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Yes, I was wrong about the "hierarchy" of services. After discussing it with other SPs, they expressed a nice diversity of opinions. I've also learned there's a local component to services I wasn't aware of. For example, it seems that in Ottawa, glory holes (which are essentially what I was...

That does make sense. I'm quite paranoid about STI's, so I even keep track of when I first notice things like spots or rashes and when I saw SP's. Because of that, it would honestly be surprising to me if SP's didn't keep some kind of record.

What’s stopping you?

A few questions for SP's on reviews and client management (I apologize if this has been asked before; I tried searching but couldn't find a recent discussion on these topics): Do you read reviews written about you? If so, are you generally able to tell who the client was from the details in the...

Someone else already asked this but I think there wasn't an answer: what about photos/videos that avoid the face?

I'm mostly interested in the cultural/business question of why it is not a widely offered standard service with its own rate, not looking for suggestions. HOWEVER, this example is very interesting as her rate for "Glory Hole" seems to be significantly lower than even 30 minutes of FS, and she...

You are right, I overlooked this point, but that is a separate discussion.

Maybe, but until then, I'll stick with the common-sense notion that a BJ is a less involved action than FS in every possible sense.

Looks like this thread went in a different direction than I originally intended, maybe because of my lack of precision. Honestly, this was a simple question that came to mind after reading another thread, specifically @Skym 's comment: "Go in for a quick blowie and leave with a smile on your...

I wouldn't say DFK and 69 means you're falling into FS. I think there's a big jump from services like DFK, BJ, DATY, and 69 to PIV. Am I too conservative for thinking that?

Haha, you're absolutely right. I wasn't suggesting a non-stop, 30-minute marathon lol

I agree with the economics part of it; if a provider is comfortable with FS and their goal is to maximize profit, then offering FS for almost the same price as a BJ only service is the way to go. My argument is that a BJ only service should be viewed as its own separate offering, not just a...

That makes sense. That said, I'm still curious about the best way for a client to communicate that they're interested in such a service. I'd expect it to be a lower price than fs, but I can see why providers might get annoyed by just the question. I agree that it's a niche, but I think the...

Thanks for the link. I've seen that thread, but my question is less about finding specific providers and more about why "BJ only" isn't a widely advertised, standard service with its own defined rates, the same way GFE or PSE are.

Hey everyone, I've been thinking about the common services you see advertised, like GFE and PSE, and it got me wondering about how these "standard" offerings came to be. It seems like they've become the default expectation in the community. This led me to a question: why don't we see a more...

Yes to both.

I just want to point out two things that seem to be well-known and implicitly accepted (WHY?!): Photoshopped photos and fake age/weight/body measures. (especially asian providers). In my (very) short experience I've been extremely dissapointed when the SPs looks nothing like the photos, or when...