“Open-minded” - euphemism?

[Phillymale]

Hi…see this a lot on SP agency ads…”open minded”…I know what it means to be open minded and I don’t think it is necessarily implying other ladies are not…but I can’t help but wonder if it is a euphemism or something. When you see this, what do you think they are meaning or saying?

Of course,, I could just be over thinking it….

 

[AirBo]

Pretty sure it's about whether the usual extras (CIM and / or Greek) are being offered or not.

I'm just guessing, but that's the way I read it.

• Open-minded = CIM
• Very open-minded = Greek

Doesn't mean I agree... it's just so vague

 

[LC18]

I don’t know what it means for agencies but for me, if I tell a man that I’m open minded in a sexual context, it means that I am open to try certain kinks, being lightly choked and things of that nature.

 

[AirBo]

I don’t know what it means for agencies

Indeed, I meant agencies

being lightly choked and things of that nature.

 

[smarson10]

Probably someone who is more "kink-friendly" than other SPs

 

[Fradi]

Usually it means they are open to kinks, fetishes, and things that other escorts may not be willing to do like anal, CIM etc…
I would however be very careful where you see this if it is on Leolist it may just be a ploy to scam you.

 

[EagerBeaver]

it is a euphemism or something. Of course,, I could just be over thinking it….

I think you could be on to something. I ran into the same thing a few times. Once the conversation went like this:

Me (to agency SP who was said on website to be "open minded", but was looking at my penis and seemingly not knowing what to do with it): "are you going to put it in your mouth?"
SP: "are you going to put a condom on it?"
Me: "your website said you are open minded, doesn't that mean you are open to BBBJ?'
SP: "no, it means I am open to women and couples."

Another encounter went like this with an agency SP:

Me: (to agency SP who was said on website to be "open minded", but was looking at my penis and seemingly not knowing what to do with it): "are you going to put it in your mouth?"
SP: "not without a condom, unless the price is right."
Me: "So when the website said you are open minded, your mind opens when the price "gets right", or improves?"
SP: "Bingo! You are a smart fucking dude! Where did you go to law school anyway?"
Me: "So how right does the price have to be for me to put my dick in your mouth with no condom and have you suck it until it cums in your mouth?"
SP: "well, I will suck it bareback for an extra $200 and I will let you come in my mouth for extra $500. And if you want me to swallow, that will be extra $700."
Me: "well, you are very open minded, and certainly cost conscious."
SP: "it's a job, but when the price is right, you get the girlfriend experience."
Me: "Just curious, and it's not something I really want, but how much extra to fuck your hot ass?"
SP: "That's something I do not even let my boyfriend do."

So Phillymale, some SPs are very open minded, but their perception of open minded may not be the same as yours. And certainly this is the case in Philadelphia as well, except they may also ask you for Flyers tickets.

 

[LC18]

You didn’t know?

 

[bodick7]

Pretty sure it's about whether the usual extras (CIM and / or Greek) are being offered or not.

I'm just guessing, but that's the way I read it.

• Open-minded = CIM
• Very open-minded = Greek

Doesn't mean I agree... it's just so vague

Vague like YMMV...

 

[marky mark]

Sounds like perhaps agencies and indies should consider not using "open minded" in profiles. Seems to signal to some that they're entitled to more than they should reasonably expect.