc.ca/amp/1.5451703?__twitter_impression=true Imagine being unfairly assigned a social status so low and loathsome that a professional pol considers it rhetorical masterstroke simply to ask a fellow legislator who argues for your humanity if they are...

Interesting though--this is what Laura Cohen, who describes herself as a former SW and currently makes a living screening for SWs, does. Check out this thread where she actually sets up a Twitter poll based on the personal information she gathered while on a screening assignment...

Well said!

No offense taken, but surely you realize (if you read my whole comment) that I made the comparison as a way to talk about an attitude that I think some do hold, not because I believe the two things are the same.

Another example of a good discussion that happened only because merb is the rare forum where hookers and johns speak directly to each other. My takeaway: there are some similarities between the marketing and sale of intimate services as compared to, let's say, the marketing and sale of a car...

Cheers to you Jalimon! Have a great time at your next merb meetup!

Yes, I see. Plenty of other places, will leave the invitation open as a placeholder. Will advice those who PM me (if any) of actual venue on night of.

Picking up three strands of this thread: 1. Generosity and camraderie 2. Buying a drink for a fellow merbist 3. Getting drunk oneself I have enjoyed participating in the discussion here over the last few weeks, and I'm looking forward to my first naughty visit to Montreal, in a few weeks. One...

I date a woman who is an OB/GYN doctor who has been providing care to poor black and Latino women in NYC for 30+ years. Not because it is the only job she can get, but because she cares. I so admire her. (She ~ my age, so no tats!) She sees all these crazy ratchet ghetto tats on her patients...

Love this! But has to be set in Dickens' London!

Agreed. And what makes it all the more ridiculous is that the incumbent brags about sexual assault unapologetically. Haven't they noticed that the playing field has changed? Do they think everything is going back to the way it was after Trump. With sex an unutterable topic?