1st time with escort ?

[hole in one]

Hi,

I will be taking my first plunge with an escort shortly, I was just wondering about payment for the services, do I pay the escort at the beginning or after the one hour service?

 

[Halloween Mike]

some ask for it when they arrive, usually a bad signe from what merbite said, but most of them as long as they see the cash on the desk or such won't bother taking til the end. Because if you got good services, you usually tip, so you can't tip the services at the beginning right?

 

[rollingstone]

I like to play 3 card monty with the money. I place it in an envelope in front of her, and then add two empty envelopes to the pile and shift them around. She then gets to pick which envelope she thinks is the right one.

 

[naughtylady]

Most escorts are taught to collect upfront.

Non-payment and underpayment are too frequent otherwise.

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

 

[freezin]

Pay as you go: I like to distribute funds as advertised services are delivered per the contract as demonstrated below:

On time arrival – 5%
Resembles girl in photo – 5%
IS the girl in Photo – 10%
DFK – 5%
Gets naked – 1%
Get naked while dancing -5%
HJ/BJ – 5% … – 3% TC- 1% on F – 2% WS – 1% spitting/looking – 1%
FS – 25% MPOS – 8%
Spooning/cuddling after – 1%
takes shower – 1%
takes shower with me – 5%
Acts like she really doesn’t want to leave - 1%
But she actually does leave - 15%

 

[DirtyOWL]

Wow, what a setup....

We could play with this for weeks.

To show good faith, just put the full payment amount on the table near the entrance
so she can see it. You don't need to 'hand' it to her. An agency girl is generally supposed to
verify funds before the party begins. Enjoy.


However, here's some answers for some newbie initiation:

I like to slip in a fake $20 in the stack and see if she catches it.
or
You should pay in a mix of small denominations, never all $20s or larger.
or
Half up front, the other half when the job is done.
or
Pay in full after she signs the 'GFE Services' contract.
or
She will only accept an international money order.
or....

 

[Halloween Mike]

My last meeting i said to the escort money was there pointing out where it was, she said ok we will handle that at the end...

Most people who do review really think asking for money up front is a bad signe, and seems like most lady collect at the end.

 

[TheDon]

I have never paid a girl using an envelope and I have never paid her up front unless she ask for it. I keep the exact amount in my back pocket and I have never tipped the girl. Usually when she goes to clean up in the bathroom I'll put the money on her clothes or under her cell phone where she can see it clearly.

I don't know where the whole paying in an envelope and tipping come from!?

Have you ever paid a stripper using an envelope for her services?


The Don

 

[robert_singler]

upfront

I have and I don't have a problem with paying upfront, after all not all clients are the same, basically if you didn't like the services of an escort you simply won't call her again, that's it that's all.

As for leaving the money I find the best thing to do is to leave the money under her cell phone.

 

[Jman47]

Upfront...

Upfront, in an envelope. Leave it where you both can see it. She is not going anywhere until you are done...especially if you are dealing with an established indy with class or with a good agency.
Treat her with class and be a gentleman.
If you repeat you can establish whatever is comfortable.

Some of these answers are just nuts... ...I hope you guys are joking!

 

[mtl.vibe]

If it is your first time. Just leave the money where she can see it. This way, she knows that they money is there. When she leaves, you can hand it to her, or place it somewhere with her stuff, while she is cleaning up.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I dosen't get the envelope thing either...

As for tip, got to say i was not very willing at first, but when the lady DO give very good service, why not, i mean anyway especially when they do specials downtown or such and its 160... the least is to give 180...

 

[HappyMike]

So far, I had to pay first(Quebec City). The agency I go to still ask to SP to get paid first even if it's the second or third time.

More so when it's a new SP I see(indy). I want to show her that I'm a good client and won't stiff her. This way, the money matter is not longer an issue.

Plus, I don't want to be in the middle and she start asking for an extra that could had been handle at first. Of course, that could wait at the end if that occur if it's a new extra not discussed before.

Plus, the next time you see her, she will trust you more.

And like robert_singler mentioned, if I don't click with her or have a good service, then I won't see her again.

 

[pokerpro]

I dosen't get the envelope thing either...

IMHO hookers use the same method as politicians who accept brides. They ask for the money to be in an enveloppe because if they're targets of a police operation and hidden cameras are involved, prosecution won't have proof that money was given for services.

 

[wet_suit_one]

IMHO hookers use the same method as politicians who accept brides. They ask for the money to be in an enveloppe because if they're targets of a police operation and hidden cameras are involved, prosecution won't have proof that money was given for services.

Which is completely irrelevant in this country because paying money for sex is not a crime in Canada.

Remember folks, outcall escorting is completely legal in Canada (at least at the client end of things, if it's an agency could be living off the avails), but I digress...

 

[UHGL]

Hi,

I will be taking my first plunge with an escort shortly, I was just wondering about payment for the services, do I pay the escort at the beginning or after the one hour service?

If you are booking a SP that has a website, either her own or a Agency, why not just read her website FAQ's. There will almost always have something about payment procedures. If they don't, just ask the booker when you confirm your session the day of.

I like to freak out the SP by having a big box of envelopes out where she can see them. So she knows that I am not a once a trip tourist, more like a seasoned hardcore vet hobbyist, that knows she is not the only hot SP in Montreal ....... Also, that way she feels special if I book her again that trip. I also love their comments & questions...... how many SP's are you going to see & how long are you staying? Which I sometimes tell them, I plan to see less SP's than the number of clients she sees in a month & about the length of my stay: I don't know yet? Why do you need a flat mate? That kind of answers normally kills any other personal questions she might have for me.

Happy hunting!

 

[hungry101]

In Montreal...

In Montreal I have not had one girl ask for the money up front. Very classy I think. I have only had 4 SP's in the States wait till after the session to charge. I have to say, that these 4 girls provided the best service.

Once, in Detroit, I had the SP ask for the money up front. I gave her the money and then she asked for the tip - also upfront. I told her that the "tip" is usually provided after the service. She said "this is how I make my money." She was so hot I grabbed an extra 20$ and we had had a session that would not come close to Montreal but at the time I thought it was OK.

Now, Montreal has ruined me. Asking for money after the appointment is just a classy norm in this hobbyist dream world!

 

[Halloween Mike]

Asking for a tip first...thats weird...i mean tip should be based on the session and thats it. There was this guy that said he never give tip, so what would have happen for him with the girl you met... Anyway my 2 times i was ready to pay up front, but i do agree its kind of make the whole thing way better when the girl say "lets worry about that later" or something like that.