A First Meeting?

[gurgeh85]

What goes on in your mind when you first meet someone? I'll tell you from my POV, a smile is worth everything. I've met ladies who didn't smile and the encounter was downhill after that. I once paid a girl basically my weekly paycheck for a few hours with her and she didn't smile once (but she told her agency afterwards that I was a really nice guy. Go figure.) How long does it take you to flash on to the fact that you're not going to get along and you should split?

Also, mainly for the ladies, how much male aggression is okay on a first encounter? I usually hold back on a first meeting and it takes at least the 2nd before I find my groove. I see a certain lady quite a bit and on our 2nd meeting, she told me I had to step it up. Specifically, she said, "I have guys pick me up, twirl me around, throw me on the bed. It's okay. I like it!" So, how much aggression are you okay with, really?

 

[2458p]

Wow good question. 3/4 of my appointments are taking place at the brothel so I'll say that to me the critical moment is when she comes back into the room after I give her the money ( the girl leaves the room for 2 minutes to give the share to the booker, to get the condoms, etc ). When she comes back and close the door with a smile on her face I know it will be a great time and that the chemistry might be very good. Like you said, a smile is worth everything.

I'm lucky, 99% of my 30+ appointments taken this year started with a nice smile from the girl and the very very few appointments where the girl wasn't smiling I didn't take it personal, we all have bad days and our ups and downs.

 

[nounours_]

Do you mean you had 0.3 bad encounters this year ?

 

[2458p]

Do you mean you had 0.3 bad encounters this year ?

LOOOL Nounours :lol: :lol: :lol:

Ben si je compte vite de même j'vais dire que j'ai eu 3 rendez-vous ordinaire sur 34, ta moyenne est bonne

 

[Ricky bonds]

I could usually tell within the first 1 minute and sometimes at the first instant our eyes lock if she is going to be a regret, an amazing experience, a good friend, a regular, a super regular or someone about to move in

 

[rollingstone]

The first impression is critical. A smile is critical but its not the only thing....but I can't really put it into words. Within the first minute I can tell if this is going to be a good time, and the decision to repeat is usually within the first 5 minutes. The problem is getting my head to trust this gut feeling. With my current ATF, I knew from her email replies to my rendezvous request that I was going to like her and so I extended the booking before even seeing her. Within the first 10 minutes of our time together (just chatting and some wine, clothes still on) I asked her what she was doing for the rest of the week. Ended up seeing her for an additional 3 times plus an overnight within the same week.

On the negative side of things, I was meeting a very well reviewed provider and my first impression was negative, within the first 2 minutes I knew I was not going to like this. She just was not my type. But I told myself that she must have been very well reviewed for a reason, and that I should not rush to judgement. I also knew that it would be hard to get someone else on short notice. We talked for a bit, and I find myself to be the one prolonging the conversation because I was not looking forward to being with her. She finally forced the situation and I went with the flow, but was happy when it was finally over.

I also had one instance with an agency provider where the good impression was not mutual. She came in and I was very happy (I called to extend the session right away), I opened a bottle of wine and sat on the couch. She instead started walking around the suite (I was at Hotel Vogue) checking all the rooms/bathrooms (first time this ever happened to me). She then came back and said that she can usually size up a person and figure out what kind of session it will be within the first minute, but that she could not get a read on me and said she was intimidated.

With regards to taking the initiative (this is a much better term for it than calling it 'aggression'), for me it depends on the type of meeting. If its 3 hours or less, I will greet the provider with a kiss on the lips and use her reaction to see how comfortable she is with someone she just literally met. If this goes well then I will take the initiative based on how amorous I am at the time. Part of this is having the maturity to understand your physical limitations. I know I am not going to be able to finish twice in one hour, so there is no need to get started right away. For longer meetings, I like to immerse myself into the experience, meaning I take anything from 15-30 minutes of chit chat and wine to get to know each other better.

 

[Thor Jr]

Well, i will not claim that all my sessions were great and greeted with a smile and there was once or twice i wish i had never picked up the phone. Having said this, what i can tell you is if shes not smiling when she gets here, then i will sure in hell make sure shes smiling when she leaves.:eyebrows:

I love to laugh and have a good time and i like to make people laugh, even at my own expense, ill walk into a closed door if it will put a smile on your face. I know the ladies are there for us and we do compensate them to show up with a smile and to make us smile, but alas, its not always like this, we do not live in a perfect world. Sometimes she is having a bad day, or just not all there mentally, so we talk and find out whats wrong and go from there. Sometimes just a little talk and a few kind words, can put them back in the spirits and a smile on your face.

So this is where i stand on this subject, Greet them, make them laugh and have them jumping around like a Mexican jumping bean and moving like speedy Gonzales and when she leaves shes all smiles and cheering for my team...:cheer2:

As for the gung ho stuff, well, its all about chemistry(and a couple bottles of wine), if the right stuff is there and you can read into this, then lets have fun, some ladies like to be treated this way and others well not so much. I tend to see where our chats lead to, just a few key words here and there will let you know what kind of session your going to have. If she comes in with a smile and pins you to the wall with a wet juicy kiss, well, thats the kind of night this will be, and if she walks into the room and pushes you right onto the bed and pulls her clothes off and jumps on you, well there goes the rule book....and i :yield:

This is of course my opinion from experiences i have had and some that are yet to come, hint hint..........Ladies, this is my schedule for the month of october...........:wave: And as always, first come, first served.....:hungry:


Ok, you will have to excuse me now, i have a morning session with a a beautiful, young Vietnamese lady for a very sensual Mani-Pedi... Have to get ready for my lady adventure this weekend...:lol: Don't want to hurt the ladies and have to look good at all times. And they notice, when your sitting on the couch getting to know each other, shes talking and touching your hands and going to the finger tips and cuticles to see if there's anything there that could hurt her, very smart...One sharp edge and :nono: So guys, if you like digit action, get those claws taken cared of.....


Thor Jr

 

[Ricky bonds]

Thor, you are a rock star! Always a pleasure to read you and feel your upbeat spirit.

 

[gurgeh85]

I want to tell you a story about the girl who didn't smile at me for hours when I was with her. I was late, late, late for the appointment. I got to the George Washington Bridge (in NYC) and traffic was STOPPED. I texted the agency on the bridge there and added time to my app't as a compensation. So finally, I got down there. It was pouring rain that day, too, so I looked like a drowned rat when I showed up at her room. Not only did she not smile, she rolled her eyes at a few things that I said. But it was a long app't, so at the end we had like 45 minutes left, and she said, "Do you want to take a bath?" And I said, "Okay!" So she drew a warm bath and we got in & I could tell that she was freezing cold, so I told her to lean in, and I cupped warm water over her back and arms to make sure that she was warm. At some point, she started giving me these light, sensual kisses on my neck. I always think about that moment more than what happened previously. I think it was that that made her give a positive response to her agency about me.