A note to Ricky Bond

[Marie Montreal]

Allo,
I am wondering on which planet you live? In your posts about the fight with the other board, you claimed on different occasions that it is a board for desperate fat old girls that probably have no business...

I don't wish to start another thread about big girls but I would still like to remind you that MANY men prefer women like us and these men come in all color, shape and age and have all kind of economic backgrounds. You would be very surprise to know that I have very well known clients who can have just any women you'd like to sleep with because of their "power" but guess what they prefer big girls like myself and have no interest at all in slim women.

if you think we have less business you are wrong.

And fyi, there are also men who like all kinds of women which explains that I do duos with my spinner friends, young and older one's.

You must be very self-centered to believe that everyone thinks like you do.

Lou

 

[Ricky bonds]

Hi lou simone.. Actually in the post you are referring to, i asked that bbw's be left out of the boycott..
I never said anything about the other board being a board for 'desperate fat old girls'..
And i dont think it was on several occasions.. It was one post.
( i said that most of the advertisers there were overweight, i never said that there is anything wrong with overweight girls.. Even if that doesnt interest me.. I am well aware that it must interest some )


Here is that post..
""is the list of advertisers updated?
And why not leave 'vicky vix' out of it..lol, but of course that would be favouritism..
just another thought while im here.. Its no secret that most of the 'merbs.elite.rejected.critics' boards advertisers are made up of overweight ladies ( also affectionately known as bbw )
Their business must be tough enough as it is? they might not be able to survive a boycott if alot of people actually participated.
thats not fair to them ..so i vote leaving out 'vicky vix', and the 'bbw' squad.

You also shouldnt boycott any advertiser that advertises on both boards.. Stick to those that advertise strictly on that board if you must."""

 

[Marie Montreal]

Left out of the boycott because they are fat and old and must be desperate for clients. An you have said on other threads that we must have no business...

Anyway, that is all I had to say.

 

[Ricky bonds]

I apogize if you misunderstood, or if my post was mis-leading..
Saying that most of the advertisers there are overweight, and saying that that board is meant for 'desperate old fat' girls is 2 different things.
so if you are going to paraphrase me.. Id prefer if you actually use a portion of my quote, instead of just using your own words and putting them in my mouth.
Im glad for you that you have 'powerful' clients..if they come back, then you must be doing something right..
Lache pas.

 

[Mod 11]

Ricky, you might not see it but, what Lou is saying is exactly what I also saw and my first reaction was "Wow, he's painting wide and mean."

This is a board, not a chat site so, it's difficult to get immediate feedback when what we say might be interpreted differently than what we really mean. For that reason, it's better to make certain what we typed is really what we want to say, before hitting the submit button.

Thanks

 

[Ricky bonds]

I understand both your points lou, and mod 11.. And i do understand that written text is subject to interpretation.
Before making that comment i did take the time to see all the indys advertised there.. So it wasnt a biased comment.
However, interpretation or not.. I never used the words desperate, or old.. These were interpreted by miss simone.. Which is fine, because we are all entitled to our opinions.. And interpretations..
For the record i have nothing against any shape, size, race, creed, or culture...( except gun-toting/ nra supporting/ war monger/ republicans of course )
I used the correct term 'overweight', not 'fat'..and it wasnt to imply that thats what that board was meant for..
It was more along the lines of.. On that board a large percentage of the indys are bbw, by targeting that board for a boycott.. Its like an attack on bbw's..
Yes i do think that a bbw provider has less business than lets say a 25 year old spinner would have.. But that is my opinion, which i am entitled to...i didnt mean that the bbw providers are desperate..

So my apologies to the bbw providers that took offence, and i appreciate your point of view..
Because after all we are all entitled to our opinions, and when you post on a public forum.. You must accept public scrutiny.. And misinterpretations.. Its part of the game.


( im still curious to know why you seem to think it was mentioned by me in numerous posts when it was only mentioned in the one post that i re-quoted above..? Oh, i think that when someone clicked on 'reply with quote' and it quoted my text.. You thought it was me writing the same thing again..
And i also think there is a language barrier here.. It might explain a bit )

 

[evillethings]

Mods, this is a BS thread even for the Lounge guys!

So now we ve got advertisers calling out members for a post(s) instead of settling the supposed issue via PM.

Starting to look like the Blue board or TERB!

 

[Mod 11]

Eville, I see no harm. Everybody learned something and now understand each other.

How long did it take you to write your post? Compare this to the time you would have saved by just reading the first few lines of Lou's post and skipping to the next thread if you were not interested? Often, that's the best course of action.

As long as discussions stay polite and civilized, it's ok and here, all was good. Lou was not advertising either so, she can discuss what she want. Her post was directed at Ricky but the situation also applies to many other posters, probably to a lot of those who get offended reading such post.

Thanks

 

[StefanoUS]

I thought a LOUNGE was supposed to be a place where people went to relax? eace:

 

[EagerBeaver]

I think the thread has only served to make Ricky more of an internet celebrity than he really is. He was given more than 15 minutes of fame by Lou and he has made the most of it. However, I think Ricky's intention was not to become a celebrity, but rather to point out that a number of BBW types advertise on the other board. It seems that this bottom line point was somehow lost in all of the ensuing drama.

 

[Lily-Rose]

Her post was directed at Ricky but the situation also applies to many other posters, probably to a lot of those who get offended reading such post.

Thanks

I was offended by that post and by many others about the boycott, but that's another story.

BTW I am glad that those threads are closed. We can finally breathe and have fun...well I hope so. Life is very, very, very short

My regards,

Lily-Rose