A female trying to figure out a male

[Sol Tee Nutz]

A female trying to figure out a male.

Her Diary:

Today I thought my husband was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a nice restaurant for dinner. I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset that I was a bit late, but he made no comment about it. Conversation was not flowing so I suggested we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed but he did not say much. I asked him what was wrong, he said " nothing " I asked him if it was my fault he was upset, he said he was not upset, said it had nothing to do with me and not to worry about it. On the way home I told him I loved him, he smiled slightly and kept driving. I can not explain his behavior, I do not know why he did not say " I love you too ". When we got home I thought I completely lost him, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore, he just sat there quietly and watched TV. He seemed to be distant and absent, finally with the quietness I decided to go to bed. About 15 min later he came to bed. But I still felt that something was bothering him.


His diary:

My motorcycle would not start today.


Is this true or what?

 

[Meta not Meta]

Lol .... yes,

And probably why I will always prefer the company of women, sensitive, empathic, great-feeling creatures that they are ... even, perhaps most especially, when they are wrong.

Or is she, in this instance?

 

[laid_back_alex]

The simple answer to your question is ''Yes''. However there is a beautiful complexity to all of this. If you're truly curious about these differences between men and women, I strongly recommend you read the book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by John Gray.

If you don't have time for the book, watch this conference on the same topic by the same author: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NZcSJyGrd-s
There are a few points that I personally don't agree with but I guess he's trying to stereotype a typical ''western'' man that can't remember what he had for lunch yesterday, that doesn't know how to dress properly (a shirt is a shirt, I don't care what it looks like), etc but overall a great watch.

If you're interested in the book, here's the amazon link (check out the reviews too, many mention that they should have read this book prior to their divorce and it would probably have saved their marriage lol)
https://www.amazon.ca/Men-Mars-Wome...s/0060574216/ref=dpx_acr_txt?showViewpoints=1

 

[laid_back_alex]

Just my thought but is is trying to figure out why his motorcycle will not start, does not realize it is upsetting his girlfriend.

100% true. That is precisely it. Men are problem solvers by nature. Something is wrong, they will focus on trying to fix it right away. Most men do not understand when women complain about something and do not care for a solution. Often they will say ''I just want you to listen to me, I don't care about a solution''... and us men be like ''wtf is the point of complaining about something if you don't want to fix it??''

It's not that he doesn't care about her, like women would think, it's more that he is using 100% of his brain to trying to solve his issue instead.

The video and the book goes more in depth though.

 

[czar]

https://youtu.be/3XjUFYxSxDk

Period.
Czar.

 

[jalimon]

I strongly recommend you read the book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by John Gray. ]

moi j’ai lu la version francaise “les hommes viennent de mars et les femmes viennent pas souvent!”

cheers,

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

^^^^^ Up 2. I was not too interested on Asian women, now that I have been to Vancouver for a few months and seeing a huge variety I can see the attraction, some are very good looking and very polite

 

[Schwarzkopf]

Maybe he was worried that his motorcycle would never start again?