Appropriate Rate for Vacationing w/ an SP?

[Merlot]

As for respect. The relationship is hooker/john.
I had an SP duck into a store with $100 I gave to buy a nylons, bra & garterbelt (she had forgotten or sold the ones I bought her the week before), I had made the mistake of forgetting that she also had $500 I had advanced her. She ducked out a back door.

Hey M&M,

Damn! How many idols do I have to cross off my list. At least there's always the artist formerly known as ZIGGY! That's two red lines through your name... one for giving her the money...one big one for not having sex in the changing room since you had already paid.

How could she ever run from your charm??? I guess you won't be repeating...huh?

Really, I have been shopping and gone out to lunch or dinner with some escorts and they have never asked me for the "companionship fee" before we went out...while we were out...or even before the sex after dining or shopping. And I am far from a model or a Casanova; and definitely not arranging long very profitable meetings or giving expensive gifts. Hmmmm, I always was a nice sweet guy with the ladies...even if sometimes a bastard on the boards.

Rule #1: if she is on the level there is no need to give any good escort the money in advance. I think it's been three or four years since any lady asked me to pay in advance, and the last one put her bag with the money away in the room then settled down for a drink.

By the way...NAME???

You sure know how to pick them.

Ever stop to think that the common denominator in all these bad experiences is YOU?

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

Ouuuuuch!

Tough luck,

Merlot

PS

I don't know how you could let her get away when she is just buying lingerie. Any time I bought someone lingerie I was right there with them for the view...once even in the changing booth...

 

[Mike Mercury]

Really, I have been shopping and gone out to lunch or dinner with some escorts and they have never asked me for the "companionship fee" before we went out

Funny thing is that I just handed her the envelope when I walked out of the ATM. The she reminded me to drop by the store. After waiting 30 minutes I figured it out.

Anyway I'd seen her a dozen times already and I'm sure she needed the money to get back to go to Toronto or wherever she came from.

I guess she was happy that she had the upper edge. Never saw her again.


I've had others that I've arranged to pick up and they are gone or the phone doesn't answer. The craziest stories after.

 

[sapman99]

Keep the cash until the deed is done

So far, there is only one escort I know where I feel my money is "safe" when I advance her some.

She charges me a fee smaller than what her agency pays her... All of our "social time" (more time than what we spend on "dates") is not "invoiced". So on occasion, I have lent her money to make ends meet. She's always been a trooper as far as returning her loans, and if she'd repay with a date, I never saw a difference between those dates and the ones with cash waiting at the end (even possibly better because she was grateful). But this is the one and only lady I'd do that with, so far.

I have been seeing "the ladies" on and off since 1989. One girl I lent money to always expected to repay me with dates even though I had told her that as far as I was concerned, that "time" was over between us. Another just kept telling me she would "get around" to refunding me, but never did. I tried to offer her a dates-for-refund scheme, and it was clear (with cancellations, etc.) that the clients with a cash envelope got priority. As far as she went, that money she owes me is already gone...

Sad conclusion, but in most cases, hang on to the "incentive".

 

[ProFinder]

Has to be down

I meet soo many SP's and would only take a select few with my on vacation.

I do it all the time, seriously, but I only take the ones that are really nice down to earth and want to travel.

Dont just take anyone, take one you can trusty and get along with. ( usually take her out for dinner locally here first a couple of times before you propose a travel )

Bottom line is.... these are working girls yes. But they are human beings nevertheless and all want to have fun. I take these girls on the best vacations and have great time with them. I dont cheap out when I travel. It has never happened to me before that the SP I took even gave a promiscuous look to a friend when on vacations. If you know the girl well enoughf she will show you the respect you deserve when traveling with her.

But one has to fish around abit to see if they are prime candidate to travel with.

Like I said before, there are alot of nice places you can go in this world solo, and then just rent a girl for the week or month. It is cheaper this way because you don't have to pay airfare ect. St Maarten (Dutch Antilles Caribbean island) Seamans club is my favorite.

Profinder.