An Introduction - FWIW

[Carouser]

Hi fellow hobbyists,

Just thought I would say hello, and introduce myself. I am new to the hobby, having only participated locally (Western Massachusetts), but I have been lurking on the other board for some time now. Because I am coming to Montreal for the next few days, I have been more active. I recently signed into this board, and hope it will accept this post.

I love Montreal and have been visiting the city for about 20 years now. I come in the spring for a hockey game, and in the summer for Grand Prix, Though, I have to admit I have not been to GP for a long time now. The GP has gotten too expensive and hectic for me. For the past couple of years I have limited myself to just a spring visit.

Having said this, I will say that I have just visited the strip clubs and regular clubs in the past. I was not a hobbyist at that time. Life changes will cause other changes to occur. Any man of my age 49, and who has been divorced for some time now, would agree.

I am about to bring my hobby to this great city and have been doing my homework so to speak. I am greatful for the reviews and warnings I have found on this and the other board. To show my appreciation, I look forward to contributing some of my own review soon. (or at least one )
I wish I could stay longer, but this will be a short 2 night trip


I love the chat feature here and used it to connect with "hotbabe" (Cassey).
I know that she was the subject of a hot debate recently regarding B&S, but I believe, after reading the thread and speaking directly (by phone) to her, she was as much a victim as anyone. But I think that matter has been settled. She seems liked a remarkable lady to me, as I spoke with her. She is also a little older that many of the SP's and I prefer it that way, though youth has its advantages . I booked a date with her and will let you all know the outcome later.

Thanks to the mods, who keep the board going.

Carouser

 

[Carouser]

Welcome to Merb. Unless having sex with a woman during her period is your kink, you should make sure that she tells you about it. IMHO, any SP who works during her menstruation without revealing it to her customers and feels cavalier about oozing blood on her unsuspecting John is no victim.

You have a point there. I will have to keep this in consideration.
Now you have me reconsidering my appointment with her. Hmmmm, do I take one for the team, as I have had a conversation with her, and believe her to be a basically good person, or drop her for this indiscretion?

What to do? Comments appreciated:

Carouser

 

[Just-ass-weet]

oozing blood on her unsuspecting John is no victim.

Oh, Baby, You really have a way with words...

I agree, ladies who want to work during their periods should at least have the courtesy to advise the client ahead of time... in spite of the reactions here, surprisingly few seem to care once told. Maybe that is the little head making that decision though???

Meanwhile, welcome to the board Carouser and I would suggest just asking her when you meet her.

JAWS

 

[Carouser]

Thanks for the input guys

She seems to be a beautiful woman. If she is also sweet (Imho attitude is very important also) then go for it. Just make sure that you discuss the subject with her in advance.
Good luck.
P.S. I assume that your original decision was not based solely on the fact that she was "as much a victim as anyone".

I had read of the incident before I spoke with her. I spoke by chance on the chat room. I also spoke with her on the phone. She was very apologetic and said she was regretful of the whole situation. She also promised me a very good time in hopes of a review that would redeem her.

Carouser

 

[MakeIt]

Carouser

Its your call but in spite of what has been said here, Cassey has had some excellent reviews in the past from reputable posters - just search Cassey when she worked at maids2 order. I've never seen her so I'm not here to defend her but menstrual miscalculations do happen and to be fair, you should check out all her reviews. BTW you will find other stories of other SPs who have had this problem - there was even a poll asking posters if they had ever had this experience. I forget the numbers but its happened often enough. One thing you'll notice here on MERB is that SPs with a good rep will be given a lot of slack for a bad incident such as this whereas SPs with no rep tend to get bashed. Lots of posters have agendas or axes to grind as well. So do your research well and it will pay off.

Makeit

 

[YouVantOption]

Circus Maxima

It`s your money and it`s your call. The following is for your information:

Interesting, this
https://merb.cc/vbulletin/search.php?searchid=2386045
https://merb.cc/vbulletin/search.php?searchid=2386040

 

[MakeIt]

Maxima

You are right on both of your points. However, I would argue that Cassey has simply made a couple of bad decisions. Her shilling got her tossed from Satin dreamz after a couple of days - not a good decision there. My only point was that prior to this one incident, Cassey had a couple of pretty good reviews from reputable posters while working for Maids2Order. So in the end, she is one of those SPs where you've got to make a judgment call.

If Carouser feels he'd like to meet her, then he shouldn't be put off by these incidents as she hasn't tried hiding them - he might be able to report back a positive review of her which would be in the best interest of all of us. Of course there are better-reviewed and more reliable SPs he could see as well but there is always a sense of adventure in this hobby that makes more alluring.

YVO - your links don't seem to work.

MakeIt

 

[Carouser]

What to do?

GG gave her a good review, and he has been around long enough to be reliable, no? Also in this same thread - Suave - posted. So there is that element again of shilling.

https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=22304&highlight=cassey

Ok, if you were to embark on a business in which you have only yourself to offer would you not be promoting yourself?

True, its not right to be deceitful in so doing. Whoever Suave was, and who can prove it was not, chose the wrong method for promotion.

Hotbabe is a known alias of Cassey, as she used it Mar 16 in the Chat room with me. Hotbabe was her screen name but she used Cassey to ID herself.

Don`t forget, I spoke to her personally about this subject (not about shilling, though I will bring this up next time we talk).

All in all, I am intrigued by our conversation and I think I will see her. If it doesn`t work out well, it will be a lesson everyone will benefit from, as I will post a review and thus warn against her. If it turns out well, everyone benefits again, as the review will clear some air.

Wish me luck

Carouser
I think I am in for a great time

 

[EagerBeaver]

Hi Carouser,

I just saw your introductory post. I live just a bit south of you. I don't really know this SP but my sense is she made a few mistakes starting out which is not uncommon. If you had a conversation with her and felt intrigued perhaps you should go with your gut instinct.

I have found GG to be generally a pretty reliable reviewer. He does tend to gush a bit but we have seen many of the same ladies and his reviews are usually on target.

I hope you have a great time in Montreal - keep us posted on how your trip goes.