A sex worker ever told you : ''you should meet other SPs'' ?

[MumsTheWord]

I've been with a few different SPs, not a lot, but maybe 10-15 total over the span of many years. Only one ever told me, out of the blue, and repeatidly : ''you should meet other SPs''.

Anyone else here ever got told something like that ?

I'm not rich or handsome or anything like that. But I always follow what I believe are the basic rules in this hobby : pay, good hygiene, be respectful. All SPs I contacted to book again were fine with meeting me again after the first appointment.

I guess that one SP was uncomfortable with me for some reason. As a SP, isn't the only logical reason to ever say that to get rid of a client ?

I would guess it's a very rare thing. Unless you are doing something really wrong. I was shocked when she said that, my jaw dropped to the floor.

 

[Artvandelay_importer]

I've been with a few different SPs, not a lot, but maybe 10-15 total over the span of many years. Only one ever told me, out of the blue, and repeatidly : ''you should meet other SPs''.

Anyone else here ever got told something like that ?

I'm not rich or handsome or anything like that. But I always follow what I believe are the basic rules in this hobby : pay, good hygiene, be respectful. All SPs I contacted to book again were fine with meeting me again after the first appointment.

I guess that one SP was uncomfortable with me for some reason. As a SP, isn't the only logical reason to ever say that to get rid of a client ?

I would guess it's a very rare thing. Unless you are doing something really wrong. I was shocked when she said that, my jaw dropped to the floor.

I would not take this personally. I have always been respectful, follow the rules to a T, clean and hygienic. Yet sometimes they would not want to see me.

 

[Jordd]

I've been with a few different SPs, not a lot, but maybe 10-15 total over the span of many years. Only one ever told me, out of the blue, and repeatidly : ''you should meet other SPs''.

Anyone else here ever got told something like that ?

I'm not rich or handsome or anything like that. But I always follow what I believe are the basic rules in this hobby : pay, good hygiene, be respectful. All SPs I contacted to book again were fine with meeting me again after the first appointment.

I guess that one SP was uncomfortable with me for some reason. As a SP, isn't the only logical reason to ever say that to get rid of a client ?

I would guess it's a very rare thing. Unless you are doing something really wrong. I was shocked when she said that, my jaw dropped to the floor.

To better understand where you’re coming from, were you told this recently? Did you repeat many times with her and how often?

I don’t think she necessarily wanted to get rid of you. Maybe she felt you were getting too attached or too comfortable with her. Maybe bored or unsatisfied with her? Maybe she didn’t feel she could provide what you were looking for. There are many possible scenarios.

At the end of the day, you could still book her, couldn’t you? If she was an Indy, then she could choose not to book you. But, I doubt she would do that, unless you did something bad.

She would let it be known, if she didn’t want you to rebook, in my opinion.

 

[wtvmark]

Was it a "you should see other people" breakup kind of talk? Or suggesting?
When i was active I had an sp suggest another saying they think i would enjoy the time with them for various reason but not in a "don't book me anymore" kind of way

 

[Numerati]

Nope for me never happened because I stop after the third encounter.

 

[Flyingby]

I have had SP recommend me to meet their sp friends, but not stop seeing them. It’s a complement.