Anyone else sick of the extra up sell?

[ManApart]

These sex workers are allowed to upsell however they want. It`s their bodies. If they feel they can make more money by upselling every little thing, then fine. It doesn`t mean that I have to buy the extras. If I find they want to upsell what I would call basic GFE services like , DATY, COB or wearing a particular outfit or even MSOG, then I just will choose not to use their services.

There are plenty of GFE escorts that offer it all for the basic flat rate. And fantastic ones too. There`s no girl that I have to have so badly that I need to pay extra for the basics. CIM fine, Anal fine. For most girls these are very unpleasant acts to do with a stranger. They aren`t essentials to a GFE experience, so an extra is fair. Of course, there are some SPs who don`t even ask for an extra on this. For many SPs CIM is included (some with swallow) and a few include Anal. If I want these services, I will just visit these type of girls.

So, at least in Montreal, we are lucky where we can get whatever we want, without having to pay extra. I`ve never paid an extra yet! I also find the girls who really pull out a list of extras are not good ones to see. They are usually into the game exclusively for the money, rather than for the love of sex and the turn on they get by turning men on. The girls who include everything, are the crazy ones who are less concerned with money and just love to get nasty. I know which type of girls I like better :nod:

 

[nylonlover]

Well said ManApart.

On my end, I have NEVER had an SP (incall or outcall) want to upsell a clothing request. If they had the clothes I wanted (usually the same basic stuff: nylons, skirt, high heels, business-look), they would do it with eagerness. Most SP's actually tell me that they like getting dolled up and that it turns them on (escapism I imagine). And yes I denied this particular SP's services, even though I still wanted her, because the up-sell not only turned me off, but it actually shed light on a bigger issue, which is the fact that this particular SP is really only about money. With my experience, that usually spells bad news in terms of the service too.....which I may be wrong (and based on the reviews on this particular SP...i probably indeed am wrong) ...but i'd rather not take the risk. Plus, i'm a dominant fella, so up-sellers usually try to have field days on me...and I never cave in to their demands, so it ends up causing friction, which results in sub-par sessions. And you fellas don't read these negative reviews, because I am trying only to post up positive reviews these days, only because negative reviews always attract some type of tension (whether it be from Merbites or agencies calling my cell and complaining....which has happened a few times to my astonishment). So i just stick to the good stories...

And i've been doing this long enough to know that they all do this for the money (nothing wrong with that), but with the amount of hotties on the SP circuit in this city, i'd rather just stick to the ones who are more fun-loving and don't have a branch up their ass over simple requests.

 

[Rex Kramer]

And i`ve been doing this long enough to know that they all do this for the money (nothing wrong with that), but with the amount of hotties on the SP circuit in this city, i`d rather just stick to the ones who are more fun-loving and don`t have a branch up their ass over simple requests.

That is how I feel too, but then I am one of the more boring hobbyists around who very seldom go beyond basic GFE services which to me are MPOS, , DATY and MSOG. CIM and SW are nice once in a while but I would not pay for them; Most of the time I don`t even exhaust the GFE alphabets anyway. One of the biggest turn offs for me is when an SP comes in and starts reciting the menu options and the price list upfront which just totally destroy the GFE experience, or the illusion of it. I don`t get asked for the donation upfront very often, but when I do I would just hand it over and move along. Otherwise I would prefer to find a inconspicuous way to give it to them, usually at the end. I tend to tip more in the past when I have a good time with an SP, but now I tend more to post a good review.

I have not been around in the MTL scene as long as some other hobbyists, but in the past few years the standard service and optional services have expanded quite a bit. It was not that long ago when CBJ was not uncommon. These days GFE including is pretty much the norm and I don`t know if any SP can make it by providing CBJ only and not . These days expectations from hobbyists are higher and some would consider COB and CIM standard GFE service which I don`t. My experience is that most SPs do not have any problem with COB, but some do have problems with CIM, not to mention SW.

Writing a negative review is a totally different topic. It is one of those NIMBY kind of things. Every hobbyist wants to know, every agency wants it posted - when it is on a girl from another agency. NL`s statement that ``.... only because negative reviews always attract some type of tension`` is definitely true. You would hear back from agency and/or Merbites.